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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Henrygreat212(m): 7:30am On May 05, 2016
Medunah:
How to avoid sex:

1) by remaining single and not going into a relationship till u ready for marriage

Now, dats how
.....Nice One.
Re: How To Avoid Sex by joseph1832(m): 7:18am On May 06, 2016
Lezzlie:
[sub][/sub]

Nice advice for unblemished virgins whose bodies havn't be burnt by the fires of sex!!!

For every man and woman who have come alive in a sexual relationship that made them see life in 4D,
you know it's only divine intervention that will stop you from having the next fück.

Let's just advice for condoms, abstention has never really worked!!!
You gat that right! How's prison by the way? Hope the beans they served wasn't too watery? grin

Oops! My bad. Modified. grin
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 11:17pm On May 19, 2016
where's yours?
Re: How To Avoid Sex by kingsfield(m): 2:57pm On May 22, 2016
Medunah:
How to avoid sex:

1) by remaining single and not going into a relationship till u ready for marriage

Now, dats how
U really nailed n hammered it.


Pls, what do u mean by do not touch me in my righteous?
Re: How To Avoid Sex by MrCork: 7:15pm On Jun 09, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
[b]How to avoid sex.

When dating or
When new to a relation
........
Ideally you'd tell him/her
up front, before things head towards sex.,your stand on sex's involvement in your relation.
Letting them know how far you are willing to go with him/her.
And they'd be accepting and respect you and your decision/boundaries.
But this isn't always the case here are some steps you can take to avoid sex.

....Don't put yourself in compromising situations
Don't get into situations where you will easily be tempted.

Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home.
No come "over and chill"
...Meet up for/have dates in public places.
Restaurants
the movies
the park
the beach etc.

If you know that he/she gets handsy when hugging avoid it.
shake hands instead.
or
Hand hug
lace your fingers through his a give a little squeeze.

If he/she
or you can't kiss without it leading to sex,
tone down the passion in your kisses.
kiss on the cheek
nose
forehead
air kiss
or avoid kissing altogether.

But if you do kiss.
person will probably try to take it further.
Be prepared to stick by what you said before.
Do not budge just because they're begging or looking at you a certain way.
DO NOT BE PERSUADED.
If the person is getting annoying about it, stop whatever you're doing and firmly tell him/her that if he/she can't respect your decision (and your body) then you are not interested and you'll go find someone else who does respect you.
Be strong!!!
.( this section I took from wiki because they said it so well)

You don't owe anyone sex.
It's a pleasure you give of your own free will not a right to be demanded.
Not payment for a evening out.
Don't be pressured into sex.

Inspired by the despicable thread created by Mr.Pushplay.[/b]



STORY!!.....anyways darlin can u quickly replace yor picture profile wit a new one of u wearin mini sket?.....we hate yor curent borin picture!! angry
Re: How To Avoid Sex by makdcash(m): 11:54am On Jun 13, 2016
grin grin cheesy cheesy








Kondomatic:
What's a man or woman who isn't ready for sex doing in a relationship?


Wasting his/her time I guess
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 11:58am On Jun 13, 2016
Kondomatic:
What's a man or woman who isn't ready for sex doing in a relationship?


Wasting his/her time I guess
Are you in the relationship only for sex
Re: How To Avoid Sex by MrObontami(m): 2:13pm On Jun 13, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:

Tell me you ain't serious with this shitty thread you created angry
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 2:15pm On Jun 13, 2016
MrObontami:



Tell me you ain't serious with this shitty thread you created angry

100% cheesy
....You banned?
Re: How To Avoid Sex by MrObontami(m): 2:39pm On Jun 13, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
100% cheesy
....You banned?

