Re: How To Avoid Sex by Marlvin(m): 8:26am On Mar 17, 2016 |
Medunah: How to avoid sex:
1) by remaining single and not going into a relationship till u ready for marriage
Now, dats how This totally sums up her epistle |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Youngpo413: 2:06pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: [b]How to avoid sex.
When dating or When new to a relation ........ Ideally you'd tell him/her up front, before things head towards sex.,your stand on sex's involvement in your relation. Letting them know how far you are willing to go with him/her. And they'd be accepting and respect you and your decision/boundaries. But this isn't always the case here are some steps you can take to avoid sex.
....Don't put yourself in compromising situations Don't get into situations where you will easily be tempted.
Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home. No come "over and chill" ...Meet up for/have dates in public places. Restaurants the movies the park the beach etc.
If you know that he/she gets handsy when hugging avoid it. shake hands instead. or Hand hug lace your fingers through his a give a little squeeze.
If he/she or you can't kiss without it leading to sex, tone down the passion in your kisses. kiss on the cheek nose forehead air kiss or avoid kissing altogether.
But if you do kiss. person will probably try to take it further. Be prepared to stick by what you said before. Do not budge just because they're begging or looking at you a certain way. DO NOT BE PERSUADED. If the person is getting annoying about it, stop whatever you're doing and firmly tell him/her that if he/she can't respect your decision (and your body) then you are not interested and you'll go find someone else who does respect you. Be strong!!! .( this section I took from wiki because they said it so well)
You don't owe anyone sex. It's a pleasure you give of your own free will not a right to be demanded. Not payment for a evening out. Don't be pressured into sex.
Inspired by the despicable thread created by Mr.Pushplay.[/b]
all these are pointless especially if the b!tch is not a virgin. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Cutehector(m): 2:10pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
Medunah: How to avoid sex:
1) by remaining single and not going into a relationship till u ready for marriage
Now, dats how so one has to enter enter relationship before he/she has sex.. Just look at ur way of thinkin... 1 Like |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Youngpo413: 4:04pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
Medunah: How to avoid sex:
1) by remaining single and not going into a relationship till u ready for marriage
Now, dats how you get sense |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by MrCork: 3:25pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: [b]How to avoid sex.
When dating or When new to a relation ........ Ideally you'd tell him/her up front, before things head towards sex.,your stand on sex's involvement in your relation. Letting them know how far you are willing to go with him/her. And they'd be accepting and respect you and your decision/boundaries. But this isn't always the case here are some steps you can take to avoid sex.
....Don't put yourself in compromising situations Don't get into situations where you will easily be tempted.
Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home. No come "over and chill" ...Meet up for/have dates in public places. Restaurants the movies the park the beach etc.
If you know that he/she gets handsy when hugging avoid it. shake hands instead. or Hand hug lace your fingers through his a give a little squeeze.
If he/she or you can't kiss without it leading to sex, tone down the passion in your kisses. kiss on the cheek nose forehead air kiss or avoid kissing altogether.
But if you do kiss. person will probably try to take it further. Be prepared to stick by what you said before. Do not budge just because they're begging or looking at you a certain way. DO NOT BE PERSUADED. If the person is getting annoying about it, stop whatever you're doing and firmly tell him/her that if he/she can't respect your decision (and your body) then you are not interested and you'll go find someone else who does respect you. Be strong!!! .( this section I took from wiki because they said it so well)
You don't owe anyone sex. It's a pleasure you give of your own free will not a right to be demanded. Not payment for a evening out. Don't be pressured into sex.
Inspired by the despicable thread created by Mr.Pushplay.[/b]
....who avoids sexx on planet earth? |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by tonygee88(m): 3:30pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: [b]How to avoid sex.
When dating or When new to a relation ........ Ideally you'd tell him/her up front, before things head towards sex.,your stand on sex's involvement in your relation. Letting them know how far you are willing to go with him/her. And they'd be accepting and respect you and your decision/boundaries. But this isn't always the case here are some steps you can take to avoid sex.
....Don't put yourself in compromising situations Don't get into situations where you will easily be tempted.
Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home. No come "over and chill" ...Meet up for/have dates in public places. Restaurants the movies the park the beach etc.
If you know that he/she gets handsy when hugging avoid it. shake hands instead. or Hand hug lace your fingers through his a give a little squeeze.
If he/she or you can't kiss without it leading to sex, tone down the passion in your kisses. kiss on the cheek nose forehead air kiss or avoid kissing altogether.
But if you do kiss. person will probably try to take it further. Be prepared to stick by what you said before. Do not budge just because they're begging or looking at you a certain way. DO NOT BE PERSUADED. If the person is getting annoying about it, stop whatever you're doing and firmly tell him/her that if he/she can't respect your decision (and your body) then you are not interested and you'll go find someone else who does respect you. Be strong!!! .( this section I took from wiki because they said it so well)
You don't owe anyone sex. It's a pleasure you give of your own free will not a right to be demanded. Not payment for a evening out. Don't be pressured into sex.
Inspired by the despicable thread created by Mr.Pushplay.[/b] Nonsense!!
