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What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by missyadorable(f): 10:32am On Aug 25, 2016
Now here it is: They have been married for almost 30 years with grown up children,all out of the house

They have been having problems as soon as the marriage started but the woman has managed to cope,fast and pray as expected by the society...despite the beatings,abuses and torture. At a point,her dad refunded the dowry and asked her to come home,she refused.Now both parents are late and they have been separated for abt 4 years.but as the children took sides with the woman and abandoned the man,he is now threatening to kill her diabolically or physically via charm or hired assasins...and he sends her such messages via sms.

What can she do?

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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by EfemenaXY: 10:43am On Aug 25, 2016
missyadorable:

Now here it is: They have been married for almost 30 years with grown up children,all out of the house
They have been having problems as soon as the marriage started but the woman has managed to cope,fast and pray as expected by the society...despite the beatings,abuses and torture. At a point,her dad refunded the dowry and asked her to come home,she refused.Now both parents are late and they have been separated for abt 4 years.but as the children took sides with the woman and abandoned the man,he is now threatening to kill her diabolically or physically via charm or hired assasins...and he sends her such messages via sms.
What can she do?

She should save those messages, take screenshots of them and head off to the nearest police station and show these to them, emphasising she's living in fear of her life, with the constant death threats from her husband - so it's all on record at the very least.

She should also inform her kids about this and get them to help her secure the services of a good lawyer. Then apply to court for a restraining order for him to keep away from her.

This is no marriage. Not with the constant death threats, and this man may just carry them out as promised. A separation is very much in order too.

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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by joe4real12: 11:36am On Aug 25, 2016
EfemenaXY:


She should save those messages, take screenshots of them and head off to the nearest police station and show these to them, emphasising she's living in fear of her life, with the constant death threats from her husband - so it's all on record at the very least.

She should also inform her kids about this and get them to help her secure the services of a good lawyer. Then apply to court for a restraining order for him to keep away from her.

This is no marriage. Not with the constant death threats, and this man may just carry them out as promised. A separation is very much in order too.
Exactly

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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by njiasi30(f): 12:51pm On Aug 25, 2016
EfemenaXY:


She should save those messages, take screenshots of them and head off to the nearest police station and show these to them, emphasising she's living in fear of her life, with the constant death threats from her husband - so it's all on record at the very least.

She should also inform her kids about this and get them to help her secure the services of a good lawyer. Then apply to court for a restraining order for him to keep away from her.

This is no marriage. Not with the constant death threats, and this man may just carry them out as promised. A separation is very much in order too.
U re right, d man should also b made to sign an undertaken, incase anything happens to d woman he will b held responsible. She should never cease 4rm praying... God dat saw her tru all dis yrs will continue to fight her battles and protect her... It's well, some men re nt it undecided if u ve a gd one thank God. cheesy

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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by thorpido(m): 2:15pm On Aug 25, 2016
EfemenaXY:


She should save those messages, take screenshots of them and head off to the nearest police station and show these to them, emphasising she's living in fear of her life, with the constant death threats from her husband - so it's all on record at the very least.

She should also inform her kids about this and get them to help her secure the services of a good lawyer. Then apply to court for a restraining order for him to keep away from her.

This is no marriage. Not with the constant death threats, and this man may just carry them out as promised. A separation is very much in order too.
^^That's it.

Since they are separated,she can start the process of divorce.

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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by eyinjuege: 2:48pm On Aug 25, 2016
thorpido:
^^That's it.

Since they are separated,she can start the process of divorce.

I doubt divorcing him will make much of a difference.
He will still continue his threats.
What's paining him is the fact that his children would rather be with their mother than a man they saw as abusive towards her and possibly them while growing up.
I'm sure he feels the mother "poisoned" their minds against him, but what most people fail to realise is that children are not stupid. They see things, feel things and make up their own minds.
If you act like a jerk towards your loved ones, you will be avoided. Nobody wants to be in the presence of such a person if possible.

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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by thorpido(m): 3:11pm On Aug 25, 2016
eyinjuege:


I doubt divorcing him will make much of a difference.
He will still continue his threats.
What's paining him is the fact that his children would rather be with their mother than a man they saw as abusive towards her and possibly them while growing up.
I'm sure he feels the mother "poisoned" their minds against him, but what most people fail to realise is that children are not stupid. They see things, feel things and make up their own minds.
If you act like a jerk towards your loved ones, you will be avoided. Nobody wants to be in the presence of such a person if possible.
Yes,it won't make a difference to his threats but it will make him come to terms that it is over between them.

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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by bennyrazz: 4:16pm On Aug 25, 2016
Those who sow the wind will surely reap the whirlwind. The man as sown what he is now reaping. Instead of him to crawl back and start apologising for all the terrible things he's done in the past, he's busy forming nigga. By killing his wife, will his children still come back to him? the answer is no. He was a monster then, now he wants to turn himself into a demonic monster. Efemenaxy has said it all.

