Hello nairalanders, am in a dilemma abt one babe.

Actually i met this girl in her house were one of my friend's kids were staying under her mother's care.

My friend adviced me to woo the girl, though i never told him of my emotions abt d girl.

I complained about the the repercussions if d girl's mother knows abt it, but my friend affirmed to me there will b no problm.

After deciding on that, he (my friend) introduced me to her, collected her contact nd gave me.

As a sharp guy upon reaching home dat evening, i called her so she cn get my contact too.

The following day i called her nd table my intention to hav a resounding relationship with her. She didn't gave me an affirmative answer claiming she can't hav a relationship with me.

I didn't give up. I sought to knw d reason fr objecting my desire to operate a legal entity with her.

I explain to her dat even Jesus Christ, before he ws crucified, d Jews gave a reason that he calls himself 'KING' so she must give ne a reason.
To my suprise she say she don't hav any reason. Her reply injected more confidence to my heart. Haven knw it ws a mere camouflage, I told her there is no reason i will let go of such a beautiful damsel lyk her.

We deliberated on the relationship bill, i came out as a victor. We passed it into law.

I started nursing the relationship with care, support nd attention.

after two days, she called around 10pm and told me dat she was sick. (coz my friend told her that am a health worker). She wanted me at dat time to attend to her condition. It ws jus an ailment, so i decline going to her place at dat time of d nyt.


In our relationship, i rendered health services to her, 2 of her siblings, nd her mother. All these i use my money in purchasing d drugs. Their health problems were becoming my responsibility. (d family is in a poor condition).

Along the line her sim card got loss. I bought a new one fr her, register it nd loaded airtime.

I save my contacts in d sim nd handed over to her.

After this girl exhausted d airtime in d sim card, she remove nd dump it. I never knew she had another sim card coz i even ask her but she deny.

When i visited her, on a faithful day, she ws receiving nd making calls with a different sim card. I requested fr the number bt she never show an iota of willingness to pass it to me.

As fr me, i nerve care nd would not entreat fr a girl's phone number. Am too big for that. I thought


One worst thing is that, she works in a betting site from Monday to Sunday, 7am - 8pm. That means to see, i must visit her around 8pm.

Communication was a barrier in our relationship.

I made up my mind when all hope to get her contact faded.(though i intended she flash me with her active sim which she Never did)

I stopped visiting her, bt Never told her am quiting the relationship.


After a month

Suprise! this weekend she called me with d sim i bought fr her asking me if am around that i hv nt visited them for long.

I told her that am engaged with activities these days. I inquire about their family well being to elicite some concern. She told me that every body ws fine except fr her who is Sick.
And that she hv nt taken any drug since the sickness surfaced.

We talk bla bla bla, nd she ended the call. (i never show interest in showing up at house through my speech on phone with her)



I sat back nd ask my self, is dis girl portraying me as a nycompoop

She never flash , send text or call me.

Nw that she is sick, she remember somebody like me exist. What

impudence!!


Pls nairalanders, what should i do

Should i go nd treat her or just stay off her

Dump her asss bro

Pls let her die and stop playing family doctor. +you r not in a relationship biko, u are the free inhouse health practiononer..

Morning fellas my advice is for u to stay away from her

Please go and treat her O
You sat and figured out the answers and you are still asking us useless question please go and attend to her
Dr. Ajayi

All I can do is LOL.

A sharp guy whose friend took the girl's number for him. You called her immediately that night asking for a relationship like you've spent all your life waiting for her.


Yes you are a nincompoop. Again LOL!

AirSultan:
Dump her asss bro

kk.. I hv sympathy fr pple should i treat her den dump her or jus shun her

Marinza:
Pls let her die and stop playing family doctor. +you r not in a relationship biko, u are the free inhouse health practiononer..

hmm,,,

Zyzman:
Morning fellas my advice is for u to stay away from her

kk..