Nons |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 4:25am On Mar 24, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: [b]How to avoid sex.
When dating or When new to a relation ........ Ideally you'd tell him/her up front, before things head towards sex.,your stand on sex's involvement in your relation. Letting them know how far you are willing to go with him/her. And they'd be accepting and respect you and your decision/boundaries. But this isn't always the case here are some steps you can take to avoid sex.
....Don't put yourself in compromising situations Don't get into situations where you will easily be tempted.
Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home. No come "over and chill" ...Meet up for/have dates in public places. Restaurants the movies the park the beach etc.
If you know that he/she gets handsy when hugging avoid it. shake hands instead. or Hand hug lace your fingers through his a give a little squeeze.
If he/she or you can't kiss without it leading to sex, tone down the passion in your kisses. kiss on the cheek nose forehead air kiss or avoid kissing altogether.
But if you do kiss. person will probably try to take it further. Be prepared to stick by what you said before. Do not budge just because they're begging or looking at you a certain way. DO NOT BE PERSUADED. If the person is getting annoying about it, stop whatever you're doing and firmly tell him/her that if he/she can't respect your decision (and your body) then you are not interested and you'll go find someone else who does respect you. Be strong!!! .( this section I took from wiki because they said it so well)
You don't owe anyone sex. It's a pleasure you give of your own free will not a right to be demanded. Not payment for a evening out. Don't be pressured into sex.
Inspired by the despicable thread created by Mr.Pushplay.[/b]
But sex is good to share. Isn't it? |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 4:34am On Mar 24, 2016 |
pinceprinz:
But sex is good to share. Isn't it? Mmm hmm,but some don't want to whatever their reasons. This is for them.
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Re: How To Avoid Sex by MrCork: 10:50am On Mar 24, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: No. Its for those not wanting it or not wanting it too soon. Virgins first or secondary Celibates Folk in new relationships etc. ...can you change your name back to QueenValerie....I keep thinkin am talking to a guy..I ain't no fagggggggot |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 10:59am On Mar 24, 2016 |
MrCork:
...can you change your name back to QueenValerie....I keep thinkin am talking to a guy..I ain't no fagggggggot That's easily fixed......change ya mindset bye |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by MrCork: 11:04am On Mar 24, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: That's easily fixed......change ya mindset bye ...thanks boo..anyways .we need to discuss that question I asked you later..which you preffffa wearin:... pant, tong or G string! |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 11:09am On Mar 24, 2016 |
MrCork:
...thanks boo..anyways .we need to discuss that question I asked you later..which you preffffa wearin:... pant, tong or G string! Ewww Goodbye Cork! |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 11:55am On Mar 24, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: Mmm hmm,but some don't want to whatever their reasons. This is for them.
So nice of u then |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Lezzlie(m): 3:53pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
[sub][/sub] KingCheezyPuff: [b]How to avoid sex.
When dating or When new to a relation ........ Ideally you'd tell him/her up front, before things head towards sex.,your stand on sex's involvement in your relation. Letting them know how far you are willing to go with him/her. And they'd be accepting and respect you and your decision/boundaries. But this isn't always the case here are some steps you can take to avoid sex.
....Don't put yourself in compromising situations Don't get into situations where you will easily be tempted.
Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home. No come "over and chill" ...Meet up for/have dates in public places. Restaurants the movies the park the beach etc.
If you know that he/she gets handsy when hugging avoid it. shake hands instead. or Hand hug lace your fingers through his a give a little squeeze.
If he/she or you can't kiss without it leading to sex, tone down the passion in your kisses. kiss on the cheek nose forehead air kiss or avoid kissing altogether.
But if you do kiss. person will probably try to take it further. Be prepared to stick by what you said before. Do not budge just because they're begging or looking at you a certain way. DO NOT BE PERSUADED. If the person is getting annoying about it, stop whatever you're doing and firmly tell him/her that if he/she can't respect your decision (and your body) then you are not interested and you'll go find someone else who does respect you. Be strong!!! .( this section I took from wiki because they said it so well)
You don't owe anyone sex. It's a pleasure you give of your own free will not a right to be demanded. Not payment for a evening out. Don't be pressured into sex.
Inspired by the despicable thread created by Mr.Pushplay.[/b]
Nice advice for unblemished virgins whose bodies havn't be burnt by the fires of sex!!!
For every man and woman who have come alive in a sexual relationship that made them see life in 4D, you know it's only divine intervention that will stop you from having the next fück.
Let's just advice for condoms, abstention has never really worked!!! |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 11:28pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Lezzlie: [sub][/sub]
Nice advice for unblemished virgins whose bodies havn't be burnt by the fires of sex!!!
For every man and woman who have come alive in a sexual relationship that made them see life in 4D, you know it's only divine intervention that will stop you from having the next fück.