DAMMNNN u teaching people how to avoid sex when you should encouraging them ?? Please remind me later that you owe me a slap. GOOOOOSH can believe this angry


Yeap I got banned just because I mention a dude's moniker in a crime related thread, not that I insult him. I guess the lame mod hand is itchy to ban somebody. Its ALLiiii this moniker will be my moniker till july 10th but the downside to this moniker is that Its been banned in the sexuality section till 2018...damn it
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 2:55pm On Jun 13, 2016
MrObontami:


DAMMNNN u teaching people how to avoid sex when you should encouraging them ?? Please remind me later that you owe me a slap. GOOOOOSH can believe this angry


Yeap I got banned just because I mention a dude's moniker in a crime related thread, not that I insult him. I guess the lame mod hand is itchy to ban somebody. Its ALLiiii this moniker will be my moniker till july 10th but the downside to this moniker is that Its been banned in the sexuality section till 2018...damn it
°Believe it tongue

.Woah! You banned for years?
.....°What'd you do
Re: How To Avoid Sex by MrObontami(m): 3:16pm On Jun 13, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
°Believe it tongue

.Woah! You banned for years?
.....°What'd you do


Believe it ?? Are you telling me you haven't have sex at all since this year kick started ?? Common, I hate it when people are being hypocritical


Yeah this "MrObontami" got banned in sexuality section till 2018 cos my "obontami" got banned and I create this one which is against the nairaland rules, you can check the rule 19 girl.
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 3:20pm On Jun 13, 2016
MrObontami:



Believe it ?? Are you telling me you haven't have sex at all since this year kick started ?? Common, I hate it when people are being hypocritical


Yeah this "MrObontami" got banned in sexuality section till 2018 cos my "obontami" got banned and I create this one which is against the nairaland rules, you can check the rule 19 girl.
OK.

°Believe me or no,but I'm a virgin Obon
So not technically a hypocrite, though I have had thoughts that I let play out embarassed so
...
Re: How To Avoid Sex by MrObontami(m): 4:04pm On Jun 13, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
OK.

°Believe me or no,but I'm a virgin Obon
So not technically a hypocrite, though I have had thoughts that I let play out embarassed so
...

You vexing ? Sorry boo don't mean to make angry



Just saying what I felt is right hahaha grin
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 4:06pm On Jun 13, 2016
MrObontami:


You vexing ? Sorry boo don't mean to make angry



Just saying what I felt is right hahaha grin
°Obon,read what I typed again
....did I sound angry?Nope.

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by MrObontami(m): 4:11pm On Jun 13, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
°Obon,read what I typed again
....did I sound angry?Nope.

Yes you did sound angry
It aLLiii though
We here to have fun ain't it??
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 4:17pm On Jun 13, 2016
MrObontami:


Yes you did sound angry
It aLLiii though
We here to have fun ain't it??
°mmm,yes.But I didn't sound angry tongue
..I wasn't, am not vexed.
Re: How To Avoid Sex by MrObontami(m): 6:57pm On Jun 13, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
°mmm,yes.But I didn't sound angry tongue
..I wasn't, am not vexed.

Good to know we cool grin
Re: How To Avoid Sex by chiwetel(f): 8:00pm On Jun 13, 2016
cheesy grin grin
Lsofdk:

no no you're not gonna spoil things for us. simple how to avoid sex, don't go into a relationship… why will konji kill me when I've a bae
really that's just the sad truth. you can't play with fire and not expect to get burnt.. except the fire is playing with u too.


waheva... grin
Lsofdk:

no no you're not gonna spoil things for us. simple how to avoid sex, don't go into a relationship… why will konji kill me when I've a bae
really that's just the sad truth. you can't play with fire and not expect to get burnt.. except the fire is playing with u too.


waheva..
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Adasun(m): 8:18pm On Jun 13, 2016
Medunah:
How to avoid sex:

1) by remaining single and not going into a relationship till u ready for marriage

Now, dats how
i want to give u a kiss for dis comment but.........




Am woundering if ur mouth is nt smellingcheesy cheesy
Re: How To Avoid Sex by richardoz(m): 3:50pm On Jun 16, 2016
@OP u have good points here, it just a pity many saw it as bullshit! I can relate with the reason why some people were acting as if it is not avoidable but the hard truth is that sex can be avoided by any man or lady (yes it depends on you)...I have seen some that abstained for years yet in a relationship, if they could I believe I can also if I want to.

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Mynd44: 5:24am On Jul 06, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
[b]How to avoid sex.

