First of all am a firm believer in the fact that when the sex is good their is a high percentage that d marriage is good

But recently I met this gal and she kinda meets my marriage requirement, she is pretty and very well raised

Bt she is so sexually inactive, she plays little or no role during intercourse,most times just lying there like a dullard which is a very big turn off for me

I do love her nd tinks she will learn but then am so scared cus in my line of work I have handled some divorce matters and I ve found dat apart from trust the major cause of divorce is lack of gud sex

Ofcourse am sexually active and love them weird and crazy and have alwayz told my clients that a woman should be a lady in public and a LovePeddler in bed not vice versa


This thread is for matured minds only

its quite unfortunate that sex has replaced love in relationships. point of correction love and happiness is what determines a gud marriage, porn has changed our expectations during sex, if she is inactive to me its nt a problem, it can be solved by therapy,

space for sale

Just visit a prostitute biz centre near you and choose your wife there.

learner. She doesnt find u attractive. She is doing world best style with another guy

You have to tell her what you expect from her and listen to what she also wants communication is key

Mchew, gv her tons of bluefilms to watch!

Marry her... Una go dey watch cartoon in d middle of d night.

Odikwa risky

In another news, the P-Square Fan has decided!!!

The Association of Fans of the Duo, P-Square (AFDP) has resolved and reached the following communique.

That No album, singles, feature of any of the Ps will be patronized by us henceforth.
It is either P-Square or they should promote and buy their music themselves.
please be reminded also that shows are inclusive in the Ban.
we shall henceforth not attend shows with only one of the Ps in attendance. Once only one P surfaces, the show will be wholeheartedly deserted.
Any artiste, group of artiste, shows or event who choose to feature any of the Ps without the Square in performance is doing so at is or her own Risk and will as well be deserted by us.
Please be guided!!!


Signed.

All Fans of P-Square

some people are like that and might not change because is part of who they are

SMH. Teach her na.. A woman's value should not be determined on her bed performance.. Is relationship/marriage all about sex?

BabbyDaddy:


In another news, the P-Square Fan has decided!!!

The Association of Fans of the Duo, P-Square (AFDP) has resolved and reached the following communique.

That No album, singles, feature of any of the Ps will be patronized by us henceforth.
It is either P-Square or they should promote and buy their music themselves.
please be reminded also that shows are inclusive in the Ban.
we shall henceforth not attend shows with only one of the Ps in attendance. Once only one P surfaces, the show will be wholeheartedly deserted.
Any artiste, group of artiste, shows or event who choose to feature any of the Ps without the Square in performance is doing so at is or her own Risk and will as well be deserted by us.
Please be guided!!!


Signed.

All Fans of P-Square

Your head dey there!

Ok

SUPERPACK:
its quite unfortunate that sex has replaced love in relationships. point of correction love and happiness is what determines a gud marriage, porn has changed our expectations during sex, if she is inactive to me its nt a problem, it can be solved by therapy,

Havnt u heard d phrase! Prevention is better than cure!
Terapy is only a cure

alexistaiwo:
learner. She doesnt find u attractive. She is doing world best style with another guy

Lol
Even ur galfriend will find me attractive
At least more than u

rawtouch:
You have to tell her what you expect from her and listen to what she also wants communication is key

Ur ryt bro
I ve tried dat worked a bit

Surely when sex doesn't blend marriage becomes a torny, stormy journey full of frustration anger heart aches. It is that bad

BabbyDaddy:
Odikwa risky

In another news, the P-Square Fan has decided!!!

The Association of Fans of the Duo, P-Square (AFDP) has resolved and reached the following communique.

That No album, singles, feature of any of the Ps will be patronized by us henceforth.
It is either P-Square or they should promote and buy their music themselves.
please be reminded also that shows are inclusive in the Ban.
we shall henceforth not attend shows with only one of the Ps in attendance. Once only one P surfaces, the show will be wholeheartedly deserted.
Any artiste, group of artiste, shows or event who choose to feature any of the Ps without the Square in performance is doing so at is or her own Risk and will as well be deserted by us.
Please be guided!!!


Signed.

All Fans of P-Square

Get off my thread

Adaure4ever:
SMH. Teach her na.. A woman's value should not be determined on her bed performance.. Is relationship/marriage all about sex?

Its all about everything...you might as well rule out the attention part which the female folks seek more than anything if sex is not so important.

As for the op... Pardon me to say you're a dumbo, I believe you're a therapist or something similar... Yet you can't solve your own problem. Damn!... Your license should be revoked.

goodmorning40:
Surely when sex doesn't blend marriage becomes a torny, stormy journey full of frustration anger heart aches. It is that bad

Ur so ryt
Cus at dat point u find a man complaining over little things

Danfuster:


Its all about everything...you might as well rule out the attention part which the female folks seek more than anything if sex is not so important.

