SUPERPACK:
You need a resounding thunderbolt slap from angel michael to reset your sense to default.

nonsoyoungprof:
firstly u need Jesus , secondly u need to read ur book thirdly DAT one concern u and ur local govt chairman....mtcheww

Amoto94:
What you need right now is preoccupying yourself with beneficial books to keep you on the right track, discuss this issue with your mum/sis. And stay away from him

obiorathesubtle:
do whatever you want with your overly emotional mix-breed boyfriend..

Then why.....
Why,did you bother comin' in here Igbo

Kbeaut!
Sugar he don't love you,you gotta go ....mentally. Stop thinkin' bout em.
He wasn't no good.
My suggestion if you can stand it try dating
With the new dudes you meet you what be thinkin' bout whatever his name is.

SUPERPACK:
You need a resounding thunderbolt slap from angel michael to reset your sense to default.

Kbeaut:
I get what you're saying. I guess I'm scared to bring up the topic to my mom especially knowing she will say I told you so. Although thank god for one thing all this doesn't interfere with my school. I have learned to cry & study at the same time. I'm very famous at my school library lol.

KingCheezyPuff:
Then why.....
Why,did you bother comin' in here Igbo

nonsoyoungprof:
firstly u need Jesus , secondly u need to read ur book thirdly DAT one concern u and ur local govt chairman....mtcheww

Kbeaut:
I get what you're saying. I guess I'm scared to bring up the topic to my mom especially knowing she will say I told you so. Although thank god for one thing all this doesn't interfere with my school. I have learned to cry & study at the same time. I'm very famous at my school library lol.

obiorathesubtle:
valerie?? Lol..


Because I could.. Freedom of speech and all the reasons to give a bear hug to democracy..

I see....In other words yer a menace on the pages of Nl cause ya can be ....

AccidentalGenius:



I just hope u don't turn out to be like those girls who can't stay single for a year. Face your books and yes, what you're going through will hurt u really bad until you realise there a better things to worry about in life

Royle2014:
What you feel is not new at all. I'm glad u finally had the courage to end this bondage in the guise of relationship that you were in.
How long you should hurt varies with how emotionally invested you were in this relationship nd for ur case, ur investment was pretty high (if u get dividends, u would be on Forbes magazine)... The first few weeks after a brkup are usually the toughest and u run d risk of relapsing but please dont. He may beg u, nd promise change but trust me, it takes alot of hardwook and dedication to change nd if you make up with him, u would notice same trends. What to do?
1 cry all u want to! Bury ur face in ur pillow and weep bitterly... Cry till u have no more emotions to draw tears from... The more u bottle up feelings inside u nd try to ignore what u feel for him, the longer your hrt would ache
2. Accept that both of u can not be together. He is not your soulmate. U guys were not meant to be... If it was, u would have worked out somehow... Dont hope to run into him in d future nd mayb start over again... Hope brings expectations... Expectations would hinder ur healing process.
3. Forgive him and forgive yourself.... Yes u feel stupid for falling in luv, and u are probably swearing never to love again. Forgive yourself, it is a blessing to experience love, it is a blessing to b able to sacrifice everything for the happiness of another person...not everyone in their lifetime would be capable of showing such love, so b happy u are capable of loving. U would love again... U would with time
4. Stay single for a while, dont jump into a rebound... U would end up hurting yourself.... Nd plz dont end up hating your ex, it would hinder ur moving on.... The opposite of love is not hate... It is INDIFFERENCE...

KingCheezyPuff:
Then why.....
Why,did you bother comin' in here Igbo

Kbeaut!
Sugar he don't love you,you gotta go ....mentally. Stop thinkin' bout em.
He wasn't no good.
My suggestion if you can stand it try dating
With the new dudes you meet you what be thinkin' bout whatever his name is.

Kbeaut:
I started university at 17. I'm graduating soon & going to medical & law school as a double major. So I won't have the time to get a new boyfriend at all. & I actually don't want a boyfriend. If it wasn't for him I would never date. I don't find interest in any other guys at all.

Kbeaut:
thank you, I will try. I think physically it's easy to let people go, but mentally is the hardest!

KingCheezyPuff:
I see....In other words yer a menace on the pages of Nl cause ya can be ....

Lass, you're one brilliant cheezypuff!

obiorathesubtle:
Lass, you're one brilliant cheezypuff!

I know

AccidentalGenius:



You don't have to date another guy to forget this guy. Don't be weak. Learn to be independent.

Kbeaut:
I don't get how some of you people claim to be Christians but yet have not one Christian bone in your body. This might not be your problem but for me I hold it inside everyday so it felt good to vent, but yet I am met with such negativity. Is it because none of you have never made mistakes? I didn't realize in the bible it was written to step on your fellow brothers and sisters at their weakest points. Or to add into negativity because you find someone's pain funny or you're bored. Let me go read my bible again. I guess I missed some parts. But I do remember where it said that you shouldn't judge others, for one day you will be judged on that same scale you judged another... K.