freecocoa:
Oh! Really? Please tell me more about it, seeing that you've been there through it all.

dearpreye:


Gender equality is not part of our so called African tradition but looting, tribalism, ethnic cleaning, jungle justice, worshipping of thieves , etc , are a part of our African traditions? Isn't it?

At Topic : How could a corrupt and depraved Senate with the likes of Yerima, a known paedophile or Dino, a known wife beater, support such a bill?

I'm sure you've not even read a page or course from such a great bill. If you had, you won't tow the path you did. The bill seeks to eliminate ALL forms of violence and deprivation against our women. What's wrong with allowing our women become all Providence has empowered
them to be?

bughead:
like a baby
do you have any problem with the way I sleep at night

Missy89:


What does ti.ts have to do with a gender equality bill?

Typical you.

mccoy47:


Common u seem smart na. Prove me right!
So judging by your sarcastic question, you mean, Tinibu's daughter is also the chairman of all marketers in lagos cuz she is smart, or tinubu's son-in-law, a commissioner in lagos cuz he can deliver? Or his cousin a lawmaker in lagos Cuz he is
Wow! The Tinubus must really have impressive genes. But I wonder why they don't shine beyond Nigeria! !!

SirShymexx:


Lol. But are ya right and left ti.ts equal?

Anyway, I can't blame them for not passing the bill cos the typical naij/black woman isn't a virtuous woman. And once you start giving them too much freedom, you'll end up destroying everything.

You can see how a lot of re.tarded female posters on here frown all the time about cooking for their partners. And a lot of black chics don't cook for their partners cos they think they've arrived. But funny enough, I was chatting to my white colleague today after work and can you believe this guy's girl has already packed the sandwich, chocolate, and drinks he'll need at work tomorrow? On the flip side, you can't tell a black biitch to do that, else she's going to start asking you if she's ya slave and telling you stories that touch the heart about how this is the 21st century.

African men need to keep these women in check and this bill might be a blessing in disguise regardless of how folks feel about it. There has to always be an order and men are naturally at the top of the hierarchical structure. African women need to respect that and maintain their position. All fingers aren't equal.

kingkakaone:

i am not against women but am here to say something real. D western world dat is pushing for gender equality are all hypocrites. wen last did a woman rule America? some ignorant people will say Hilary Clinton is there but d truth is dat u will see dat those clowns will never vote her to be the president.

uzolexis:
i am ashamed of this shameless pot bellied men we call senators

quivah:
This marlockj is a confirm mumu illiterate, just imagine all the crap he has been writing and some group of guys will come here to shout their usual nonsense : men are superior If that dude is the average man you are clamouring to be superior than I am sorry.. I'm far superior, intelligent, smarter, better than him.. Its a fact!! I'm more 'man' than him.. No reasonable woman(a wife) should even submit to such dead brain else, her life is ruined.
This aboki marloclj no even fit reach 1/3 of me and he's claiming 'Man'..
Funniest thing is, he's even proud about his stupidity.. Just imagine!!

Worthy of note. I am equal to any man, no man is superior than I am...however, I can only submit to my husband. So all those jargons about men being superior is utter nonsense and a pile of shit..
Accept this and start being a man 'beyond your third leg '..
You men and any other women out there are EQUAL. You can only claim leadership in your marriage not socially ..
Just imagine this one particular rabid dog ,,marlockj... Gosh!! I feel sorry for superiority, it has been rubbished!

Missy89:


Whatever floats your boat sir

CFCman:

I can't believe some people in this century are essentially in favor of violence against women.
It's pathetic.

freecocoa:
Just imagine the nonsense.

One even quoted the bible against equal opportunity,do I blame him? All these nonsense of discriminating/ injustice to women probably started with the bible/quran.


Useless mofos.

SirShymexx:


Lol. I like it when you use "Sir" for me. That shows I'm a real African man - the original black man.

Err, how come boys always outperform girls in STEM despite the fact that they all attend the same schools and have the same tutors? And even in technical professions, with more opportunities for women these days, men still outperform women? It's funny how folks think we're equal, yet I always bail out my female colleagues almost everyday whenever they hit a snag. And when it comes to physically attributes, you can't compare men and women.

I think the only areas where women naturally outperform men is language/linguistics/writing.

Not that I'm against the bill, but the noise about equality/inequality is just deafening/nauseating cos both sexes can never be equal - that's just the truth. And we're wired differently, apart from having different anatomies. So even if they passed the bill, it won't change anything. That said, Nigeria is on the right path and there aren't too many countries in the world where women are allowed in position of power like Nigeria. A country with back to back female finance ministers isn't that bad cos that has never happened in both the UK and US.

zicoraads:
Agreed the bill needed areas that needed working on. But shooting down the entire thing? Shocking!

blackpanda:
Gender equality is not part of our African tradition. Women must be subservient to men cos women are under men. We dont want gender equality, just the same way we dont want homosexuality. Let us follow our african values to the latter!

mccoy47:
Equal rights Equal rights yet they would be the one to always ask for help in the most mundane ish.

