If you keep making yourself do this, it starts to become a habit. It gets easier and easier to do. After a while, it starts to flood over to where you never expected it to flood. You'll find yourself doing this in front of people you know , which wasn't the project. You didn't plan that but oh my, there you go chatting with the check out girl about her really cool ear-rings!

Your shy friend is thinking "man, I wish I could talk to people like that , " Next thing you know, people will start saying, oh my god, that you are not shy! No way, you're outgoing! And friendly! (If they only knew the truth , )

It will even start to leak out into your personal relationships. Once you get yourself started, it keeps building.

Here is the Tip


1. Eye contact:
So this is easy. I'm talking to someone who is probably busy they really won't notice if I made eye contact or not. (I can even be looking at the polish while I tell them how great it is , ). Once I got a little used to that, I started moving on to speaking to people I normally wouldn't speak to. That's harder.

I started by just making eye contact with people and smiling. You'd be amazed. Most people are surprised when someone just looks at them and smiles. This might sound bad, but old people especially just eat that up. This can be fun. I'll walk around the street or the chemist shop or a super market, make eye contact and smile at everyone I pass.

You need more of this then take a step and contact me MARITAL MAN on [email]maritalman@gmail.com] [/email]

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I'm shy to read this thread.

This thread id too damn long.

A marriage counsellor?

@Poster; In the scenerio of making new friends (esp. gfs), u'll be taken as an unserious guy when u smile almost all the time at them, especially if u have a comical smile. So, HELL NO, thank u.

I am shyier, shyiest.

Cool? Awesome.

very lame advise

Men una no go kill me 4 NL, funny guys.bt come 2 think of it,can u xplain dis post@poster