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|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by tensazangetsu: 6:15pm On Apr 07, 2016|
oglalasioux:Plus there are more men than women in the world.
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by joseph1832(m): 6:22pm On Apr 07, 2016|
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|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by Cutehector(m): 6:26pm On Apr 07, 2016|
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|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by HaneefahRN(f): 7:49pm On Apr 07, 2016|
Lolz. Hmmm, sing? Maybe.
I can't fault that. Also the Societal expectation of women nowadays is also crazy, like most men would say they want independent women, they don't want liabilities, bla bla bla, yet these women are expected to hold their work and home front strong. Get something doing so you contribute to the family's finances and still be on ground too, for the domestic chores, clean up after the man, take care of the home, kids, in-laws and all, be there to try and satisfy him so his eyes don't wander, listen to the Society judge them on what and what not to do etc, this would drive anyone crazy.
I believe we won't be having these issues if each gender plays his or her roles with mutual love and respect.
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by lezz(m): 8:37pm On Apr 07, 2016|
It's a tricky one for modern women, having to define their role in motherhood, wife, a professional and a career woman.
Our grandothers didn't have it this tough.
But I think men caught up with the Feminist rant asking women to go live their dreams and be whatever they want.
Now no one seems able to draw the line between a woman's role in the house and her career.
Men can never be domesticated, his nature is adventurous and exploring.
Same way women can never be altered to be career driven and running after the rat race!
She'll always be drown to her children and husband.
Your caring nature isn't made to withstand the dogfight of power, glory and risky adventures.
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|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by doveda: 8:57pm On Apr 07, 2016|
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You still do not understand why we are here
One of the main reasons women were prompted to seek financial empowerment, to be self sustainable lies on the rationale that money is power. I am not referring to our forefathers here in Africa. I am talking about women who came afterwards. There was a shift in gender balance when the white man came. I THINK IT WORSENED THINGS.
However in the west, that was one of the primary reasons for feminist movement. And they were right to have demanded for economic empowerment. Money is everything now. You can say whatever you like. in the 21st century, if you do not have power, you are nothing.
The day man stops attributing power, control and authority to money, we might just be willing to sit at home all day and cook and clean.
Ehm, to your point, having women walk long hours, join the rat race, office fights, promotion struggle, competing for office bonuses is not what most women are cut ought for.
When you observe things, you seem to selectively pick what you like and disregard the rest. FYI, My greatgrandma used to leave her husband and children in Ijebu and walk for days to Oyo to buy Aso Ebi to sell in Ijebu.
It was easy for them because they lived in a family compound with other members of the family. Even when they do not share compound, they share simple things like food. People do not live like that any longer.
I don't know where you come from but women in my ethnic group were extremely hard-working. They even travelled as far as the Northern parts of Nigeria and beyond just to trade.
You cannot tell me what is womanlike. I have my boobs and vagina to prove that. Thanks for the unnecessary concerns.
Transfer or no transfer. It shouldn't be so for couples. The Western society have managed to live without it. In situations where transfer is necessary, they give you an allowance to move and offer other support. If it were a promotion for your wife, would you rather the family stay with you because you are a man instead of moving with your wife. Men who choose to be inflexible have decided not to consider their wives professional lives as an integral part of the family. Shikena!
Why wouldn't they be sad?
They are not more or less sad because of it. There have been lots of injustices against women to be sad about. Making money and kicking asses are definitely not part of it.
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by doveda: 9:04pm On Apr 07, 2016|
Biggest lie ever
Keep deceiving yourself
The earlier you realise that it lies with how they have been brought up, the better for you.
I have met men who do not mind doing domestic chores. Why? Upbringing; they do not believe that marriage should absolve them from taking care of themselves and their environment; and personal factors.
In those days, our mothers used to have lots of kids and relatives. Even a new wife is given a small child when she is going to her husband's house. They do not live in the type of buildings we live now. They do not need to do the things we have to do today to make the house orderly.
Why do you think older people tend to be very good with apportioning chores?
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by doveda: 9:18pm On Apr 07, 2016|
What we have now are lazy and moro.nic men who have chosen not to change because of its advantages. Bunch of big babies who wouldn';t mind if their wives bathed for them, brush their teeth, wipe their asses after pooing.
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by Nobody: 9:21pm On Apr 07, 2016|
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by lezz(m): 9:21pm On Apr 07, 2016|
doveda:You're often wont to edit your posts, sparking conflict of response.