Babzilla:
Please go and treat her O
You sat and figured out the answers and you are still asking us useless question please go and attend to her
Dr. Ajayi

two gud heads ar better Dan one

Fmartin:
kk.. I hv sympathy fr pple should i treat her den dump her or jus shun her

Do not treat her if at all you want her. Do not treat her and she would be forced to ask why and then you would have the perfect chance to pour your heart to her. And if she changes not, dump and never pick her call.

Dygeasy:
All I can do is LOL.

A sharp guy whose friend took the girl's number for him. You called her immediately that night asking for a relationship like you've spent all your life waiting for her.


Yes you are a nincompoop. Again LOL!

u think so

Hw long do u stay wit a girl before wooing her

Honestly speaking, she's not meant for you. Love is not a one-sided thing it involves the both parties. Look for another lady that will love for who you are. When you meet one you can actually tell the difference between the former and the later.

AirSultan:
Do not treat her if at all you want her. Do not treat her and she would be forced to ask why and then you would have the perfect chance to pour your heart to her. And if she changes not, dump and never pick her call.

ook.

Fmartin:
u think so

Hw long do u stay wit a girl before wooing her

Until I am confident she wouldn't say No.

Dygeasy:
Until I am confident she wouldn't say No.

hmmm...... Perfect timer

Fmartin:
hmmm...... Perfect timer

I'm a sharper guy than you

. dey there dey form mugu 4 another guy bae .......

. dey there dey form mugu 4 another guy bae .......
I pity u.......

Dygeasy:
I'm a sharper guy than you

i dnt think so........

this your story dey turn my eyes

Malayy:
this your story dey turn my eyes

really?

*" I didn't give up. I sought to knw d reason fr objecting my
desire to operate a legal entity with her."*

That one killed me!!

OK OP...also have a similar experience. Showed a girl a lot of love ( maybe too much love), she didn't reciprocate and I stopped calling. A month or so passed and she starts calling and even visits me at work (with a plate of rice and chicken, I am not lying!). She talking about us getting back together and I'm like we never had anything... it's when your in need you remember you had someone who cared about you.

Leave the goat my brother...but if you really like her tell her your mind. Tell her you know all her tricks and lies and if she don't want anything with you ( a relationship) let her say it upfront.
She deserves a second chance (everybody does). If she doesn't change, forget about her. Delete her number. Move on.

Einl:
*" I didn't give up. I sought to knw d reason fr objecting my
desire to operate a legal entity with her."*

That one killed me!!

OK OP...also have a similar experience. Showed a girl a lot of love ( maybe too much love), she didn't reciprocate and I stopped calling. A month or so passed and she starts calling and even visits me at work (with a plate of rice and chicken, I am not lying!). She talking about us getting back together and I'm like we never had anything... it's when your in need you remember you had someone who cared about you.

Leave the goat my brother...but if you really like her tell her your mind. Tell her you know all her tricks and lies and if she don't want anything with you ( a relationship) let her say it upfront.
She deserves a second chance (everybody does). If she doesn't change, forget about her. Delete her number. Move on.

bro u knw wat? D last time we met till today was on 15 February 2016, d day after valentine.

I copied this poem, love lessons on a paper, gave it to her to read necessary.

Hav u heard dat poem on ur phone?? D content is mind blowing.

You're the president of the medical zone bro.

Ode

You portrayed yourself as a grown man, but you are acting otherwise.

Fmartin:
bro u knw wat? D last time we met till today was on 15 February 2016, d day after valentine.

I copied this poem, love lessons on a paper, gave it to her to read necessary.

Hav u heard dat poem on ur phone?? D content is mind blowing.

No, I haven't.

Einl:

No, I haven't.

hmm.... I guess u hv missed alto lessons frm diz poem. Try nd download it...

OCTAVO:
You portrayed yourself as a grown man, but you are acting otherwise.

nt acting otherwise dude; am a person embedded with empathy.

So there is now medicalzone?

oga op, what kind of health apprentice abi worker are you?