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Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Seun(m): 8:23am On Jan 06, 2007
The lady in question should go to the nearest orphanage to look for a kid to adopt.
Those ones have already lost their parents, so having a single parent will be a step forward for them.
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Radiant(f): 11:08am On Jan 06, 2007
lmao @Seun smiley

adconline:

Children who are born and cared for by both parents excel better in live

I don't get this? Can you please explain how they excel better?
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Eurphoria(f): 10:02pm On Jan 06, 2007
Quote from: adconline on Today at 07:42:08 AM
Children who are born and cared for by both parents excel better in live


WRONG and big fat lie. I know otherwise and that's a fact. That is such a wrong conclusion , i wont even bother naming names of many great ppl who have had only one parent all their lives, No need to do that at all
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Radiant(f): 12:21am On Jan 07, 2007
Eurpho, help me tell him o. I was so irritated by the statement and wanted him to explain further but seems he's disappeared.

Excel better my ass!
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Eurphoria(f): 12:35am On Jan 07, 2007
he is talking out of his A-hole Rad
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by mamaput(f): 12:59pm On Jan 07, 2007
Am sure alot of Nigerians Around my age most have lost their fathers in The civil war and were brought up by the mother.
Am sure many mothers did a Good job on their own.
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Eurphoria(f): 1:29pm On Jan 07, 2007
like i said no need to even mention names i know a few living and breathing success stories contrary to this topic
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Easyy(m): 6:27pm On Jan 07, 2007
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Coco29(f): 6:35pm On Jan 07, 2007
@easy

are you kidding me.


what a load of b u l l s h i t.
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by ThiefOfHearts(f): 6:37pm On Jan 07, 2007
Easyy:

http://www.guardian.co.uk/medicine/story/0,,1953958,00.html

Lol I guess it's finally time to stop parents from dying.
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Easyy(m): 6:43pm On Jan 07, 2007
Coco29:

@easy

are you kidding me.


what a load of b u l l s h i t.

Not my research grin
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Easyy(m): 6:49pm On Jan 07, 2007
And a judge said this

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/wales/4416946.stm

after which he recieved criticism from certain quarters
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Easyy(m): 6:52pm On Jan 07, 2007
I found some of these cartoons really exciting

http://www.cartoonstock.com/directory/b/broken_homes.asp
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Easyy(m): 7:13pm On Jan 07, 2007
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Easyy(m): 7:17pm On Jan 07, 2007
Result of a real survey. I did not conduct the survey so no need to attack me  cool

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/core/Content/displayPrintable.jhtml?xml=/news/2005/02/24/nteen24.xml&site=5
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by mamaput(f): 7:45pm On Jan 07, 2007
And my father always said this

"Am fed up of people writhing books about children when they have non themselves.
These people always think they know it more that those with Kids"


Thats my answer to your links
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Easyy(m): 7:51pm On Jan 07, 2007
mamaput:

And my father always said this

"Am fed up of people writhing books about children when they have non themselves.
These people always think they know it more that those with Kids"


Thats my answer to your links

Did your father have anything to say about surveys?
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by mamaput(f): 8:00pm On Jan 07, 2007
surveys are sometimes crap.
It all depends were they did them.
What part of town. And who took part.
Maybe in London there are a lot of single teenage mother, That must not go for an other city in the UK.
Its not about the Surveys but the people making them.
You should take part in one to see that alls not correct with them
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Eurphoria(f): 8:07pm On Jan 07, 2007
MAMAPUT IS RIGHT  about this  easyy and your links well what can i say **shrugs**


PS the thread is not about your link becos frankly you are not the authour of the link, anyway let the topic continue, ppl can look at your link if they wish , does not mean its the dogsbollocks
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Radiant(f): 8:50pm On Jan 07, 2007
Easy, what's your own answer and leave those blockheads and their research?
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Eurphoria(f): 8:51pm On Jan 07, 2007
exactly i cant stand pendantic ppl
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Easyy(m): 9:09pm On Jan 07, 2007
Radiant:

Easy, what's your own answer and leave those blockheads and their research?

Radiant, I dont consider researchers as blockheads. Researchers have contributed a lot to human advancement though some of it may be slanted badly and some of it may be questionable,

Anyway, I would never advise my sister of relative to go and have kids for any man without getting married, simply because the man is financially capable of taking care of her and her child(ren).

It sounds (to me) like she just sees the guy as her pocket money for the future.

Someone suggested adoption smiley
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Easyy(m): 9:09pm On Jan 07, 2007
Eurphoria:

MAMAPUT IS RIGHT about this easyy and your links well what can i say **shrugs**


PS the thread is not about your link because frankly you are not the authour of the link, anyway let the topic continue, people can look at your link if they wish , does not mean its the dogsbollocks

Are you alright at all?
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Eurphoria(f): 9:16pm On Jan 07, 2007
Ask YOURSELF THAT QUESTION
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Easyy(m): 9:21pm On Jan 07, 2007
Its also one problem that's likely to be faced by quite a number of presently single so-called Nigerian girls in London. They get lost and have no lives, then eventually, they'll blame every Nigerian man for their troubles at being unsuitable for settling down.

Maybe if this westernisation does not get too much into some people's heads, they'll have better lives and more joy and peace.

lipsrsealed
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Radiant(f): 9:39pm On Jan 07, 2007
You want to debate on Nigerian men and women? undecided
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Easyy(m): 9:41pm On Jan 07, 2007
Radiant:

You want to debate on Nigerian men and women? undecided

Not at all. There are good and bad in both.
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Eurphoria(f): 9:43pm On Jan 07, 2007
Rad pls lets not go there, this space is vacant wink know what i mean?
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Easyy(m): 9:46pm On Jan 07, 2007
I dont understand how it's my fault that one turns out a bad apple or how it's my fault if someone is from a single parent home. How is it my fault if anyone is a single parent or has kids out of wedlock?

Links about research results and professional opinions are sure starters for riling some up.

I thank God for His Grace and mercy upon my life and that of my family, not that I spite anyone who doesn't have a happy family,
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Radiant(f): 9:57pm On Jan 07, 2007
lol ?@ Eurpho

Easy, I was just asking wink
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Easyy(m): 10:04pm On Jan 07, 2007
Radiant,

I responded to your question.

I just decided to make another observation. wink
Re: Kids Outside Wedlock? by Radiant(f): 10:08pm On Jan 07, 2007
Whatever!

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