Equal employment opportunities yet they would ask for 6months maternity leave, heartbreak leave and if care is not taken, they would ask for menstrual cramps leave!

Equal rights yet a man is crucified before the world and press the moment a lady accuses him of rape, without even hearing his side And if tables are turned the man (victim) is mocked!

Equal rights yet a man is expected to always be the provider in a home, and in a situation where the man lags behind, he is called a lazy man, nobody calls the woman that!

Equal rights yet in dire emergency situations women and children are carried to saftey 1st. And the men maybe later.

Where do I start and where do I stop?
God will punish the next mouth that shouts equal rights. Wether owned by a man or woman!!!

Missy89:


It is like assuming blacks are not equal to their white counterparts because they dont do well in standardized tests. If i should remember correctly, you believe that the only reason blacks are not outperforming other races is because of the kind of system they find themselves in.

This STEM theory is very flawed since gender representation in STEM is not the same. Most female students prefer social sciences. If you look at the performance of both genders in that field, women will probably have better ratings. That doesnt mean they are better at it.

Back to back female finance ministers doesn't mean anything. Do you really want to compare how a western cabinet position work to Nigeria?

SirShymexx:


Lol. I like it when you use "Sir" for me. That shows I'm a real African man - the original black man.

Err, how come boys always outperform girls in STEM despite the fact that they all attend the same schools and have the same tutors? And even in technical professions, with more opportunities for women these days, men still outperform women? It's funny how folks think we're equal, yet I always bail out my female colleagues almost everyday whenever they hit a snag. And when it comes to physical attributes, you can't compare men and women.

I think the only area where women naturally outperform men is language/linguistics/writing.

Not that I'm against the bill, but the noise about equality/inequality is just deafening/nauseating cos both sexes can never be equal - that's just the truth. And we're wired differently, apart from having different anatomies. So even if they passed the bill, it won't change anything. That said, Nigeria is on the right path and there aren't too many countries in the world where women are allowed in position of power like Nigeria. A country with back to back female finance ministers isn't that bad cos that has never happened in both the UK and US.

SirShymexx:


Err, when it comes black vs. white, blacks have nothing to prove since a black man, ImHotep, will always be the father of science, medicine, and astronomy - and everything the Greeks were known for was credited to him. And we can look at the middle ages and how the Europeans studied everything they used for western civilisation (maths, sciences et al) from the black moors. Even when you read about the geniuses AAs have produced and how they're the brains behind a lot of the things the US is known for, you can't even make that argument. Even in the UK, the youngest kids to ever pass GCSE exams are black Nigerian kids from Peckham. No comparisons there.

The pineal gland that produces melanin is the reason why the cerebral cortex of the black people might be superior to that of white folks. And though I'm not making arguments for superiority - I think the reason why white people outperform black folks has more to do with the system. The system is theirs and it's natural to them. While it's foreign to us. We're wired differently and globalisation can't change that.

Anyway, leave racial and cultural differences out of gender - no correlation whatsoever.

bughead:
you can't just change what has been in centuries in just one day!


you can't just turn back history in a day!


it is always like that for ages. WOMEN can never be equal and there is nothing like gender equality.

MarieSucre:


I am very on point. You're the one who keeps evading. Let mW make it clear to you so you will no longer be confused. The issue is not definition of the terms formication. slavery or equality. The issue is the divine authority you're hiding behind to back them.

You said in a previous post and I'll paraphrase "The bible does not condone equality... woman was created from man's ribs".
I am now asking you that, if you accept the Bible's injunctions on this status, then do you also accept that the bible condones slavery and will you and your girlfriend consent to be stoned to death for fonication? Simple

freecocoa *sighs* my head aches.

lilzcee:
the day u walk to a guy u like and woo him then we can talk about equilty, u ladies expect alot from us, nothing like equilty

valslove8715:



Remind me of Jezebel in d bible

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Anyone with sense would not support that but l am sure we both know that Slavery has been abolished (there are pockets of people who sue was is similar to slavery ...like paying too little for labour or using "House-Boy/Girl).
Govt can make Laws to proscribe such Acts so that if covers both genders, instead of women alone.

Stoning fornicators is curently still being practiced as an Islamic/religious injunction and as such, only those who present themselves as adherents of such religion, have a problem with it.
Nigeria is not an Islamic country (we are secular) and as such, it is the Constitution of Nigeria, which does not have such clauses, tha govern a Nigerian in cases like fornication.
It is Muslims that must seek to either leave that religion if they dont want to be bound by such obnoxious rules or seek to change the tenets of their religion.
Remember, Christians to have to change a lot of "bad things" in their religion, to get ot the level they are today (as a religion).

Finally, let me point out that these thing shave nothing to do with Feminism or Equality of Women and Men.
*Men have been enslaved just as women
*Men have fornicated and got stoned, juts like women.
*Fornication itself is an act between both Genders........ so women should stop trying to take advantage of such things as if it applies only to them



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