In a relationship with a guy for almost 6 years and on facebook his status read SINGLE, while mine reads Engaged.Whenever I opened his page,all I see is pictures of different beautiful ladies,could it be that they are just friends or he's dating them ? I've told him to change his status but he wont .

How will you feel n What will you do if you were to be in my shoes?

You been in a relationship for what number of years
Girl common, that's enough time for one to loose interest in you.
Anyway, if you've talked to him and he still refused to change his profile then something could be fishy.

amosexy:

In a relationship with a guy for almost 6 years and on facebook his status read SINGLE, while mine reads Engaged.Whenever I opened his page,all I see is pictures of different beautiful ladies,could it be that they are just friends or he's dating them ? I've told him to change his status but he wont .

How will you feel n What will you do if you were to be in my shoes?

Don't blame facebook, he is to be blamed, 6yrs and he is still putting up single?
He need to make up his mind

well, your guy might just want to be discreet. i personally dont like revealing too much info about myself on facebook.
There are other ways to know if he's committed to you rather than bother over his relationship status on facebook.

Its very simple. Six years on and he is definitely not sure about you. He just cant afford to scare away a potential wifey who may be on his facebook by changing his status on his profile.

naira-ner:

Its very simple. Six years on and he is definitely not sure about you. He just cant afford to scare away a potential wifey who may be on his facebook by changing his status on his profile.

this post here says it all. Move on.

U.want.to.end.a.6.year.relationship.cos.of.your.guy's.facebook.status
Pls.girl. . Look.for.something.concrete.

A.million.and.one.people.change.relationship.status.everyday. Its.jus.for.fun.
Find.outt.if.he's.still.interested.in.you.in.some.other.way.
Pls.dont.base.it.on.Facebook. Plssss,

naira-ner:

Its very simple. Six years on and he is definitely not sure about you. He just cant afford to scare away a potential wifey who may be on his facebook by changing his status on his profile.

 so all I've done emotionally,sexually,physically and financially for close to six years does not make me a potential wify ?  OKUNRINNNNNNNNN !!!

Its very simple. Six years on and he is definitely not sure about you. He just cant afford to scare away a potential wifey who may be on his facebook by changing his status on his profile.

What i suggest you do is to be honest with yourself. You must have observed a number of signs from him probably enough to help you come to a solid conclusion on the true situation of things.

Act now!!!

Six years with a guy and you ain't married yet?
Oku ise o. In un okurun e lu wa, ogbologbo ni an

Gator

you know how it is nao, we went to school together and up till the time we were serving,he wasnt like that, he was a loving and caring guy.I guess his problem is that I might be seeing someone abroad and I told him I wasnt even though I am. Why cant he just change that status ,that is the only problem I av with him. My status was on single but he was the one day suggested i changed it and I did.

amosexy:

Gator

you know how it is nao, we went to school together and up till the time we were serving,he wasnt like that, he was a loving and caring guy.I guess his problem is that I might be seeing someone abroad and I told him I wasnt even though I am. Why cant he just change that status ,that is the only problem I av with him. My status was on single but he was the one day suggested i changed it and I did.

u can't eat ur cake and have it, u got no case, u are even worst than him

amosexy:

Gator

you know how it is nao, we went to school together and up till the time we were serving,he wasnt like that, he was a loving and caring guy.I guess his problem is that I might be seeing someone abroad and I told him I wasnt even though I am. Why cant he just change that status ,that is the only problem I av with him. My status was on single but he was the one day suggested i changed it and I did.

You're abroad and he's in Nigeria?

Leave him.

Since you said you told him and he refuse , i fink somfin is wrong

justwise:

u can't eat ur cake and have it, u got no case, u are even worst than him

u took the words right out of my mouth!!!!

amosexy:

Gator

you know how it is nao, we went to school together and up till the time we were serving,he wasnt like that, he was a loving and caring guy.I guess his problem is that I might be seeing someone abroad and I told him I wasnt even though I am. Why cant he just change that status ,that is the only problem I av with him. My status was on single but he was the one day suggested i changed it and I did.

ur the kind of person that makes good, affectionate and loving guys go sour and rotten!

You people are funny, so because they've been together for 6 yrs and they are not married, it's not a real relationship?

Anyhoo, it has nothing to do with facebook and his status on it. What are the pictures you mentioned? Just regular pictures? There's more to the story. Either way, you should know if you're in a real relationship or not. READ the signs!!! They are usually clear.

justwise:

u can't eat ur cake and have it, u got no case, u are even worst than him

i didnt even see that part. i wonder why she's crying.

FL Gators:

You're abroad and he's in Nigeria?