Gather your thoughts like your make-up accessories before you hit the submit button.
Men are still exploring Mars, the Artic and Outer space today as they explored your village and founded it millions of years ago .
Evolution can't be altered by theories or debate.
Evolution has designed you for millions of years never to take risks and be adventurous.
That's why you bleed once month and have PMS sickness and symptoms, that's why you carry the foetus for 9 months and nurse it for years of its infancy.
Feminism is the dumbest idea ever put forward.
Evolution has chosen your role and all the books, seminars and rantings won't alter it.
And I won't be reading the other long quote of donkeyshit you dropped ealier.
You're too young, too troublesome and too inexperienced a tiro for me.
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|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by HaneefahRN(f): 9:27pm On Apr 07, 2016|
My grandma had her business o cos her own mother stressed the need for her to be empowered rather than dependent on a man who can then chose to treat her as he likes.
Some men don't just care about responsibilities, they want it all. If you knew how lots of those some of those grandmas you call happy suffered in the hands of their husbands ehn. Many just had to endure marriage cos of what the people will say and of course they are dependent. Money is power, and money doesn't make one less feminine, whatever that means.
That was in the past o. Now we all make leeway in our careers, and make our life decisions. A woman can chose to be a house wife or career woman, it's her life.
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by lezz(m): 9:32pm On Apr 07, 2016|
Let me pick it from the emboldened: Her business, that's the idea. She's her own boss and have the prerogative to know when to look after the kids and the home.
She's not waking up to anytime set by the office bureaucracy, or mandated to attend a conference out of town lodged in a hotel.
That's what an industrious woman is. The bank, civil service, NGOs,multinationals don't give women these options.
They work her and wear her youth off and she retires home a stranger at 65.
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by doveda: 9:32pm On Apr 07, 2016|
i don't know who these people think they are talking to especially when it comes to a professionally driven woman
Why should I be able to afford 5 clothes as a full-time house wife because my husband does not like to do domestic chores? When I could afford 10 if I am working? Why should I send my kids to terrible schools because my husband wants someone at home, when I know that with my job I could afford better school?
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by doveda: 9:36pm On Apr 07, 2016|
You are too deluded for me.
The same stvpid argument again. The question is can I bloody do it and can you do it, and the common sense answer is fvcking yes.
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by doveda: 9:41pm On Apr 07, 2016|
You have never been able to countered my arguments
Evolution did not stop my greatgrandma from walking for days to be self-sufficient . It did not stop my grandma from working two jobs to care for her kids. None of them went to school. Stop thinking like a dummy!"
Feminism can be dvmb but it is here to stay and it will affect every one.
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by lezz(m): 9:45pm On Apr 07, 2016|
There she goes again!!!
It's not a question of can you do it, it a question of how efficient you can do it. Gender role baby.
A spoon can do the work of a fork, but not so effectively.
A tractor can do the work of a car but not so comfortably.
It's so with man and woman. Evolution designed us differently physically, emotionally with one thing in mind: PURPOSE.
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|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by lezz(m): 9:48pm On Apr 07, 2016|
Two quotes to one comment, must be blazing hot in your ass
Your grandma worked two jobs, how old are you, 12 ?
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by HaneefahRN(f): 9:50pm On Apr 07, 2016|
That was cos she chose to be a business woman and education to women wasn't so widespread. She would have gone further if one illiterate woman hadn't put it into my great-grandma's mind that sending a girl to school too much would make her promiscuous. Lolz.
Her being empowered helped her out in her married life.
Stop trying to chose what we can and can't do! It was once said women had no brain capacity to vote or work, is this true? Let's make our choices, house wife, entrepreneur, career woman, whatever. Not people always trying to shove their wants down our throats.
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by lezz(m): 9:55pm On Apr 07, 2016|
Education isn't an economic leeway. People aren't to get an education to get a job or be rich. If you crave riches, get into a lucrative business.
Education is to grasp the totality of life, world-view, choices and awareness.
If your grandmother had gone to school and got a job in a company, you would have been raised by a nanny who won't be detailed about you.
Maybe, just maybe, you won't be unblemished like o found you,
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by doveda: 9:55pm On Apr 07, 2016|
You are not smart at all!
What makes you think that a woman cannot efficiently operate or work in a bank as a man? Or has anyone complained to you that a woman cannot work professionally because by virtue of being a woman?
