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Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by OEmiohe: 10:52pm On Mar 18, 2016
Pls I need ur candid advice on what to do abt dis. Its pissing me off and we had a misunderstanding Abt this before . But he keeps saving her pictures dat she displays on watup on his phone. Honestly I am pissed off and angry. This days whenever I go thru hi phone and see her piX on his I pretend as if I don't see it. But I keep wondering why he keeps saving her pix on his phone? What Do I do abt this situation pls?
Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by NifemiOlu(m): 10:58pm On Mar 18, 2016
Express how you feel by talking.
Talk to someone he can't refuse their words. Almost everyone has such a person in their lives. Ire o.

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by ArchEnemy(m): 11:00pm On Mar 18, 2016
What to do?
Watch and pray
That the ties of hold will have no power to bind their hearts once again..
Those ex-stuff can be dangerous atimes

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by Nobody: 11:00pm On Mar 18, 2016
Delete it and save yourself from heartache

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by ArchEnemy(m): 11:01pm On Mar 18, 2016
NifemiOlu:
Express how you feel by talking.
She has probably done that but Bae won't listen or quarrel
Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by Pennsylvania: 11:04pm On Mar 18, 2016
Each time you take the phone and see the picture, delete it......simple.
Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by NifemiOlu(m): 11:12pm On Mar 18, 2016
ArchEnemy:

She has probably done that but Bae won't listen or quarrel

I don't know how people manage to stay friends with an ex to the extent of chatting on social media. He's still into the babe, it's obvious but it's disrespectful to the wife. From my own perspective, he's an immature guy. Even if he has feelings for his ex, he should work on getting over it.
Dear wife, you have married an immature guy. You know what works on him. Don't hesitate to use it.

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by ArchEnemy(m): 11:14pm On Mar 18, 2016
NifemiOlu:


I don't know how people manage to stay friends with an ex to the extent of chatting on social media. He's still into the babe, it's obvious but it's disrespectful to the wife. From my own perspective, he's an immature guy. Even if he has feelings for his ex, he should work on getting over it
Well said, she shouldn't use extreme measures on him tho or try to get even
Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by uzedo1(m): 11:17pm On Mar 18, 2016
@op don't make it to be a quarrel, when the both of you are discussing and laughing, just use idea to ask him that "hor*y why do you like saving this picture on your phone"? Then you will tell him that you don't like the way this particular girl pictures is so much on his phone. It is not all the time that conflict will resolve an issue, calmness pays. cool

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by Flexherbal(m): 11:23pm On Mar 18, 2016
It is like he still likes her.
Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by akinloluwao: 11:26pm On Mar 18, 2016
Delete the lady's number on his phone. Exes can be dangerous.
Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by eyinjuege: 11:32pm On Mar 18, 2016
akinloluwao:
Delete the lady's number on his phone. Exes can be dangerous.

Some numbers can never be forgotten no matter how hard you try, talk less of when you're still game.

Meaning , if she deletes her number from his phone, he probably still has her number in his heart.

However, he can make a conscious effort never to contact the number.

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by guyXander(m): 11:37pm On Mar 18, 2016
OEmiohe:
Pls I need ur candid advice on what to do abt dis. Its pissing me off and we had a misunderstanding Abt this before . But he keeps saving her pictures dat she displays on watup on his phone. Honestly I am pissed off and angry. This days whenever I go thru hi phone and see her piX on his I pretend as if I don't see it. But I keep wondering why he keeps saving her pix on his phone? What Do I do abt this situation pls?

Talk to him about it. And make him see reasons why it's bad for him to do so.
And stop going through his phone. It's like you're looking for reasons to jeopardize your marriage, and on purpose too.
Some things are better left unknown.

