repogirl:
LMAO! See them, by dia comments you shall know dem!

I throw a little crumb and predictably, like dogs, you came for it.

Hehehehe..... Y'all can use your money you don't have as gate fee into hell.
Cheapies!

repogirl:
Tahh! Shattap dia osiso, how much kobo do you have in your acct. dat you are making a noise?

Big boys don't make noise! All they say is 'Bebe spend ma money!'

So shattap and go make ya money!

Churchillsaug:
must u access someone's bank acc? Must u wait for big boy's money? Are u that gold digging? Why cant u go and make ur own money first and fall them boys hand? Poor and povarty stricken girls like u are those looking for a made guy to roll with and end up getting jacked. Go and ask Davido's baby mama

Rexhenrex:
well said some guys brag amongst there peers how there g.f has never ate there money its actually a thing of shame even if she turns down the opportunity just surprise her that's how to win a woman's heart its not by the expensive stuffs but by the little things you give her with a happy heart indeed not all girls but a large percentage just want a guy to do little things that matters like buying her rose e.t.c

Arsenate:
blehhhhh
Sis I said that type of reverse psychology (tell him he is broke so he'll try hard to prove he's not by spending or supporting gold diggers) doesn't work on me. Come up with something different

Suigeneris93:
Three ways a man shows he loves a woman: he provides, protects and professes- Steve Harvey


The bolded says it all


*modified*
I won't dignify your quoting me with a response especially if you don't have anything meaningful to say. I'm not dating you and I most likely never will, so save your breath or in this case your epistle

gloria34:
its a put off when a guy neva contributes anytin to d lyf of his gf, but same goes for girls. i feel fufilled when i buy stuffs 4 my husband no mata how small. may even be sometin to eat when i go out. make him understand dat i always think of him its a put off when a guy neva contributes anytin to d lyf of his gf, but same goes for girls. i feel fufilled when i buy stuffs 4 my husband no mata how small. may even be sometin to eat when i go out. make him understand dat i always think of him

Rexhenrex:
just came across this on f.b this morning whats your take?? I don't care what name anyone might wanna call me but I strongly support the notion of this quote below .

if you indeed love someone at least you spending on them shouldn't be a problem no matter how small.some men even find it difficult spending on there wife's or fiance some guys its a taboo to give their girl friens money or buy her a gift truth has to be told.

repogirl:
Lol, who be dis? For your mind, you dey form intellectual? Abeg swerve with your baseless points.

lastpage:


Stop portraying women as "objects of easy virtue".
Even that phrase, "spend on her"... is derogatory! Any woman worth her salt, aside the broke-azz, material-minded ones, know what l am talking about.

My junior sister had a boyfriend (which she later married) but she insists that he cannot give her gifts worth more than she can give him... till they are married. Material things was never a factor in deciding if they would get married or not.
Infact, my sister likes to spoil him and the guy sef dey do shakara as he would refuse anything worth more than 5K from her.
He once asked her to return a birthday Wrist Watch that cost about 10K back then in 2001 ...unless she would agree that he re-imburse her.
Eventually they shared the cost between themselves....... and he found a way to spend the other half on her later.
That is how to build healthy relationship were one party is not a slave to the other.

That way, even if they broke up, he can never boast of "spending my money on her" (which is what and where it ends most time with guys), he can never regret "wasting his money on her", he can never have any sort of "hold" on her, plus it makes her walk wit her head high (dignity) and the guy knows she is with her, not for his money.

No wonder Nigerian girls dont want to go out with a poor, struggling guy.
Reminds me of Monica (Money and Car! )

On the other hand, we all preach emancipation of women, equality, respect, bla-bla-bla. How owuld a man respect you, if he already 'bought" you like a slave?
Why not flip things around and say "You are not with a Man/He is not your Man, ..if you cant spend money on him"?
See how ridiculous that sounds?

Relationships that are based on "how much you have to spend on me" are bound to make the receiving party (the woman) have LESS VALUED in the eyes of the one doing the paying (the guy).

I would rather we emphasize "SHARING" between Lovers

Come and see how my sister's husband respects her so much, even till today!

Well, l can understand for women from extremely poor background who see a Boyfriend as a "Meal Ticket" and ladder to good things of life!
"Gold-Digger" is a very, very bad insult for a woman.
God punish Poverty and lack of Dignity.



Lastpage!

Churchillsaug:
the truth, like they said, is bitter. But it takes courage to accept it. I doubt if u have that, because ur previous post have already exposed u. U better start looking for something reasonable to do for ur self, instead of waisting ur precious time waiting for Dangote son to date. For ur information, they're all taken. U GO TAY FOR BUSTOP my sister

repogirl:
guy, keep your shirt on abeg. You don't even know me so why do you want to jump over a cliff on my behalf?

Relax jare! Na play I dey abeg, don't take my comments seriously before you get high BP.

I'm married with kids sef and I'm just ruffling a few feathers. Calm down bro.

Churchillsaug:
I am sorry ma'am, did'nt know u're married. I meant no insult please

pcguru1:

Its not gold digging its common sense , what would you call it when your father does it for your mum.

Suigeneris93:
Three ways a man shows he loves a woman: he provides, protects and professes- Steve Harvey


The bolded says it all


*modified*
I won't dignify your quoting me with a response especially if you don't have anything meaningful to say. I'm not dating you and I most likely never will, so save your breath or in this case your epistle

ebubey:

i totally agree with you. You find out that most guys want their girlfriend to always look nice so that they can show her off to their friends bt does not want to contribute to that beauty... which is bad

missyadorable:
Ladies,Keep your legs closed

Guys,Keep your palms supertight fisted

No sex,No spending= Beautiful relationship

Everybody hold your side

Nobody is cheated

No heartbreaks!

Rexhenrex:
wow,so a guy should only give his girlfriend gift and money when she offers him sex? Am touched then there i no dichotomy between her and a call girl i must say.

nashtiri06:
I don't like Nigerian ladies especially my tribal ladies

franzis:
Only broke guys don't provide (no matter how little it is) for their girlfriend

ThuGnificenX:

Providing is not even the problem, the problem is that they don't appreciate, they make it look like a mandatory course that you must do
Every month.

banio:
The truth is that the more you spend on a lady, the more her appreciation depreciates. She will be of the thought that you should have done more. I experienced it while dating, yes different ladies made me to come up with this generalisation. However, we can't stop spending. It's our duty.