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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by sexymoma(f): 4:22pm On Aug 25, 2016
I bet you this is just mare threats... the man nor fit do shingbain
u know the pple i respect most... those men wey be dem go sitdon like this wey u nor go know dia next movement
men wey be say dem nor dey brag, inshrt dem nor dey fit talk finish...biko fear dem
that man is just a coward... if na me as a comfirm ekiti gurl omo i go bounce go im house... God punish Devil. angry

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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by Pidggin(f): 4:34pm On Aug 25, 2016
SirVintageCock:
She should kill him first. Either diabolically or physically.


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OP let her report this issue at the nearest Police station, death threats should be taken very seriously
Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by MadCow1: 9:55pm On Aug 25, 2016
She should pack her bags and run..





A dead Man can't fight.
Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by Francon(f): 9:55pm On Aug 25, 2016
Let me use the Biblical term

FLEE
Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by holluwai(m): 9:57pm On Aug 25, 2016
Leave him. Simple!
Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by mhisbliss(f): 10:00pm On Aug 25, 2016
this is very serious, she should do four basic things, sign an undertaking in the police station with the man, so he will be held responsible if anything happens to her, create serious awareness(telling everyone who cares to listen about the threat including the man's family) by showing them the evidence of course, lastly pray for him and ask God to protect you from evil and be very careful about your day to day life
Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by youmour(m): 10:03pm On Aug 25, 2016
She should get on NL instead of reporting to the right authorities.agod forbid we type another RIP
Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by DICKtator: 10:04pm On Aug 25, 2016
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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by DICKtator: 10:08pm On Aug 25, 2016
missyadorable:

Now here it is: They have been married for almost 30 years with grown up children,all out of the house

They have been having problems as soon as the marriage started but the woman has managed to cope,fast and pray as expected by the society...despite the beatings,abuses and torture. At a point,her dad refunded the dowry and asked her to come home,she refused.Now both parents are late and they have been separated for abt 4 years.but as the children took sides with the woman and abandoned the man,he is now threatening to kill her diabolically or physically via charm or hired assasins...and he sends her such messages via sms.

What can she do?



Ensure she doesn't delete the messages. Write to the Inspector General of Police through her lawyer and inform him about her travails.
Don't stop there, tell your pastor and his people what is going on. Get a lot of witnesses


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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by freshvine(f): 10:12pm On Aug 25, 2016
Nothing hurt a man seeing his children abandoning him because their mother say so.

Whatever the ish between husband and wife, none of them should disabuse the mind of the children against the other.

The woman should encourage her children to recognize their father and take care of him. That way no one dies
Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by Youngetskilz23(m): 10:12pm On Aug 25, 2016
kill him first.... dazzol.....
Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by HaroldFinch(m): 10:13pm On Aug 25, 2016
1. Get a lawyer 2. Inform the police 3. File for divorce 4. Continuous efforts on prayers 5. Resettle in another town.

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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by Chubhie: 10:15pm On Aug 25, 2016
Involve the police and stay grounded spiritually.
Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by Youngetskilz23(m): 10:15pm On Aug 25, 2016
sexymoma:
I bet you this is just mare threats... the man nor fit do shingbain
u know the pple i respect most... those men wey be dem go sitdon like this wey u nor go know dia next movement
men wey be say dem nor dey brag, inshrt dem nor dey fit talk finish...biko fear dem
that man is just a coward... if na me as a comfirm ekiti gurl omo i go bounce go im house... God punish Devil. angry
talk is cheap tongue...

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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by MARKone(m): 10:18pm On Aug 25, 2016
SirVintageCock:
She should kill him first. Either diabolically or physically.

Abi o my brother.

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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Aug 25, 2016
Suck his cuck, dammit! The answer is in the question already.
Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by amclimax(m): 10:24pm On Aug 25, 2016
she be cripple?

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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by agbajeoladotun: 10:25pm On Aug 25, 2016
I think the person should report him to God in prayers first and then repot him to the police for appropriate action... That's a threat to kill her. Very dangerous. God will rescue her.
Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by OCTAVO: 10:25pm On Aug 25, 2016
angry
Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by Lilimax(f): 10:34pm On Aug 25, 2016
I will only tell you to pack your things and leave the house cos you not leave to tell the story embarassed
Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by lielbree: 10:52pm On Aug 25, 2016
Runaway and live or stay and die. Your choice
Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by Dandas: 10:53pm On Aug 25, 2016
hmmm I just want to remind her of a man called USAIN....THE FASTEST MAN according to records, if she does not have his phone number I can help her by contacting him to borrow us his legs for her to use it......madam, if your husband keeps threatening you with death and you are still within his reach .......your name na voice mail...
you have no reason to stay anywhere or him knowing your where about... remember a staying that says...."YOU CANNOT BEND A DRY STICK"
Run away as far as you can and be prayful......God dey your side.
chakam..........

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Re: What Can A Woman Do If Her Husband Keeps Threatening Her With Death? by greggng: 10:55pm On Aug 25, 2016
I ve said it in many fora. It is better to remain single than to get in an abusive marriage.

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