Bros check yourself first, are you satisfying her emotionally, physically and financially? What are the things she desires which you don't do that another man will comfortably and willingly do for her? Are you proud of her? Do you showcase her like a priceless jewel that she is? If no, then you are to blame for your predicament!

SAINTSAMURAI:
all join, afta he enter finish, then she can tell him d truth. all na part of investigation.

You too much, jare.

6fit:


are u serious?

Fear don dey catch you? Hope you are not op's wife?

Do nothing and wait. If she is cheating on you it will come to the open in no distant time.

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you

It's simple; just hack her phone and get a result.

Ramanto:
What Other Reason Could She Possibly Have For Hiding Her Phone From You? Wake Up My Brother

This.

sorry bro, if you cant access her phone she is definitely bleeping someone. I don't need proof on that, if you guys are married you don't need to do any decrypting trash, on a weekend while she is chatting look for a way to snatch the phone from her, why would your wife make you feel uncomfortable at home. who married who. I have experienced this first hand and she was actually fucking someone, if am married and it happens it will take the grace of the almighty for me not to kill her in my house, I hate lies and pretense, the moment you get tired , just tell me and I will leave the house for you. sorry, you married the wrong person

It's obvious, marriage is meant for transparency. Meanwhile she might just be doing that to make u feel jealous.Just take ur time,so that it wouldn't destroy ur marriage.

Most men lack patience including me, but i learnt it. Just be patient, she cant be perfect forever, u will definitely catch her but dont make her suspect u and u sharpen her wiseness, however cleaning every trace. Look carefree and she will serve into ur hand. Above all, put ur mind to rest. It might be difficult, but learn to do that

adanny01:


I dont care about my wife's phone cause i trust her. If i dont, and she keeps it away from me, trust is broken and we are no longer husband and wife.

My phone has a lock which i put because my wife likes digging into the phone. I have been caught before and we had problems. If my marriage to her is threatened now because of that lock, i have no option than to remove and give her full access. I expect same if it were the case with her.

You dont sound married cause if you are , you will know these things even if you are not told. Its same as keeping secrets. I can as well assume my wife has HIV and hiding from me. It will break our home.

The op's wife is an extremely foolish woman or the op is just too predicatable to her that she can do whatever she likes.

whiteeyes:
Bros check yourself first, are you satisfying her emotionally, physically and financially? What are the things she desires which you don't do that another man will comfortably and willingly do for her? Are you proud of her? Do you showcase her like a priceless jewel that she is? If no, then you are to blame for your predicament!

of all what you put out there, absolutely non is a reason to cheat. so I don't get your point, if she is already cheating and he starts caring will it change the fact that she has cheated?

Una no dey sleep or are u guys chatting from fuel queue? Haba!!

zheroes:
sorry bro, if you cant access her phone she is definitely bleeping someone. I don't need proof on that, if you guys are married you don't need to do any decrypting trash, on a weekend while she is chatting look for a way to snatch the phone from her, why would your wife make you feel uncomfortable at home. who married who. I have experienced this first hand and she was actually fucking someone, if am married and it happens it will take the grace of the almighty for me not to kill her in my house, I hate lies and pretense, the moment you get tired , just tell me and I will leave the house for you. sorry, you married the wrong person

We are alike Sir. For better for worse means squat if neither party is happy.

I'll rather be divorced than stay in a combat zone marriage where we plan and strategize against each other.

hassanlolu:
Most men lack patience including me, but i learnt it. Just be patient, she cant be perfect forever, u will definitely catch her but dont make her suspect u and u sharpen her wiseness, however cleaning every trace. Look carefree and she will serve into ur hand. Above all, put ur mind to rest. It might be difficult, but learn to do that

its not easy to be patient on this matter, she is his wife and not a girlfriend.

EgunMogaji:


We are alike Sir. For better for worse means squat if neither party is happy.

I'll rather be divorced than stay in a combat zone marriage where we plan and strategize against each other.

I tire ooo my bro. the stress of huzzling and natural problems are there , then someone will now come up with one artificial problem? I will ex am sharply. rubbish

whiteeyes:
Bros check yourself first, are you satisfying her emotionally, physically and financially? What are the things she desires which you don't do that another man will comfortably and willingly do for her? Are you proud of her? Do you showcase her like a priceless jewel that she is? If no, then you are to blame for your predicament!

Come here let me kiss and marry those whiteeyes. On the promise that when we get married, you would also reciprocate all this lovely gestures and more positive ones!!!!

galadima77:
Una no dey sleep or are u guys chatting from fuel queue? Haba!!

This fuel queue no get part 2. The phone is the only company in this trying period.
And with the phone, comes the temptation of nairaland. Let's blame Seun!!!!

Aviero:
Buy a decryptor diskette, and plug it into the phone memory via the USB port. You would see "decrypt mode" enable? Tap yes. Then gently insert the phone into an electric kettle and wait for it to discharge electronic currents in and out of the cyclonic membrance. After that, insert the pattern that's on your own phone, and wait for 5 minutes.

Whatever she does with her phone and whatever messages she's receiving will reflect on your own phone.

Thanks!

You're welcome.

LMAO
Gawd mental people on this website

Amakabill:
..i can check her phone records from our system for a fee...very simpe

Can I get your services?

@OP, ignorance is bliss. Be careful of the questions you ask, you might not like the answers. If your wife is cheating, it will eventually show. Otherwise, she may have people flirting with her via chat or she watches porn and she doesn't want you to know. Simple answer: let it go.

