from a facebook user
I met dis girl some years ago and we became friends and after some time we started dating. I loved her so much bcause she looked decent in every aspect.
She told me she wanted a no sex relationship and i agreed with the hope that she will change her mind when she realises how much i love her.
She introduced me to her siblings and they all liked me. And i visited them often.
Whenever she visits my place i would ask for sex but she would turn me down. I was suprised because have never met such girl in my life so i respected her and didnt force my self on her.
So one day i took her out and we sat down discussing, then i raised a topic about lesbianism and homosexuality and i told her how much i detest the act but i was suprised with her first reaction
she defended the lesbians and told me guys are one of the reasons girls become lesbians. She said guys are heart breakers and that some times is better to date a fellow girl who will never break ur heart.

I was really shocked and disappointed in her. Seeing that am annoyed she appologised and told me it was a joke. I pretended to be ok but deep inside i was not convinced
So i decided to keep an eye on her. Few months after she uploaded a lesbian picture as her d.p and i was really mad at her, she apologised and took off the picture. I told her to come to my place, when she came i asked her if she is a lesbian, but she still denied

I went through her phone and saw so many lesbian nude pictures. I asked her to delete them which she did and she promised I won't see such thing in her phone again.

after some months I went to her place and she gave me her phone for me to transfer music from my phone to hers which I did and went through her phone
this time I saw a lesbian porn video so I told her its over, that am no longer interested in the relationship. she cried and cried but this time I made up my mind to break up.
I went home and she called several times which I didn't pick. two days later her sister called me and told me she was in the hospital but I taught it was just a trick for me to go visit her so I didn't go

I felt really hurt and decided to move on with my life. when she was discharged from the hospital she continued to beg for forgiveness but I didn't accept.

I politely told her its over between us. She stopped calling for some months and i taught she has moved on with her life.
But two days ago she sent me an sms saying am wicked and heartless, she also said if she dies that am the cause .
I still love her but i dont want to date a lesbian. I really need advise, pls did i do the right thing?

dude. Go get your woman!! If she's a lesbian, she won't even beg you for once or try to get back with you.

Ur lesbian ur wahala....person wey u suppose use prick straighten

She just can't be having sex with another girl and be saying she loves u. Who love don help?


Mchew. If she dies, dats her mudafvckiing business.

and here I am looking for another lesbian to date. party is always involved

Maybe she's just a freak about lesbians and addicted to their porn n all.she could be as straight as NO1...you can give her another chance..@least jst this last one.

Breaking up with someone you love hurts, but don't be anyone's cover. She just wants to use you as a cover for her family while she live her Lesbian life. Think about it you are the perfect guy for her, you agree to no sex, how many Nigerian guys will accept such? That's why she's begging you to come back because she know she can't replace you with out giving up sex. Please the brakes up hurt will go when you find someone else. Be strong

if my ex was lesbian, it would hv been ok small. but she too like to explore d1cks

You concluded too fast .

johnwizey:
Ur lesbian ur wahala....person wey u suppose use prick straighten

like i said she didnt give me d chance

iykekelvins:
See how you just concluded that she's a lesbian


Cus of some pictures, Hommie go get you girl back

if she is not a lez then tell me what a normal girl would be doing with lesbian porn on her phone

dapsonlou:
She just wants to use you as a cover for her family while she live her Lesbian life.

i thought so too

She is one and no doubt about that. Maybe she is bi-sexual by nature and this could be dangerous. Never take an excuse that she doesn't know what she is doing by uploading lesbian pix and video on her phone.

Take a walk out of the relationship.If she wants to die, let her die cus you have asked her and she refused to own up. She lies and that is dangerous.

goldbim:
Maybe she's just a freak about lesbians and addicted to their porn n all.she could be as straight as NO1...you can give her another chance..@least jst this last one.

dats some how weird. Is it really possible for a normal girl to do dat?

ettaetta:
dats some how weird. Is it really possible for a normal girl to do dat?

it's an addiction for her so it's nt normal..that's why you need to help her fight it.

andyanders:
She is one and no doubt about that. Maybe she is bi-sexual by nature and this could be dangerous. Never take an excuse that she doesn't know what she is doing by uploading lesbian pix and video on her phone.

Take a walk out of the relationship.If she wants to die, let her die cus you have asked her and she refused to own up. She lies and that is dangerous.

ok thanks

Chimezie198:
if my ex was lesbian, it would hv been ok small. but she too like to explore d1cks

alexistaiwo:
and here I am looking for another lesbian to date. party is always involved

and what would u gain by doing dat? i
Dont think Its good to start what u cant finish.

ettaetta:
and what would u gain by doing dat? i Dont think Its good to start what u cant finish.

I said for dating to be discarded when am serious for marriage

no doubt she's a lez, a straight gal gets irritated and disgusted by female romantic friends same as straight guys, there's no two ways about it

alexistaiwo:

I said for dating to be discarded when am serious for marriage

ok but in my own case i was already in a serious relationship with her which would have led to marriage.

ettaetta:
ok but in my own case i was already in a serious relationship with her which would have led to marriage.

then change your approach to the relationship to code blue. if u know what I mean

Idydarling:
no doubt she's a lez, a straight gal gets irritated and disgusted by female romantic friends same as straight guys, there's no two ways about it

you are right no normal girl will be viewing lez porn on her phone

iykekelvins:
See how you just concluded that she's a lesbian


Cus of some pictures, Hommie go get you girl back

Wats a l.esbian porn video doing in her fone....?

ettaetta:
dats some how weird. Is it really possible for a normal girl to do dat?

no way...I tink ur ex may have had a break up b4 now,she den got involved wit either a bi-curious or l.esbian friend who introduced her to that act...d friend must have lured ur emotionally unstable ex using d flimsy excuse dat guys are not to b trusted and dat ladies will Neva cheat.....they may have been indulging in dat act until u met her....
sorry bro,just move on....hopefully,someone beta will come along d way....

openmine:

no way...I tink ur ex may have had a break up b4 now,she den got involved wit either a bi-curious or l.esbian friend who introduced her to that act...d friend must have lured ur emotionally unstable ex using d flimsy excuse dat guys are not to b trusted and dat ladies will Neva cheat.....they may have been indulging in dat act until u met her....
sorry bro,just move on....hopefully,someone beta will come along d way....

tnx brother

cruzita:
You concluded too fast .

i dont think so, that girl for sure is a lesbian

Try to give her the good stuff and by good stuff I mean your d!ck

Iffa talk now, dey will call me lez. Make I sharaap but OP, maybe she's Bi. What's wrong wit dat