Leave him.

what has that got to do with anything? All these folks that mistakenly find themselves outside the shores of nigeria and suddenly think they are now above everyone else. What if it had been the other way round?

justwise:

u can't eat ur cake and have it, u got no case, u are even worst than him

Oh I gat no case now becos I'm lady or What? I'm seeing A guy doesnt mean I'm strewing him  and I didnt even start untill I discovered he was misbehaving.

Should I just fold my arms till I'm 40 and keep praying that he stops misbehaving ? Cos i dont know what u mean by I'm even worst ooo. If i'm your younger sister and for the past 7 months my BF has bin acting funny,What will u adivce i do?

had to change my post as i read urs, if he's misbehaving then dump him, if he doesnt want to be with u any longer dont allow him to waste ur time jor!

amosexy:

Gator

you know how it is nao, we went to school together and up till the time we were serving,he wasnt like that, he was a loving and caring guy.I guess his problem is that I might be seeing someone abroad and I told him I wasnt even though I am. Why cant he just change that status ,that is the only problem I av with him. My status was on single but he was the one day suggested i changed it and I did.

Both of You have issues.
Your status once read single and You're cheating . . . . .
His reads single and he could be cheating four times more than You are.
Why complain when You're both the same? You both should berra go your frigging separate ways or continue misleading Yourselves.

gloriuss:

@poster, but seriously how can one do something, but not want that same thing to be done to them?!
Not only does it defy the law of KHARMA, whatever you sow, you shall reap! So as ur doing ur own, dont complain coz he is doing his!

please say that again and again, she must be having a bad dream

Mr. Man, you need to slow your role and stop thinking too much to my post.

Above who?

She said he's in Nigeria and she said she's cheating. He won't change his status, even when she insisted. They're both tired of the relationship.
Only thing to do is move on

gloriuss:

@poster, but seriously how can one do something, but not want that same thing to be done to them?!
Not only does it defy the law of KHARMA, whatever you sow, you shall reap! So as ur doing ur own, dont complain coz he is doing his!

I said i didnt start seeing any guy untill after 7 months of waiting on him !!! Do u want me to come here i play innocent dat i wasnt seeing any guy even wen I noticed he's changed? I'm nt holy like u my sister pardon me.

justwise:

please say that again and again, she must be having a bad dream

aw man! and i changed the post aswell. . . . i felt i was being too harsh!

amosexy:

Oh I gat no case now becos I'm lady or What? I'm seeing A guy doesnt mean I'm strewing him  and I didnt even start untill I discovered he was misbehaving.

Should I just fold my arms till I'm 40 and keep praying that he stops misbehaving ? Cos i dont know what u mean by I'm even worst ooo. If i'm your younger sister and for the past 7 months my BF has bin acting funny,What will u adivce i do?

Two wrongs doesn't make a right, so stop complaining,

FL Gators:

Mr. Man, you need to slow your role and stop thinking too much to my post.

Above who?

She said he's in Nigeria and she said she's cheating. He won't change his status, even when she insisted. They're both tired of the relationship.
Only thing to do is move on

i repeat what has that to do with anything? Do some thinking before posting . . . people living next door to each other still cheat so what?
Sorry . . . not reading too much to your post, it just baffles me to read such immature thinking.

amosexy:

I said i didnt start seeing any guy untill after 7 months of waiting on him !!! Do u want me to come here i play innocent dat i wasnt seeing any guy even wen I noticed he's changed? I'm nt holy like u my sister pardon me.

You both are not serious. End of story.

davidylan:

You both are not serious. End of story.

hmmm, i actually agree. Its not easy to move on but I think at this point in time, its sooo necessary!

davidylan:

i repeat what has that to do with anything? Do some thinking before posting . . . people living next door to each other still cheat so what?
Sorry . . . not reading too much to your post, it just baffles me to read such immature thinking.

What da hell is wrong with you, David?
If you feel the inch to insult, find someone else to exchange your 2cents with. As mature as your post is sounding, it's not tempting enough for me to entertain.

gloriuss:

aw man! and i changed the post aswell. . . . i felt i was being too harsh!

U are not being harsh gloriuss, she should wake up and smell the coffe, there is no evidence that her man is cheating BUT she is, its just status thing, yes his character changed,that doesn't mean he is cheating,

Why is she crying blood here?

amosexy:

I said i didnt start seeing any guy untill after 7 months of waiting on him !!! Do u want me to come here i play innocent dat i wasnt seeing any guy even wen I noticed he's changed? I'm nt holy like u my sister pardon me.

hahA i didnt even see this, it shouldnt be that hard to move on nw,