The value of virginity is only in your head. In reality it is 30 seconds of pain for the girl  then it is gone forever. At least with a good bottle of wine you can enjoy it for half an hour or more  

Heeee na wa o.

@topic, I dont think I would value my babe any less if she were not a vigin (by the way, she is - I'm not  )

debosky:

As I understand it, she is simply saying state your opinion and don't force the thread towards your own opinions only and the same thing applies to her.

All I can request is that you keep your personal misgivings about her off this thread, there are other means such as a 'michelin can I meet you' thread or the 'settle your romance quarrels' thread that you can use to resolve this matter.

sorry i dont do housewives.  i dont hate her and i think you can ask that she keeps her personal misgivings about christians off this place too cos [people will always say what  they believe the bibke is saying about matters and not her opinion.  

i think that is fair as i would choose to believe the bible than some misguided teenagers.

lol

^^^ which one be lol wey you always lol?

You wey dey talk self - yes you Bilms - are [i]you [/i]a vagin?

GEW:

sorry i dont do housewives.  i dont hate her and i think you can ask that she keeps her personal misgivings about christians off this place too cos [people will always say what  they believe the bibke is saying about matters and not her opinion.  

i think that is fair as i would choose to believe the bible than some misguided teenagers.

Whatever. You talk too much.

hmmm------Virgins, AGAIN. @Poster---I'm all for airing your views, but by stating that non virgins aren't precious in Gods eyes, unless in other ways, is very very strange. I truly believe that overzealousness should be a crime, all things in moderation please!

@ezinne1212

You should work for the UN

Thor:

@ezinne1212

You should work for the UN

ok.

michelin89:

I am not a christian and I don't give a damn about your point of view.

@michelin89, just as you are a non-christian, I am proudly a christian and I have every right to air my views, its a public blog

and for your information, the only reason why I commented on what you said was because you said "where there is love there is no sin", if you don't want to go religious, then you shouldn't have mentioned "SIN", you should have just said virginity means nothing to you but please don't twist things and then say something else the next moment. No one is imposing religion on you, if you don't like it, stay away, don't try and embrace it on one side and then twist it on the other.

you also seem to be a very bitter person, take things easy pls.

nice measured response Reb,

I am still looking for 'scientific proof' that bottle of good wine > virginity.

It doesnt matter what u believe, no religion: xtianity, islam, traditional or what av u exactly smiles on sex b4 or outside marriage. Even moralists that dont believe in anything dont see it as a practice to be proud of either. The issue here is therefore not about forcing xtian opinions on others. Unless we want to deceive ourselves, by all standard of morality sex b4 or outside marriage is sexual immorality pure & simple. It doesnt matter if the people involved are in love or not. It's just that the society is so decayed we dont see anything wrong with it anymore. Anything outside of this, I just see the guilty trying to console themselves but hey that's me.
About been special to God, everybody is, virgin or non virgin. Fornication is just another sin. A liar who is a virgin is no different from a prostitute as far as God is concerned and He loves them both always ready to 4give if they ask for it.
However even tho people are no less to me virgin or not I still deeply respect ladies and guys alike that av decided to keep themselves till marriage in this age of moral decadence. It shows great discipline and self control and really it's a form of purity.

@ Reb, I love ur response gal got me blushing

capital bullshit.

Yes,u'r ryte.

being a virgin is dignity and something to be proud of, but it doesn't make you a saint, its all in the heart & your motives. Some are virgins because they haven't found the right guy and they would gladly have sex once they find their fairy-tale prince. some however do it out of self-respect and the fear of God (now that's a genuine intention).

and to the person saying "where there is love there's no sin", please don't twist things for selfish reasons, pre-marital sex isn't morally right and it is sin (if you want to look at it from a religious angle), if you are not a virgin, its okay and not the end of the world, no one is judging you (shit happens) but don't comfort yourself in lies.

I like this

debosky:

nice measured response Reb,

I am still looking for 'scientific proof' that bottle of good wine > virginity.

come to my house tonight, i will show you the 'proof' you need

,amebo no1:

come to my house tonight, i will show you the 'proof' you need

You be virgin?

debosky:

You be virgin?

ehen, wetin dey bad if reverend father debo wan check for scientific proof?

Mischievious replies when it comes to Virgin issue huh?

,amebo no1:

ehen, wetin dey bad if reverend father debo wan check for scientific proof?

Ok, I'll come tonight.

debosky:

Ok, I'll come tonight.

if she is a virgin , she won't be tonight

Havent we exhausted this topic. Has it not grown old??
Much ado about a woman's hymen.

thank GOD for ur life

spoilt:

Havent we exhausted this topic. Has it not grown old??
Much ado about a woman's hymen.

it is not buy 1 get 1 free

u no try my guy

@all
I laik u. U guys are on the pulse - very relevant, in fact, to say the least.

safe

ah

michelin89:

Whatever. You talk too much.

That's flat out mean.

Virginity is simply the absence of opportunity.

the truth is virginity in an honor and if you still got yours plezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, KEEP IT!!

true talk