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by Rehil(f): 11:38pm On Mar 18, 2016
don't delete her number from his phone pls,it will only make him mad*bin there n done it* pls find a convenient time,in d bedroom on d bed after a wonderful section of bedmatics n let him know how u feel.let him know u feel insecure n not comfortable with him saving her pics, its making u think he still feels something for her but pls don't just tell him to delete her number or stop communicating with her.if he respect and value u n your feelings he will make decisions n u will see results.Patience pls,don't attack him ooo,men have their pride.all the best,don't loose sleep over it,be a good wife n God be with u

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by Miami11: 11:47pm On Mar 18, 2016
Warn him sternly, what kind of nonsense is that,

He is not a baby, I would sit him down and lay it out and in the open, I would also give him an option to remain with the girl or let me go.

Wonder where all this people with low self esteem come from,

You teach people how to treat you, and if you are passive about matters of exes and side chicks oh well!

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by guyXander(m): 11:48pm On Mar 18, 2016
OEmiohe:
Pls I need ur candid advice on what to do abt dis. Its pissing me off and we had a misunderstanding Abt this before . But he keeps saving her pictures dat she displays on watup on his phone. Honestly I am pissed off and angry. This days whenever I go thru hi phone and see her piX on his I pretend as if I don't see it. But I keep wondering why he keeps saving her pix on his phone? What Do I do abt this situation pls?
Edit the number of his ex to another of your number or but a new number. Then change use his ex as the profile picture.
This way, all chats come to you henceforth. grin

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by guyXander(m): 11:48pm On Mar 18, 2016
OEmiohe:
Pls I need ur candid advice on what to do abt dis. Its pissing me off and we had a misunderstanding Abt this before . But he keeps saving her pictures dat she displays on watup on his phone. Honestly I am pissed off and angry. This days whenever I go thru hi phone and see her piX on his I pretend as if I don't see it. But I keep wondering why he keeps saving her pix on his phone? What Do I do abt this situation pls?
Edit the number of his ex to another of your number or but a new number. Then use his ex's picture as the profile picture.
This way, all chats come to you henceforth. grin
Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by Vision4God: 12:07am On Mar 19, 2016
Pls kip praying for ur husband and respectfully talk to him about it.
He will change. May not b immediate, but he will.

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by Ayt27(m): 1:28am On Mar 19, 2016
Delete What's App from his phone.

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by AZeD1(m): 3:33am On Mar 19, 2016
I don't know what phone your husband uses, but most phones will save pictures automatically once you view the picture.

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by pacino26(m): 5:13am On Mar 19, 2016
Before you'd start a civil war answer these few questions.

Does he keep late nights?
Has he been avoiding you?
Noticed any change in his attitude towards his kids?
Taking secret calls?
Do you've unrestricted access to his phone?

There are times we create ghosts that haunt us, don't give meaning to what is very irrelevant and avoid setting your marriage on a crash course cuz you saw a picture.

Make a joke bout it on a very good day, probably project yourself as the wife who laughs at the ugly girls he dated before you pitied his condition and accepted to marry him. No go fight or give a puppy face o!

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by byvan03: 6:37am On Mar 19, 2016
Marriage has been ridiculed, things that shouldn't be condoned are now being nurtured. I don't even get how his ex is still his friend. You guys didn't date? I believe everyone knows where the rain started beating them. The foundation of every marriage defines the structure, hope you didn't cause their break-up.

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by Mayflowa(m): 6:58am On Mar 19, 2016
Miami11:
Warn him sternly, what kind of nonsense is that,

He is not a baby, I would sit him down and lay it out and in the open, I would also give him an option to remain with the girl or let me go.

Wonder where all this people with low self esteem come from,

You teach people how to treat you, and if you are passive about matters of exes and side chicks oh well!

Sadly, your yell can only teach a Nigerian man before marriage. After tasting the pains and expenses and trouble of marriage, the man is not scared of letting go. He also get to lose anything legally on divorce. And there are many willing girls and exes who will fill ur space the next day!

