The problems Nigerian Girls are going through is that you Nigerian men think they are not good enough for you.
It is you men that like to go and bring a girl from home. A good girl that has not open eye.
Nigerian women hear their bio Clock ticking and go ahead and have their kids with or with out Husband.
Whats the big deal as long as the mother knows the fathers name. and the way to his village

Whats wrong with it is

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/core/Content/displayPrintable.jhtml?xml=/news/2005/02/24/nteen24.xml&site=5

mamaput:

The problems Nigerian Girls are going through is that you Nigerian men think they are not good enough for you.
It is you men that like to go and bring a girl from home. A good girl that has not open eye.
Nigerian women hear their bio Clock ticking and go ahead and have their kids with or with out Husband.
Whats the big deal as long as the mother knows the fathers name. and the way to his village

I think you'll find that most Nigerian men do not really care where their Nigerian wives are from as long as they are not acting too westernised. It's not about 'open eye', in my opinion, but what a girl does when she has got to the level of 'open eye'.

They often regret it later in life and what irks me is the fact that they are all too willing to mislead younger ones rather than tell them where they have gone wrong. I'm not really an expert on this subject matter so I should keep it at that

Please bring more links

mamaput:


Whats the big deal as long as the[b] mother knows the fathers name. and the way to his village[/b]

lmao

You may wish to read the book "Broken Homes, Broken Children" by Mary Eberstadt

Note the link with fatherlessness

http://familyfirst.net/pressroom/violentstreets.asp

Easy, this one you know all the links and whatever, are you a victim?

prolly !

those links are

lol @Rad

Radiant:

Easy, this one you know all the links and whatever, are you a victim?

I am shocked that you are unable to realise that these things are extremely easy to look up online just by putting them into google or any other search engine.

Eurphoria:

lol @Rad

why does this not suprise me

Easy, I know they're such links but to go digging them and reading them is way out of my comprehension.

Easyy:

why does this not suprise me

Why should it? Go n sleep my friend!

Radiant:

Easy, I know they're such links but to go digging them and reading them is way out of my comprehension.

I read stuff when I feel the need to. You don't even know what I do in life and what I may have done in life to make me want to find out about stuff but it's way out of your comprehension for anyone to go digging and reading stuff that don't support your lifestyle, fine thought system.

Radiant:

Why should it? Go n sleep my friend!

I have slept and woken up, as I do everyday and will continue to do as long as God gives me life in this world. I have no such concerns as single parenthood, child out of wedlock etc. I am thankful to God.

I see you have a reason to read up such infos. Goodluck!

Radiant:

I see you have a reason to read up such infos. Goodluck!

that reason has obviously not been enough to push me to ask for advise on planned single parenthood, goodluck to you too.

My first son is over 12 and I just returned from a holiday with my family, that's probably enough reason for me to worry about you wanting advise on having kids out of wedlock.

I just checked again for confirmation and, a child born out of wedlock is a Bastard, according to the dictionary.

wow now that my friend deserves a round of applause----pls everyone on your feet this man just dropped a major discovery ***yawn** like Radiant said ''

Why should it? Go n sleep my friend!

I suppose we should hear from pple born outside wedlock- if they advocate same.
For me, kids outside wedlock usually turns out unfair 2 the kids eventually.
My kids usually feel sorry 4 friends who miss out on real family life- I do too

ok what about kids with the proposed mama and papa, picture perfect familia who are as we speak enduring all sorts of mental abuse by ---wait for it '' parents who are bad for each other, who truamatise their children '' how's that for ''wedlock? i am not saying it is right to just go and have kids for the sake of it, but situation happens and bang!! who is holding the baby? either the single mum or single dad and what do they do? throw the baby out with the kitchen sink? no they dont they make do and do the best they can and i have seen some ppl do a great job.

It is different if for instance she has a loose and begins to have kids willy nilly that is different, you will find its women like that who make a mess of bringing up the children and often their kids end up with babies out of wedlock to carry the tradition, it becomes a cycle.

Bottom line there is no perfect setting, wedlock is over rated and many parents do damage to kids for the sake of wedlock,

Dear Eurphoria, a 'picture perfect' family with the kids going thru harrowing experiences is d opposite.
I also blve dat marriage is really underrated, but then I suppose you have ur reasons. And I'm truly a very old fashioned xtian

ok i see where you viewing this from, i respect that

feelgood:

And I'm truly a very old fashioned xtian

I found this funny but don't actually know what you mean by that. Could you be kind enough to explain? Thanks!

dear Radiant- ie a blvr in plain old bible injunctions & standards; which I realise now a lot of folks find pretty offensive and outdated/oldfashioned
But it's been working 4 me & dat's why my posts are so tilted. Not offended, are you?

Not at all offended.

You mean, you stick by the rules and regulations of God huh? That's good. Bless ya!

good for you feelgood, i wish i could be like you

feelgood:

Dear Eurphoria, a 'picture perfect' family with the kids going through harrowing experiences is d opposite.
I also blve that marriage is really underrated, but then I suppose you have your reasons. And I'm truly a very old fashioned xtian

feelgood, God bless you and your family. It's always good to know that there is still a majority of people who are leading good and decent lives as opposed to the vociferous few who try to encourage indiscretion in family life and encourage others to lead loose lifestyles.

Remain blessed bro

Eurphoria:

i wish i could be like you