Let's just advice for condoms, abstention has never really worked!!! I think you mean YOU can't.... even then I say ya can |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Lezzlie(m): 8:13am On Mar 25, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: I think you mean YOU can't.... even then I say ya can Sex is a multi-billion dollar business and the whole world is buying!!! If you want to narrow it down to me, that's being narrow-minded. I think the early HIV campaign groups tried the prudish no-sex gospel until they were forced to retreat to the safer grounds of prophylactics. Looking reality in the eye helps us confront our fears better. |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 8:17am On Mar 25, 2016 |
Lezzlie: Sex is a multi-billion dollar business and the whole world is buying!!!
If you want to narrow it down to me, that's being narrow-minded.
I think the early HIV campaign groups tried the prudish no-sex gospel until they were forced to retreat to the safer grounds of prophylactics.
Looking reality in the eye helps us confront our fears better. Nah,just shows folk are bull headed an goat stubborn. When warned,some don't listen. Yer free ta do as you wish Lezz, this is for those who care for it.Goodbye. |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Lezzlie(m): 8:21am On Mar 25, 2016 |
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Re: How To Avoid Sex by Audray(f): 12:35am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Oh i got one.Make garlic ur BEST FRIEND! Put it in ur omelette, chew some as a snack, its delicious in noodles too! Grind some and add little spice to ur coffee.wanna smell unique?....use a spritz...or four of pure garlic oil everyday, toss the bleach aside!garlic water works wonders for ur clothes!.Trust me, once garlic is ur Bff, Sex is the last thing on anyone's mind(I know this for a fact!). Hmmm. Garlic... Nature's best multipurpose bet for a long lasting abstinence. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 12:38am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Audray: Oh i got one.Make garlic ur BEST FRIEND! Put it in ur omelette, chew some as a snack, its delicious in noodles too! Grind some and add little spice to ur coffee.wanna smell unique?....use a spritz...or four of pure garlic oil everyday, toss the bleach aside!garlic water works wonders for ur clothes!.Trust me, once garlic is ur Bff, Sex is the last thing on anyone's mind(I know this for a fact!). Hmmm. Garlic... Nature's best multipurpose bet for a long lasting abstinence. good stuff |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Audray(f): 12:46am On Mar 27, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: good stuff yeah.garlic is the worst.its such a turn off for me that i thought it deserved an Ad commentary. I hope you dont mind my asking, but do you follow your "how to avoid sex" rules/commandments? |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 12:54am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Audray: yeah.garlic is the worst.its such a turn off for me that i thought it deserved an Ad commentary. I hope you dont mind my asking, but do you follow your "how to avoid sex" rules/commandments? I pick the ones I like an can handle,yes. |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Audray(f): 12:58am On Mar 27, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: I pick the ones I like an can handle,yes. you pick the ones you can handle. Sooooooo are you saying u are an abstainer?!!! |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 1:02am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Medunah: How to avoid sex:
1) by remaining single and not going into a relationship till u ready for marriage
Now, dats how YES! Absolutely correct! But, i like sex. |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 1:03am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Audray: you pick the ones you can handle. Sooooooo are you saying u are an abstainer?!!! Virgin,so yes. |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Audray(f): 1:10am On Mar 27, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: Virgin,so yes. really.? Dear kingcheezypuff aka valerie?(i really like ur name). Cos if thats really u in that profile pic...phew! But come again.yo said you can only handle some. Why some? Why not all of em? |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 1:20am On Mar 27, 2016 |
Audray: really.? Dear kingcheezypuff aka valerie?(i really like ur name). Cos if thats really u in that profile pic...phew! But come again.yo said you can only handle some. Why some? Why not all of em? I like when men cook fer me,that would require us ta be at his house An I thinking cooking tagther is a great date idea. So if you can handle being alone in someones home, do so. That is if he/she can handle that too |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Audray(f): 4:14pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: I like when men cook fer me,that would require us ta be at his house An I thinking cooking tagther is a great date idea. So if you can handle being alone in someones home, do so. That is if he/she can handle that too hmm. So you have to be at HIS house in order for him to cook for you? Lol that's not fair o. Cooking together is great! I should know that, at least with girls.. . But you know African men and their mentality. |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Nobody: 10:05pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
Audray: hmm. So you have to be at HIS house in order for him to cook for you? Lol that's not fair o. Cooking together is great! I should know that, at least with girls.. . But you know African men and their mentality. Is to fair |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by SirGowon(m): 10:21pm On Mar 27, 2016 |
This is more like 'How to hasten your breakup' |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by KingRex1(m): 11:49pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
I still feel you haven't met the one.. |
Re: How To Avoid Sex by Macmilla(m): 5:44pm On Mar 31, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: How to avoid sex.
Avoid going to his/her home and or/your home. No come "over and chill" ...Meet up for/have dates in public places. .
Avoid going to his house? Seriously? You date a guy for a year and u don't even know where he stays, what are u? You don't want sex, yet u want to meet in public places and go out on dates, huh? Go to expensive restaurants and eat expensive food, huh? Pressure him into spending all his money to buy u presents on ur birthday, Huh? From his pocket, right? How about, don't go out on dates with him? How about pay for the food u ate when on a date with him? How about not collecting any dime from him, since u are not giving anything? How about not dating the guy at all? 2 Likes |