When dating or
When new to a relation
........
Ideally you'd tell him/her
up front, before things head towards sex.,your stand on sex's involvement in your relation.
Letting them know how far you are willing to go with him/her.
And they'd be accepting and respect you and your decision/boundaries.
But this isn't always the case here are some steps you can take to avoid sex.

....Don't put yourself in compromising situations
Don't get into situations where you will easily be tempted.

Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home.
No come "over and chill"
...Meet up for/have dates in public places.
Restaurants
the movies
the park
the beach etc.

If you know that he/she gets handsy when hugging avoid it.
shake hands instead.
or
Hand hug
lace your fingers through his a give a little squeeze.

If he/she
or you can't kiss without it leading to sex,
tone down the passion in your kisses.
kiss on the cheek
nose
forehead
air kiss
or avoid kissing altogether.

But if you do kiss.
person will probably try to take it further.
Be prepared to stick by what you said before.
Do not budge just because they're begging or looking at you a certain way.
DO NOT BE PERSUADED.
If the person is getting annoying about it, stop whatever you're doing and firmly tell him/her that if he/she can't respect your decision (and your body) then you are not interested and you'll go find someone else who does respect you.
Be strong!!!
.( this section I took from wiki because they said it so well)

You don't owe anyone sex.
It's a pleasure you give of your own free will not a right to be demanded.
Not payment for a evening out.
Don't be pressured into sex.

Inspired by the despicable thread created by Mr.Pushplay.[/b]

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 5:48am On Jul 06, 2016
Mynd44:
....
shocked

Re: How To Avoid Sex by softwhispers: 12:41pm On Jul 06, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
OK.

°Believe me or no,but I'm a virgin Obon
So not technically a hypocrite, though I have had thoughts that I let play out embarassed so
...
This has arrested my attention.
KingCheezyPuff, please grant it bail as other things are demanding my attention!

But seriously, I think sex, like every natural other desire, can be ignored - at least for a while...
And this has nothing to do with being religious.

As to your face, let's just say you make me miss her even more!
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 1:05pm On Jul 06, 2016
softwhispers:

This has arrested my attention.
Ki.ngChee.zyPuf.f, please grant it bail as other things are demanding my attention!

But seriously, I think sex, like every natural other desire, can be ignored - at least for a while...
And this has nothing to do with being religious.

As to your face, let's just say you make me miss her even more!
OK❤ I'll see you around, I guess. Bye smiley
Re: How To Avoid Sex by rosy1992(f): 1:32pm On Jul 06, 2016
Nice one op.

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by FireKing: 3:13am On Jul 08, 2016
LISTEN VERY WELL kingcheezy,Most girls don't keep promises just like u said now(u know it's true) .They tell you no s*x only to find out they sweetly give it to some other guy at the same time(confirmation steady )...........so we REAL GEEZ calls this 'ROUGH PLAY'.One time i told my ex no s*x becos i was praying and connecting wit GOD........she kept on accusing me of cheating on her but the truth is dat when u need GOD to help u as young gee in meeting up wit tangible GOALS that will bless u ,u need to back off from some sins..........learn to build goals into realities so the ladies won't say u neva planned ur life my real niggaz grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 2:53am On Jul 13, 2016
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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Hushee(m): 9:17pm On Aug 02, 2016
I've been reading all your comments since and I'm surprised with the ones saying you shouldn't go into a relationship when you know you're not ready for sex, is sex the only thing a relationship meant for? But then again from personal experience, most girls would cheat on you when they realize you're not ready to have sex with them.
Re: How To Avoid Sex by obontami: 10:51pm On Aug 02, 2016
KingCheezyPuff:
angry you derailers better get outta here makin' chit chat!!!!!!

hey val you got a mail go check it cheesy
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 1:01am On Aug 15, 2016
Kondomatic:
What's a man or woman who isn't ready for sex doing in a relationship?Wasting his/her time I guess
totally agree with you.
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 1:11am On Aug 15, 2016
i bet you've never been in love miss/mrs kingcheezypuff ... the thing is, there's nothing like sex in relationship dear. you make love... i mean a good one, it aint your fault, no matter how hard you try, there's nothing you can do about it. love is in contro & you just cant help it no matter how principled you are.
Advice: kindly stay away from love if you are really not ready for sex.

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