mamagee3:
The Guy who claimed to be in a relationship with me just left me for nothing. I knew he wanted nothing but se.x. Thank God I didn't give him se.x. I didn't trust him and my fears have come to pass. So, how can I ever trust anyone else who claims to "love" me?

YOUNGELDER1:
why ya'll ladies make it seem like sex is a one way thing ? like the sex is only been enjoyed by the guy like sex is the only thing you can offer in a relationship ?? and once you allow him have sex with you then you given him the all and all in a relationship ?? can relationship really exist without sex ? girls want to keep themselves for their future husband or whatever but you dont want him to save for his future wife ?


OP You really need to check your brain.

mamagee3:

And why is your response based on se.x?

What about the fact that he tried to trick me into having se.x? And the way in which he treated me?

YOUNGELDER1:



the way he treated you wasn't stated ma'am .
" I knew he wanted nothing but se.x. Thank God I didn't give him se.x. I didn't trust him and my fears have come to pass." like sex is the only thing you can offer in a relationship

mamagee3:

Okay.

He didn't ever take me out nor do anything with me; that's the issue.

We never hung out together. He either visited me in my house or I visited him. I feel so unwanted right now.

He told me about how he loved me and everything but his actions showed otherwise.

mamagee3:

Okay.

He didn't ever take me out nor do anything with me; tha's the issue.

We never hung out together. He ther visited me in my house or I visited him. I feel so unwanted right now.

He told me about how he loved me and everything but his actions showed otherwise.

YOUNGELDER1:


sorry about how you feel . i don't know you personally so i wont judge you . but maybe he does see you one of those lose girls and all but then about the issue of hanging out together . how about you ask him out yourself ??

mamagee3:
The Guy who claimed to be in a relationship with me just left me for nothing. I knew he wanted nothing but se.x. Thank God I didn't give him se.x. I didn't trust him and my fears have come to pass. So, how can I ever trust anyone else who claims to "love" me?

mamagee3:
The Guy who claimed to be in a relationship with me just left me for nothing. I knew he wanted nothing but se.x. Thank God I didn't give him se.x. I didn't trust him and my fears have come to pass. So, how can I ever trust anyone else who claims to "love" me?

mamagee3:
The Guy who claimed to be in a relationship with me just left me for nothing. I knew he wanted nothing but se.x. Thank God I didn't give him se.x. I didn't trust him and my fears have come to pass. So, how can I ever trust anyone else who claims to "love" me?

Sunkyphil:
if yall know who u are advicing u wouldn't at all

funmind:

Who's she?

RadicallyBlunt:
I no blame d guy at all. He don dey patient enough. We no knw am but wetin we dey hear about am thru you don show say he try. Even heaven sef knw say he don try. If God send angel to befriend u, even the angel sef go vex leave you

Besides every story get 2 sides, u keep emphasizing ur part of not been taken out and expect us to take ur side without knowing or hearing from d guy

And BTW, the reason he didn't hang out with you is bcus o would definitely embarrass or irritate him in public..its in you; u can explode anytime. So I congratulate the boy

Make I no lie you, you no fit get bf no be curse and I knw say u never get bf b4. Na only spirit fit date you. And u say u don born 2. How d belle take enter you sef

mamagee3:
The Guy who claimed to be in a relationship with me just left me for nothing. I knew he wanted nothing but se.x. Thank God I didn't give him se.x. I didn't trust him and my fears have come to pass. So, how can I ever trust anyone else who claims to "love" me?

virud:
So...We've reduced relationship to (just) sex?
BTW mamagee3...Why did you reduce all his hustle to sex? What did he do? What did he say,? Why did you conclude?

mamagee3:

I concluded that he wanted nothing but se.x because every time I visited, he would want to sleep with me and everytime I declined, he would call me an Ogbanje.

Plus he didn't ask me things about me like you would expect a be to ask or know. He never knew my birthday or anything else apart from my name and the little details I told him.

Plus throughout the "relationship", he would often try to manipulate me into keeping him company. The whole relationship seemed like he was using me for company and nothing more.

RadicallyBlunt:
I no blame d guy at all. He don dey patient enough. We no knw am but wetin we dey hear about am thru you don show say he try. Even heaven sef knw say he don try. If God send angel to befriend u, even the angel sef go vex leave you

Besides every story get 2 sides, u keep emphasizing ur part of not been taken out and expect us to take ur side without knowing or hearing from d guy

And BTW, the reason he didn't hang out with you is bcus o would definitely embarrass or irritate him in public..its in you; u can explode anytime. So I congratulate the boy

Make I no lie you, you no fit get bf no be curse and I knw say u never get bf b4. Na only spirit fit date you. And u say u don born 2. How d belle take enter you sef

mamagee3:
The Guy who claimed to be in a relationship with me just left me for nothing. I knew he wanted nothing but se.x. Thank God I didn't give him se.x. I didn't trust him and my fears have come to pass. So, how can I ever trust anyone else who claims to "love" me?

mamagee3:
The Guy who claimed to be in a relationship with me just left me for nothing. I knew he wanted nothing but se.x. Thank God I didn't give him se.x. I didn't trust him and my fears have come to pass. So, how can I ever trust anyone else who claims to "love" me?

raumdeuter:
The guy sef try to be your boyfriend for more than a week. Given how ugly you are covered in stretch marks, obese dumb and your teeth like that of a rat

mamagee3:
The Guy who claimed to be in a relationship with me just left me for nothing. I knew he wanted nothing but se.x. Thank God I didn't give him se.x. I didn't trust him and my fears have come to pass. So, how can I ever trust anyone else who claims to "love" me?