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How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 7:43pm On Mar 12, 2016
[b]How to avoid sex.

When dating or
When new to a relation
........
Ideally you'd tell him/her
up front, before things head towards sex.,your stand on sex's involvement in your relation.
Letting them know how far you are willing to go with him/her.
And they'd be accepting and respect you and your decision/boundaries.
But this isn't always the case here are some steps you can take to avoid sex.

....Don't put yourself in compromising situations
Don't get into situations where you will easily be tempted.

Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home.
No come "over and chill"
...Meet up for/have dates in public places.
Restaurants
the movies
the park
the beach etc.

If you know that he/she gets handsy when hugging avoid it.
shake hands instead.
or
Hand hug
lace your fingers through his a give a little squeeze.

If he/she
or you can't kiss without it leading to sex,
tone down the passion in your kisses.
kiss on the cheek
nose
forehead
air kiss
or avoid kissing altogether.

But if you do kiss.
person will probably try to take it further.
Be prepared to stick by what you said before.
Do not budge just because they're begging or looking at you a certain way.
DO NOT BE PERSUADED.
If the person is getting annoying about it, stop whatever you're doing and firmly tell him/her that if he/she can't respect your decision (and your body) then you are not interested and you'll go find someone else who does respect you.
Be strong!!!
.( this section I took from wiki because they said it so well)

You don't owe anyone sex.
It's a pleasure you give of your own free will not a right to be demanded.
Not payment for a evening out.
Don't be pressured into sex.

Inspired by the despicable thread created by Mr.Pushplay.[/b]

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Smellymouth: 7:48pm On Mar 12, 2016
undecided undecided

This OP thinks we don't love sex grin

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 7:52pm On Mar 12, 2016
Smellymouth:
undecided undecided

This OP thinks we don't love sex grin
No. Its for those not wanting it or not wanting it too soon.
Virgins first or secondary
Celibates
Folk in new relationships etc.

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Smellymouth: 7:57pm On Mar 12, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
No. Its for those not wanting it or not wanting it too soon.
Virgins first or secondary
Celibates
Folk in new relationships etc.

Are you a virgin? undecided

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 8:03pm On Mar 12, 2016
Smellymouth:


Are you a virgin? undecided
Must be gettin' back what I gave derailin' other folks threads grin
...Yes,smelly....now will you be kind an not derail my thread wink I appreciate it.

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Kondomatic(m): 8:03pm On Mar 12, 2016
What's a man or woman who isn't ready for sex doing in a relationship?

Wasting his/her time I guess

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Smellymouth: 8:05pm On Mar 12, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
Must be gettin' back what I gave derailin' other folks threads grin
...Yes,smelly....now will you be kind an not derail my thread wink I appreciate it.

What is "derail"??

BTW, Pishures or adontbiliff ur virginity story

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 8:09pm On Mar 12, 2016
I DONT AGREE WITH THE OP, AVOIDING OF SEX HAS TO BE AGREED BY BOTH PARTNERS, KISSING AND HUGGING DOES NOT NECESSARILY MEANS YOUR PARTNER MUST HAVE SEX WITH YOU.

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 8:09pm On Mar 12, 2016
LORDSAMURAI:
I DONT AGREE WITH THE OP, AVOIDING OF SEX HAS TO BE AGREED BY BOTH PARTNERS, KISSING AND HUGGING DOES NOT NECESSARILY MEANS YOUR PARTNER MUST HAVE SEX WITH YOU.
This was meant for those dating.,not partners in committed relationships
I just modified an added that.
Glad you brought that up.

Smellymouth:


What is "derail"??

BTW, Pishures or adontbiliff ur virginity story
lool grin I ain't gonna do that!
.....Now get outta here! angry

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Lsofdk(m): 8:14pm On Mar 12, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
How to avoid sex
no no you're not gonna spoil things for us. simple how to avoid sex, don't go into a relationship… why will konji kill me when I've a bae

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Medunah(f): 8:21pm On Mar 12, 2016
How to avoid sex:

1) by remaining single and not going into a relationship till u ready for marriage

Now, dats how

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Smellymouth: 8:21pm On Mar 12, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:

This was meant for those dating.,not partners in committed relationships
I just modified an added that.
Glad you brought that up.

lool grin I ain't gonna do that!
.....Now get outta here! angry

Sorry dear.. grin I am erre to stay..

First time in decades, she can't type - BYE.. Hahhahahha
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Smellymouth: 8:22pm On Mar 12, 2016
Lsofdk:
.

