my boyfriend saw me in a colleagues car and has made up his mind that am going out with him and says the only way he can forgive me is if i pay a hundred thousand naira into his account. do i pay and we continue our relationship or do i call his bluff? we've bin going out 4 a while,i love him to bits and show him. i can swear he loves me even though he acts funny what do i do

If you love him you will give him every last penny you own 

That is if you are stupid of course 

You should kick his ass out of the door. What kind of low life excuse for a man is he demanding money from you?

Best get rid of him and find a real man

Poster,
are you his girlfriend or his personal cash dispensing A.T.M ?

This is called blackmail!!!

Don't give him any money. If he wants to go let him go, a better guy will come along. Haba!

sounds like hes trying to love-vendor u?!

You have got to be kidding me!   Please, telling you to pay N100,000 is not a sign of love! Call his bluff, cos that has to be a very expensive joke! And poster, i wouldn't go swearing by his love anytime soon, because you're not in his head!

improve the offer give him more than he asked

C'mon gf, wat ar u waitin 4? Give him ur ATM card.

You no even happy say he dey ask you. Com on give him the money and stop being stingy. . .

ibejiibeji:

my boyfriend saw me in a colleagues car and has made up his mind that am going out with him and says the only way he can forgive me is if i pay a hundred thousand naira into his account. do i pay and we continue our relationship or do i call his bluff? we've bin going out 4 a while,i love him to bits and show him. i can swear he loves me even though he acts funny what do i do

U must be kidding me, just see ur doctor asap, cos u need a proper mental check-up

Obviously this guy doent love you and doesnt want to loose out completely, hence, im asking for a hundred thousand. If I were you, I'd move on. A man who loves u would never blackmail u

Am i watching nollywood. Did you say your guy demanded money to blackmail you. he is unserious as for you, wetin u dey do for colleagues car, na there he dey start.Na so my former girl dey talk till she left me. Tell the guy your mind but don't leave him cos guys no too plenty for outside.

looks like you were ridin dirty in a Bentley or Ferrari with your colleague?

orisirisi

ibejiibeji:

my boyfriend saw me in a colleagues car and has made up his mind that am going out with him and says the only way he can forgive me is if i pay a hundred thousand naira into his account. do i pay and we continue our relationship or do i call his bluff? we've bin going out 4 a while,i love him to bits and show him. i can swear he loves me even though he acts funny  what do i do

Tis is funny?
Relationship is now business to some ppl . . .honey he doesnt love u.

Hehehehe. . . . .my brothers have become wise!!

After all the maga don pay moves of women, brothers are hitting back. If men beg they must spend money buying gifts, flowers and the like not so? I suggest you pay the 100k sharp sharp and stop forming.

Let's think better. Miss or Mrs, you might have probably collect at least 500,000 thousands naira from this guy and he felt like withdrawing 100,000 out of this. if flies are bitting a wounded person nobody will talk but if a wounded person is killing flies everyone will shout at him that he has no mercy for little things God has created. You self give am, you even fit don collect pass 500,000 from the guy hand.at least when you have been collecting money from the guy,nairaland people no hear anything and when the guy ask money, you broadcast am like channels television

a guy back in school ran a different scam on his GF - he told her cults boys were harrassing him because of her - so she was giving him 'ransom money' to settle the guys which of course, the BF and his friends hammered.

equal oppportunity ripping off eh - if a man can maga, a woman can maga better

by the sounds of it,if this relationship keeps going,
you will be broke.he would have married you and taken all the money
then divorced you. WAKE UP GIRL WAKE UP

ibejiibeji:

my boyfriend saw me in a colleagues car and has made up his mind that am going out with him and says the only way he can forgive me is if i pay a hundred thousand naira into his account. do i pay and we continue our relationship or do i call his bluff? we've bin going out 4 a while,i love him to bits and show him. i can swear he loves me even though he acts funny what do i do

The guy is nothing but a low self-esteem carrier.
Move on before he infects you.

Don't ever give out a kobo.

A beg throw him out. i hate it when broke a$$ people try to reap where they did not sow.

Girl, this is not love. Its stupidity.
If he had asked for money under a different circumstance, its considerable.
Begin tear race like Chioma Ajunwa

Can't you beg him to take 50k? Okay, highest, 65k instead of the 100k? Since he can be bought, he can also be priced like stockfish for market.

On a serious note, that bf is a liability not a lover. if he's broke why can't he ask for assistance like a normal guy instead of blackmailing you for being in another guy's car. If he caught you in bed nko? Na land you go buy for am for Lekki as compensation. Shiorr

Relationships have now turned into money making ventures. O ga ju

d only reason i was in my colleagues car was cos it rained and he gave me a ride home, am doing nothing with him. haven't seen my boyfriend in 7 days, av bin miserable,av calld him so many times and sent him lots of msgs but he's totally indifferent. i guess the writing is on the wall.

ibejiibjavascript:void(0);eji:

d only reason i was in my colleagues car was cos it rained and he gave me a ride home, am doing nothing with him. haven't seen my boyfriend in 7 days, av bin miserable,av calld him so many times and sent him lots of msgs but he's totally indifferent. i guess the writing is on the wall.

what do i do?

Now that's pure blackmail!

You said the writing is on the wall?


SO it simply means its time to move on and get yourself another bloke girl!

ibejiibeji:

my boyfriend saw me in a colleagues car and has made up his mind that am going out with him and says the only way he can forgive me is if i pay a hundred thousand naira into his account. do i pay and we continue our relationship or do i call his bluff? we've bin going out 4 a while,i love him to bits and show him. i can swear he loves me even though he acts funny  what do i do

u know this love thing cost money and i can assure u his asking price is pretty cheap, so if i were u, just to prove ur undying love for him, give him double, he will never leave u nor forsake u  [size=1pt]as long as that account of urs keeps doing its job[/size] 

ThoniaSlim:

Now that's pure blackmail! 

what blackmail? this is pure whitemail! we all know that it is a fact that relationships cant survive without money, at least that is what a lot of naija girls tell me 

Now, I hope he is just joking. Or this is totally not true. And this is from someone that claims he loves you. If this is a true story, you better rethink your relationship with this guy.

@adaku123, baby are u sayin d guy is dirt? OR are u goin 2 rephrase d sentenc b4 u get spanked

thank u guys so much, ur advice is opening my eyes. i am even suprised and very impressed that even d guys r against this.