Who told you that a man cannot cook or clean as well as a woman? The men that do them, do they have two heads?
I am sorry but i haven't been told how I cook more efficiently than my dad. My mum hasn't told me that I sweep better than my brothers. Prophet Muhammad in my religion used to wash his clothes himself. he didn't give to a woman because she was better at it. Wait! how do you come up with these nauseating and da.ft arguments?
A woman who cannot cook at all, cooks as badly as a man who cannot cook. If have never been brought up to do something, you just won't be able to do it. Stop being smart by half!
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by joseph1832(m): 9:57pm On Apr 07, 2016|
lezz:I believe she believed she's debating with one of those delinquent in romance section. Spewing such blatant lies is very amusing for one such as doveda.
"Her grandma worked two jobs" hark!!!!
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by doveda: 9:58pm On Apr 07, 2016|
I am using a laptop
She would hawk bread in the morning and sell tuwo in the evening. I guess she lost her womanhood for trekking so long and using all her strength and time to care for her family.
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by doveda: 9:59pm On Apr 07, 2016|
Read my reply and stop acting like a fo.ol!
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by lezz(m): 10:03pm On Apr 07, 2016|
doveda:You're impossible, aren't you? Did I draw any arear of expertise in banking or cooking when I talked to you about purpose of gender?
You love argument for its sake. Stop putting words in my mouth to build a premise for your false postulations, kid.
A woman cannot lead an army battalion to war!!!
Just like a man can not groom and nurture a home with love and minute minding to details as effective as a woman can. So many examples my fingers can't churn out until later.
The watchword is EFFECTIVE. repeat after me, say EFFECTIVE.
Doveda : * Effective.
That's a good girl. Now go to bed.
Lecture ends today, tomorrow we continue and always take your position in the front seat where you can hear me distinctly and I can monitor your progress
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|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by joseph1832(m): 10:06pm On Apr 07, 2016|
doveda:Your grandma wasn't the only one who did all this girl.
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by lezz(m): 10:08pm On Apr 07, 2016|
doveda:She's her own boss and OWNED TWO BUSINESSES, NOT TWO JOBS!!!
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by doveda: 10:10pm On Apr 07, 2016|
Don't be daf.t! I will help you to comprehend better.
Did you or did you not use example of a bank to explain why women should own businesses to haneefah?
Did you or did you not use profession in its generality to explain why women shouldn't be career-driven?
Is a being a banker an example of a profession in the 21st century?
You mentioned efficiency and now it is effective. Obviously the two mean the same. Read again and this time take it slow, afterwards, use your brain. If you have to read it with 500 cups of espresso for it sink in. Send me the bill, I will pay for it.
You are such a dummy. A man can do it.
That is such not an argument. What type of environment did you grow up sef?
Go get a job and stop whining about women!
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by Nobody: 10:11pm On Apr 07, 2016|
Behave to keep the peace
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by lezz(m): 10:12pm On Apr 07, 2016|
joseph1832:I'm actually learning escapism of valid argument with Ad hominem from her
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by doveda: 10:15pm On Apr 07, 2016|
She owned two businesses!
two businesses she had to do. Shey you know what the verb 'have to' connotes
If she had gone to school, she could/would have spent those hours at work too. In your madness now, you expected a woman with her own business (like businesses do not demand any resources whatsoever) to still do everything in the house because she is 'flexible'? Ermm...who on earth told you that a professional man cannot fit his job schedule with house chores?
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by lezz(m): 10:21pm On Apr 07, 2016|
Your emotions are always leaking off like a boiling pot of soup. Keep the insults inside your chest.
So few, if any can out-cuss me in nairaland!!! You know this. The best you can do is edit my cusses back at me.
So let's keep it simple.
When i mentioned bank to your friend, I was making an allusion to the length of hours of work and personal sacrifices often required of staffs especially female staff.
I was referring to expertise or gender specialisation! !!
You can't hold a debate without resorting to anger-tears.
You're vet lots of bans from the mods because when you face a logical debate, your cognitive abilities give way to your long suppressed emotions, so you spew cusses like a pregnant woman spawn saliva
|Re: And There Shall Be 7 Women To 1 Man..... by joseph1832(m): 10:22pm On Apr 07, 2016|
lezz:Oh no need bro, you just need to add a little ad baculum and she'll relax like relaxer.
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