I'm married and despite the fact that my wife has no issue allowing me peruse her phone, I have no interest in doing so. Just in case, I don't want to know. Like I said, ignorance is bliss.

Suigeneris93:



I don't get

Your DP na

Grab her phone and run away from the house. Come back only after you finish checking everything. Better still i can ive you a website that can spy on her phone. Once installed on her phone you will see everything and even listen to live phone calls using a computer or any other device connected to the internet.

ngmgeek:
I am very particular about my phone.
Does that mean that I am cheating? No.
Your problem is insecurity. Plain and simple.

Shut up joor. He's not insecure,his wife for Gods sake. Look at this ones forming not insecure.

First tine to a successful relationship be it business or marriage is effective communication and openness n sincerity,you cannot hide your phone from your wife or husband,both of you should have easy access to it once there's an atom of insincerity that relationship or marriage is on the verge of collapse.

zheroes:
of all what you put out there, absolutely non is a reason to cheat. so I don't get your point, if she is already cheating and he starts caring will it change the fact that she has cheated?

my point is this, generally, women are wowed by very simple and easy things. For instance, a woman can respect her man to the maximum if he simply shows acts of loves eg. Talk to her when she's down, listen to her, comfort her, etc. You see, it's more difficult to keep a man faithful than a woman but the problem with the woman is that once she is committed to a cause, she excels perfectly and that's why a woman's unfaithfulness might have more weight.
Again, in my submission I noted that if he had lapsed in some instances, then he's the probable culprit. However, he still has a remedy, the deed if true, has been done, but, retrace your steps and woo your woman back. Very practicable!
This issue should not be analysed from a man's viewpoint because I bet just like you've done, all men will find no justification for a woman to cheat on her man.

jayhumble:
With the current economic situation of the country... Any man who thinks he's a sole owner of any girl/lady/GF/wife must be high on petrol. Well, except if u are rich enough cuz money is what naija girls care about before sex anyway, but if u are in the average or struggling class and you are expecting 100% commitment and loyalty from a naija girl of this generation. Na sorry be your case.

All girls has got alternatives these days... Even married women got some sugar daddy giving em money and stuff the hubby can't afford... That one no be new things except u be learner

It's even funny that struggling Nigerian guys still fall in love these days... Choiii love kwa.

Better stop worrying urself and Take a chill pill OP...

This is why I don't blame those having baby mama's.
Good or bad, I think that's the only solution to this rubbish.

U never serious.... Are u the wife and her the husband


Are u sure u legally married her


She might be the one wearing trouser while u wore skirt , if u are man enough u have the will power to confront her , were I came from we don't tolerate any trash from women....


Less I forget she might be the bread winner.... Another guy is crewing ur wife and u are here calling her ur loving wife.... Can't u steal her username or password, or find a way to monitor her chats



Charlie IDONBELIV ur telemundo novelas story...

whiteeyes:
Bros check yourself first, are you satisfying her emotionally, physically and financially? What are the things she desires which you don't do that another man will comfortably and willingly do for her? Are you proud of her? Do you showcase her like a priceless jewel that she is? If no, then you are to blame for your predicament!

My dear yes you have a little point but do you know there's no reason whatsoever of any one to cheat esp in marriage? Just that the world has changed if your spouse isn't doing the needful .....there are ways to press for them cheating should not be an option? You 're dealing with human who is limited and cannot give you all you want in life and ok they other person doesn't satisfy her or him then you jump to the next? Stop the lame excuse. Before you get married please build yourself up don't wait for another person to come n build you. I know it's a man's responsibility to man up financially but he can't build you emotionally. Pls men should be careful the kind of woman they marry,know their thought pattern and what drives them not every woman is worthy to be a wife.

HAA...

I THANK GOD IT'S NOT TOSYNE2MUCH'S TIPS THAT MADE U SUSPECT HER



wire was here "_*

I won't advice u to go to a herbalist to do that "sex and stick together" charm the Yorubas call "magoon" ... But I think she's definitely hiding something from u, she has a relationship outside marriage.

for clarity sake, its not a crime to have a password, I do have a password and its same as my wife's, we can both access each others phones uninterrupted, I remember forgetting my fone at a friend apartment, they tried accessing it up to the 9th time. the moment a partner isn't allowing you access to their fones I guess you both should be sleeping always with a condom, because something is amiss, all the guys I know who don't allow their wify access to their fones have numerous girlfriends, guy be wise.

SAINTSAMURAI:
all join, afta he enter finish, then she can tell him d truth. all na part of investigation.

so in d process of busting a cheating wife, he is free to cheat too...hmmm...interesting...but...its none of my business

Bros! I wish you well o...... Women will forever be secretive. If you wanna live long sir...... Think less about going through her phone. Cos if you find something incremenating, You either kill somebody or get killed




N.B you can get an iPhone for her and make sure she never access to the cloud account. Then you should be able to track her activities on the phone

lebroske:
Great nairalanders, i know you people are exceptional in giving good advice to people because i have been following this tread for some time. Though i am new.
i am suspecting that my lovely wife is cheating on me. The reason is that, each time i want to go through her phone, she picks up a fight. Whenever i want to use it for something else, that would be the time she will want to use it. I feel she is hiding something from me but i really want to get an evidence so that i could confront her. Most of the time when she is chatting with someone on phone, she hides the conversation. i wonder why?
Pls great nairalanders, what do i do in this situation? I don't want to confront her yet because i don't hv a proof.
Please no insult. Thank you