U dey keep space?? grin
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 8:27pm On Mar 12, 2016
Hmmmmm
Medunah:
How to avoid sex:

1) by remaining single and not going into a relationship till u ready for marriage

Now, dats how

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Lsofdk(m): 8:28pm On Mar 12, 2016
Smellymouth:

U dey keep space?? grin
na so nah, op no know say we no need this kin advice

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by myfantasies(f): 8:45pm On Mar 12, 2016
I believe d only way to avoid sex is to avoid relationship

NO RELATIONSHIP EQUALS NO SEX

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 8:47pm On Mar 12, 2016
myfantasies:
I believe d only way to avoid sex is to avoid relationship

NO RELATIONSHIP EQUALS NO SEX
what of dilldo?
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Smellymouth: 8:48pm On Mar 12, 2016
Lsofdk:

na so nah, op no know say we no need this kin advice

Hahahahahahahahaha.. Badoo Sneh.. #TeamFreshPunna# grin
Re: How To Avoid Sex by myfantasies(f): 8:52pm On Mar 12, 2016
LORDSAMURAI:
what of dilldo?
U can't compare dilldo to the real thing
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 8:54pm On Mar 12, 2016
myfantasies:
U can't compare dilldo to the real thing
hmmm true though. well if u dnt want a relationship but u want constant sex, u can holla me.

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Lsofdk(m): 9:12pm On Mar 12, 2016
Smellymouth:


Hahahahahahahahaha.. Badoo Sneh.. #TeamFreshPunna# grin
gringrin btw i hear say you don leave hateu2 find fresh punna
Re: How To Avoid Sex by myfantasies(f): 9:21pm On Mar 12, 2016
LORDSAMURAI:
hmmm true though. well if u dnt want a relationship but u want constant sex, u can holla me.
Rotfl...u are very funny

Don't worry i will put dat in mind

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 9:24pm On Mar 12, 2016
myfantasies:
Rotfl...u are very funny
Don't worry i will put dat in mind
oh ok, im eagerly waiting.
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 9:26pm On Mar 12, 2016
angry you derailers better get outta here makin' chit chat!!!!!!
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 9:35pm On Mar 12, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
[b]How to avoid sex.

When dating!

When new to a relationship.
Ideally you'd tell him/her
up front, before things head towards sex.,your stand on sex's involvement in your relation.
Letting them know how far you are willing to go with him/her.
And they'd be accepting and respect you and your decision/boundaries.
But this isn't always the case here are some steps you can take to avoid sex.

....Don't put yourself in compromising situations
Don't get into situations where you will easily be tempted.

Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home.
No come "over and chill"
...Meet up for/have dates in public places.
Restaurants
the movies
the park
the beach etc.

If you know that he/she gets handsy when hugging avoid it.
shake hands instead.
or
Hand hug
lace your fingers through his a give a little squeeze.

If he/she
or you can't kiss without it leading to sex,
tone down the passion in your kisses.
kiss on the cheek
nose
forehead
air kiss
or avoid kissing altogether.

But if you do kiss.
person will probably try to take it further.
Be prepared to stick by what you said before.
Do not budge just because they're begging or looking at you a certain way.
DO NOT BE PERSUADED.
If the person is getting annoying about it, stop whatever you're doing and firmly tell him/her that if he/she can't respect your decision (and your body) then you are not interested and you'll go find someone else who does respect you.
Be strong!!!
.( this section I took from wiki because they said it so well)

You don't owe anyone sex.
It's a pleasure you give of your own free will not a right to be demanded.
Not payment for a evening out.
Don't be pressured into sex.

Inspired by the despicable thread created by Mr.Pushplay.[/b]


angry angry angry
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 9:40pm On Mar 12, 2016
BUTCHCASSIDY:


angry angry angry
cheesy hello,come in,enjoy yaself....but don't derail angry

BUTCHCASSIDY:

How dare U angry
Nothin' personal wink
BTW...
you look so much better when you emoji smile
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 9:49pm On Mar 12, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
cheesy hello,come in,enjoy yaself....but don't derail angry

How dare U angry
Re: How To Avoid Sex by myfantasies(f): 9:57pm On Mar 12, 2016
LORDSAMURAI:
oh ok, im eagerly waiting.
Just be patient

Let me look for an excuse to break up with my bf grin

Or u want to be my side guy wink
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 10:39pm On Mar 12, 2016
myfantasies:
Just be patient

Let me look for an excuse to break up with my bf grin

Or u want to be my side guy wink
lol hehehehe i want to be ur side guy then after u broke up with ur boyfriend then i can graduate into main guy.
Re: How To Avoid Sex by ThuGnificenX: 10:46pm On Mar 12, 2016
angry why. Why are you ladies this wicked?
Re: How To Avoid Sex by frankkydee(m): 11:01pm On Mar 12, 2016
I want sex but don't want relationships. but most ladies want relationship than they want sex
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Smellymouth: 11:09pm On Mar 12, 2016
Lsofdk:

gringrin btw i hear say you don leave hateu2 find fresh punna

Hahahahahah.. HateU2 just leave my crib few hrs ago grin wink ..Me and her still dey fvck na grin

But I dey find more punnas, u know how we roll wink

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