Our women are at receiving end. Laws need to be put in place to protect women and wives

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by OEmiohe: 7:16am On Mar 19, 2016
picino26. To answer your questions .
Does he keep late nights? No, he doesn't
Has he been avoiding you? no
Noticed any change in his attitude towards his
kids? no
Taking secret calls? no
Do you've unrestricted access to his phone? no

but in all I still feel bad whenever I see her pix saved on his phone and to think of the fact that he said DAT who he wanted to marry before he met me but the lady had higher expectations of him becos as at he was still trying to get on his feet financially. so, she said she wasn't going to marry him.

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by GodnGold: 8:22am On Mar 19, 2016
OEmiohe:
picino26. To answer your questions .
Does he keep late nights? No, he doesn't
Has he been avoiding you? no
Noticed any change in his attitude towards his
kids? no
Taking secret calls? no
Do you've unrestricted access to his phone? no

but in all I still feel bad whenever I see her pix saved on his phone and to think of the fact that he said DAT who he wanted to marry before he met me but the lady had higher expectations of him becos as at he was still trying to get on his feet financially. so, she said she wasn't going to marry him.
With all these,am afraid but you don't have any problem with your man.

You see all of us so...
Our problem large gan...

The only difference na the level.

Leave him to continue wallowing in ignorance.

Just be a good woman.
He's not hiding anything.

Chill like ice water.

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by Nobody: 8:29am On Mar 19, 2016
Vision4God:
Pls kip praying for ur husband and respectfully talk to him about it.
He will change. May not b immediate, but he will.
What should be the prayer point

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by pacino26(m): 9:40am On Mar 19, 2016
OEmiohe:
picino26. To answer your questions .
Does he keep late nights? No, he doesn't
Has he been avoiding you? no
Noticed any change in his attitude towards his
kids? no
Taking secret calls? no
Do you've unrestricted access to his phone? no

but in all I still feel bad whenever I see her pix saved on his phone and to think of the fact that he said DAT who he wanted to marry before he met me but the lady had higher expectations of him becos as at he was still trying to get on his feet financially. so, she said she wasn't going to marry him.


My dear, he is only passing through a phase. That phase where we think it would've worked perfectly with the other girl but at the back of our funny minds we love our family.

Now you've to play on his conscience, let it go or ask him why it didn't work out with the said ex. You'll hear a ton and learn a few things more bout your hubby. Expect him to burst in rage explaining her shortcomings and smile at her good side. Then ask him if you've earned his love. He'll certainly not still chatting her up but he'd know he never made a mistake with you.

Like I said, na ghost of would-be wife past. Nothing to fear. I got mine too

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by byvan03: 9:41am On Mar 19, 2016
Oh, he married you because the lady rejected him,that's the problem then. I hope she continues rejecting him because if not, he will happily ball with her. It's obvious he is still obsessed with her, the reason he has refused to let go.
Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by teddybear007(f): 2:38pm On Mar 19, 2016
Have got quite a lot of things to say but decided to read comments, cos if I say mine, u might not like my response. Gracias.
Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by naijathings(m): 3:31pm On Mar 19, 2016
AZeD1:
I don't know what phone your husband uses, but most phones will save pictures automatically once you view the picture.

yeah true.

since the op is only complaining about pictures, then i think this is the case.

sometimes i go through my gallery WHATSAPP PROFILE PICTURES section and see lots of pictures that got saved on my fone just because I viewed their profile pics.
Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by PresVA: 3:46pm On Mar 19, 2016
AZeD1:
I don't know what phone your husband uses, but most phones will save pictures automatically once you view the picture.
hmmmm.. Didn't know this shaaa..
Also, shey na only the girl's pictures his phone dey automatically save? Issorait cheesy

Either way, she should communicate her fears to her husband. . Simple!

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Re: Help! My Husband Keeps Saving His Ex-girl Pix From Watzup On His Phone by AZeD1(m): 3:54pm On Mar 19, 2016
PresVA:
hmmmm.. Didn't know this shaaa..
Also, shey na only the girl's pictures his phone dey automatically save? Issorait cheesy

Either way, she should communicate her fears to her husband. . Simple!
Other pictures would appear random because she's not concerned about them.

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