Is infactuation same thing as love?I beg to disagree.This two exclusive words are more often than not mistaken for each other.What then are the differences?

1.infactuation is instant desire;yousee the opposite sex for the 1st time & all you dream of is how good he or she would be in bed;Love is frienship.It takes root and grows one day at a time.

2.infactuation has an element of sexual excitement,while love is maturation of frienship.

3.infactuation is marked by the feeling of insecurity-you are excited & eager but not genuiely happy-nagging, doubts,unanswered questions;love on the other hand is marked by understanding & mature acceptance of imperfection that you may notice in your partner.There is a mark of security even if it involves long distance relationship.

4.infactuation speaks thus:"we must marry right away" for fear of losing out or the risk of loosing him/her;but love says don't panic,be patient,for he/she is yours!

5.infactuation lacks confidence-e.g.,when one of the partner is away you wonder if he/she is unfaithfull to the extent of browsing thru youryour partner mobile phone;BUT,love speaks confidence.It means trust.You feel calmed,secured & unthreatened.Your partner feel that trust & its makes him/her trustworthy.

6.Finally,infactuation might lead you to do things you will regret later & feel let down;BUT,love makes you look up,contented & a better person than you were before.

So,when next you tell somebody "i love u," please pause a moment & ask if you actually meant it.WHAT'S YOUR TAKE ON THIS?

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