As for the op... Pardon me to say you're a dumbo, I believe you're a therapist or something similar... Yet you can't solve your own problem. Damn!... Your license should be revoked.

Even doctors need treatment and prescription
Dumbo....no way and ur pardoned
By the way am not a therapist.

Adaure4ever:
SMH. Teach her na.. A woman's value should not be determined on her bed performance.. Is relationship/marriage all about sex?

Of course its nt all about sex
Bt I don't wanna cheat on her when we are married

Wen my sweetheart and i started being active sexualy, i was a bit scared and thought dat maybe he is expecting me to be miss goody two shoes all de way, hence dat is wat seems to attract men to us, so i was very boring, in my heart i did wana explore, bt i was scared of wat might his reaction be. And de day he opened up to me, i realised dat wat i have been scared of all along, was actualy wat he wanted, he wanted me to be a hoe in de bedroom and i have never looked back since, and everyone is happy, and mind u, so many ppl do try to come between us, bt i know he wont wana loose his little bedroom fantasy, so do talk to yo bae, bcoz sexuality does indeed strentghen any union

klenton:



Even doctors need treatment and prescription
Dumbo....no way and ur pardoned
By the way am not a therapist.

I think you're like a Lantern, you need another Lantern to see your own yansh.

I think you need to encourage her to spice things up a bit, don't rush her. Put her hands where you'd like to be touched, remember to do a lot of pre-intimacy too, it helps partners get comfy to explore and discover spots. Moan softly when she kisses or touches you back that's how you send an acknowledgment telling her she's doing great. Don't forget to compliment her in between I.e "your lips are so kissable" "you have really luscious lips" "tell her she's beautiful" N:B all men should never tell their spouse she's beautiful When in clothes only, tell her when she's naked too. This is how I do mine (I stare at her, smile... Wait for her to catch me and she smile and go "what? Then I go" you're so beautiful baby whilst keeping the eye contact cos that's how she knows you mean it).
When you know she's comfy with all this, you can proceed with introducing a Lil style, if she's he type that lays down and you mount her, no problem...let her assume her position do your thing, say some really sweet words, when she's at ease, proceed to rolling her over putting her untop... I'm sure you can take it from here

ZeeAfrica:
Wen my sweetheart and i started being active sexualy, i was a bit scared and thought dat maybe he is expecting me to be miss goody two shoes all de way, hence dat is wat seems to attract men to us, so i was very boring, in my heart i did wana explore, bt i was scared of wat might his reaction be. And de day he opened up to me, i realised dat wat i have been scared of all along, was actualy wat he wanted, he wanted me to be a hoe in de bedroom and i have never looked back since, and everyone is happy, and mind u, so many ppl do try to come between us, bt i know he wont wana loose his little bedroom fantasy, so do talk to yo bae, bcoz sexuality does indeed strentghen any union

That's insightful

Tanks

Danfuster:



I think you're like a Lantern, you need another Lantern to see your own yansh.

I think you need to encourage her to spice things up a bit, don't rush her. Put her hands where you'd like to be touched, remember to do a lot of pre-intimacy too, it helps partners get comfy to explore and discover spots. Moan softly when she kisses or touches you back that's how you send an acknowledgment telling her she's doing great. Don't forget to compliment her in between I.e "your lips are so kissable" "you have really luscious lips" "tell her she's beautiful" N:B all men should never tell their spouse she's beautiful When in clothes, tell her when she's naked too. This is how I do mine (I stare at her, smile... Wait for her to catch me and she smile and go "what? Then I go" you're so beautiful baby whilst keeping the eye contact cos that's how she knows you mean it).
When you know she's comfy with all this, you can proceed with introducing a Lil style, if she's he type that lays down and you mount her, no problem...let her assume her position do your thing, say some really sweet words, when she's at ease, proceed to rolling her over putting her untop... I'm sure you can take it from here

Dats more like it
Very helpful...

Adaure4ever:
SMH. Teach her na.. A woman's value should not be determined on her bed performance.. Is relationship/marriage all about sex?

the way 70-80% of Nigerian men see women is really pathetic. I don't blame honestly since most ladies have proven that is what they are only good at.

Personally, I look beyond sex. If a girl like make she sabi all the styles and know how to do it, if you lack in major departments, nothing for you.

I see most guys get so attached to a lady cos of sex, my case is quite on the reverse.

klenton:







Dats more like it
Very helpful...

I'm glad it could help.

in serious relationship like marriage love is a decision not a feeling. dont loose that girl if her lack of expertise in bedmatics is the only problem.

Monalisa185:
sometimes, when I come across some questions, BELLE go just begin dey TURN me, EYES go just begin dey PAIN me and HEADACHE go just appear from NOWHERE...

Niqqa really?

I think we "co-feel" the same symptoms.

I think we are finished now.
I wonder the homes that will exist in few years to come