adanny01:


I dont care about my wife's phone cause i trust her. If i dont, and she keeps it away from me, trust is broken and we are no longer husband and wife.

My phone has a lock which i put because my wife likes digging into the phone. I have been caught before and we had problems. If my marriage to her is threatened now because of that lock, i have no option than to remove and give her full access. I expect same if it were the case with her.

You dont sound married cause if you are , you will know these things even if you are not told. Its same as keeping secrets. I can as well assume my wife has HIV and hiding from me. It will break our home.

The op's wife is an extremely foolish woman or the op is just too predicatable to her that she can do whatever she likes.

YelloweWest:
Leave her alone and stop checking her phone.

Taryur3:
Black American wives don't care if you accuse them cheating or not.they will just tell you it's non of your business keep off from my private life.lols.....am a living witness.na una advice makes me write wetin I write o.

linearity:


Dud, you paint with too wide a brush.

olaleye1355:
Did you pay her bride price? Is she legally married to you? Is she formarly your wife?

Abeg make us proud.

Taryur3:

How bro?

linearity:


Dud, you paint with too wide a brush.

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

hardbody:


cell phones are personal, use yours and let her use hers. What you do not know won't hurt you. when you dig up the dirt, what will you do with it? Let her be. if she is sinning, her sins will find her out.

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

linearity:


You might have some points in your comment, but your use of the generalization "Black American wives" just lump everyone that fits that demography into one bucket and labeled them the same, which is not true.

Pre phrasing it with, some or most you have met or heard about is more accurate.

EgunMogaji:


#Lobatan

Some men are already women in their house. They just need to wear skirt to complete the transformation.

Aviero:
Buy a decryptor diskette, and plug it into the phone memory via the USB port. You would see "decrypt mode" enable? Tap yes. Then gently insert the phone into an electric kettle and wait for it to discharge electronic currents in and out of the cyclonic membrance. After that, insert the pattern that's on your own phone, and wait for 5 minutes.

Whatever she does with her phone and whatever messages she's receiving will reflect on your own phone.

Thanks!

You're welcome.

healthyarena:

Someone can't even play with this one, he will just implicate the pesin

sisisioge:
Hian! The watsap thing mehn! Even those that aren't quilty of cheating might appear to be. If any guy should encrypt, abi na wetin them they call am, my convo on watsap, he should at least extend me the cutesy of allowing me to explain myself. It might not be what he tot it to be. All those sweetheart, babes, baby, darling....chai! No be small thing.

djpumping:
You shouldn't have let her realized that you are suspecting her,that's the tactics I used until I caught my wife with undeniable evidences. Now she will be very careful with her chats and text messages and you may never get any reasonable evidence against her. Mind you,they can be very smart at times but God will always expose them if we keep our own part of the conjugal promise.

Amakabill:
..i can check her phone records from our system for a fee...very simpe

Akeemsafe:
A good relationship with trust worthy partner should allowed both party access to each others phone. Especially married couples.

Avalon316:



Shut up.

Oya ,go and tell the USA to stop policing the world. The superior sex must always check and control the weaker sex.

Life isn't fair. Life isn't meant to be fair.

sugarbeesmith:
is it wrong for a husband to check his wife phone? hell no

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

Decryptor:


The guy who talked about Decryptor diskette is what grabbed my attention to the thread because my moniker was mentioned!

Funny enough OP, there is a sure fire way to detect if your wife is cheating on you via the kind of conversations she has on her phone! I'm sure her phone has a memory card. If it does, leave the rest to me....that is if you are in Abuja. Just get her memory card and i will run a software which will check for cache files where chat and messages are stored on the card. The messages are usually in Unicode format and with the use of another software, i will be able to decrypt the unicode into something readable! I have done it for people before and i will do it free of charge for you.

WARNING: The findings after i do the forensics MIGHT BREAK YOUR MARRIAGE!

YelloweWest:

Are u married? My guess is no.

Married folks should learn to trust ttheir partners