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Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman by Oluola89(m): 5:32pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Dating a typical Nigerian lady can be a topsy-turvy
experience especially for a man who is just wetting his
feet in the dating game. Normally, women are
complicated beings let alone a Nigerian woman who has
so many challenges to deal with like an unstable
economy, family, tradition, ethnicity, religion, peer
pressure, biology and much more. All these factors
conspire to influence whoever she will date.
The average man with his chauvinistic African mindset or
perception does not understand this and expect this type
of woman to accept him hook, line and sinker. Little does
he know that the days of parents marrying wives for their
kids is old skool and that most women know what they
want. If you want your relationship to blossom with a
typical Nigerian woman, Jovago.com, Africa’s shares tips
that can make this dream a reality.
Give her money to make her hair
hairstyleDidi, Shooku, and Patewo are traditional
hairstyles in Nigeria but young women prefer the
Brazilian hair, the deft Ghana weaving, and attachment
because it makes them appear sophisticated. They rarely
wear their natural hair, adorning these foreign hairstyles
cost money and time and she expects her man to foot
the bill for her hair. If not always but once in awhile. In
other cases, if you notice she is wearing a new hairstyle,
it will not kill you to compliment her and perhaps pay for
it. Afterwards, it is because of you, she spends that
much time at the salon anyways.
Accept the invite to her church
Nigerians are very religious people. A typical Nigerian
lady will always scheme for ways to invite you to her
church especially if she really likes you. Importantly, do
not reject the offer even if you not a ‘churchy’ person. It
is an opportunity for her to show you off especially if you
are smooth and suave, to her family, friends and even her
pastor whom she relies on for spiritual guidance.
Do not surprise her with a home visit except…
A Nigerian woman is calculative and smart. She knows
how to play the dating game. She knows the right time
and the man who give a pass to her home. But some
men jump the gun by paying her a surprise visit to her
home. She will not be excited to see. In fact, she may
not even come out at all. You are on your own as you
disappointed. It is better to be patient for the invite. If
she is not forthcoming, you can discuss the issue with
her.
Respect her parents
If she is a woman you desire as a life partner, you must
respect her parents when you eventually visit them. For
example, if she is from a Yoruba home, you will be
swimming in the waters of respect because the Yorubas
from South-West Nigeria value respect. So, you are
expected to greet not just greeting but prostrate. This
will put you in the good books of her parents. Other
Nigerian ethnic groups have their rules for respect.
A pathway to marriage
Any perambulating relationship will not last for the typical
Nigerian woman. Sooner or later she will quit the
relationship if the relationship is aimless and does not
have any direction. She will give you marriage signs but
of course, she will not pop the question. She will be
more concerned if you are matured and she knows that
ready. The question she will ask herself why the delay? |
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