'The Peter Pan Syndrome'
Dale Cartridge
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I'm not sure when men decided that 30 was the new 15. When men thought it was better to remain independent than making a commitment to another. When men we're courageous in business and battle but afraid to be fathers. I'm not sure when video games and "guy night" became more important than tee-ball and date night. When 4 year relationships weren't long enough for a proposal. When staying out became cooler than showing up. I'm not sure when men became boys.
Our culture has a boy problem. In Italy, they call it Peter Pan Syndrome. I call it immaturity and selfishness. Men so focused on their dreams, their visions, and their desires they find themselves wealthy, known, and alone.
The adult world doesn't need more boys. We need men who will grow up, know up, and show up. Who will fight for romance and commit quickly and stay indefinitely. To turn their hearts toward children and work to raise them well. To be friends who grow friends. Not just by compliments, but accountability and conviction. We need more men.
We need more men of integrity and character. Those who will hold a moral code and not compromise it. Those who love women, treat them as they would their own daughters and lead them when everything doesn't make sense... They would lead. We need more men.
I'm a man. And I'm proud of that.
#‎EveryPostALesson‬ #‎DaleyWisdom‬
- Dale Partridge

Fear of the Unknown Paltridge! Our women have turned into something else.


Ask Daretodiffer and MrsPhyno.
In Fela's Voice ; If you call am Woman, African Woman no go free. Hope u kwim?

Your post drips with narrow minded naïveté.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with extended bachelorhood. Life makes more sense when there is no woman to disorganize things with emotions as opposed to logic. Yes, once in a while we feel the need for companionship and engage women to quell that hunger but they soon foul things up with their bickering and endless drama.

AfroKnight:
Your post drips with narrow minded naïveté.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with extended bachelorhood. Life makes more sense when there is no woman to disorganize things with emotions as opposed to logic. Yes, once in a while we feel the need for companionship and engage women to quell that hunger but they soon foul things up with their bickering and endless drama.

Oh, that's not totally true you should know... Its no more in the news how some women have backed their husbands to glory bro. Its all about the scarcity factor I think; getting a partner that would key in to your plans.

pinceprinz:


Oh, that's not totally true you should know... Its no more in the news how some women have backed their husbands to glory bro. Its all about the scarcity factor I think; getting a partner that would key in to your plans.

What percentage of women do that?

AfroKnight:


What percentage of women do that?

A good number. Its all about who you are. You attract your kind of people dey say.

I already pointed out the kinda woman you might be envisaging might be scarce tho.

AfroKnight:
Your post drips with narrow minded naïveté.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with extended bachelorhood. Life makes more sense when there is no woman to disorganize things with emotions as opposed to logic. Yes, once in a while we feel the need for companionship and engage women to quell that hunger but they soon foul things up with their bickering and endless drama.

Men are fvcking each other in this 21st century.You do not have an excuse to cry


Why don't you stop being emotional and find a logical and rational way to end your misery?

@op, modern women are also guilty of the same thing

daretodiffer:
Men are fvcking each other in this 21st century


Why don't you stop being emotional and find a logical and rational way to end your misery?

Kindly type like someone with a brain.

AfroKnight:


Kindly type like someone with a brain.

It is 'Kindly typed'

Go fvck another man nu

daretodiffer:

It is 'Kindly typed'
Go fvck another man nu

I didn't call u here to start a fight na

I didn't start anything. I came up with a solution. Is it wrong to help another human?

pinceprinz:
I didn't call u here to start a fight na

daretodiffer:
I didn't start anything. I came up with a solution. Is it wrong to help another human?

Yes, people don't want bitter truth. And you were even calling the poor guy names indirectly

pinceprinz:


Yes, people don't want bitter truth. And you were even calling the poor guy names indirectly

I didn't .

He is in a dilemma. I came up with a solution...

daretodiffer:
I didn't .

He is in a dilemma. I came up with a solution...

You told him to go homo!



You don start again with all this your big big grammar, you no fit write pidgin? - Its fun ykno

pinceprinz:


You told him to go homo!



You don start again with all this your big big grammar, you no fit write pidgin? - Its fun ykno

Me? I don't know any big big grammar

Why can't he go homo? He is the one that holds a grudge with emotional and illogical beings

daretodiffer:
Me? I don't know any big big grammar

Why can't he go homo? He is the one that holds a grudge with emotional and illogical beings

the dilemma is a big one jarey, Do'u know Yoruba, that language dey hungry me talk tonight


but there are more subtle ways you could have eased his way for him nah... and you are even an hajiah oh

pinceprinz:

the dilemma is a big one jarey, Do'u know Yoruba, that language dey hungry me talk tonight


but there are more subtle ways you could have eased his way for him nah... and you are even an hajiah oh

I know Yoruba


He wasn't subtle either and I am not in the mood to cajole anyone.

daretodiffer:
I know Yoruba


He wasn't subtle either and I am not in the mood to cajole anyone.

Great! Are you by chance Yoruba?


As if you're ever in the mood. Always acting unladylike everywhere. Its like some bad boys don do u bad bad be4 , no be so? - Taken my time to read you be4 passing this judgment you should know

Vanquay:
Came to read comments and I see daretodiffer with her usual lunacy insulting everyone


Well, OP....

Haba!

pinceprinz:


Great! Are you by chance Yoruba?


As if you're ever in the mood. Always acting unladylike everywhere. Its like some bad boys don do u bad bad be4 , no be so? - Taken my time to read you be4 passing this judgment you should know

Omo ajorosun ni mi

Nope!

daretodiffer:
Omo ajorosun ni mi

Nope!

What does that indicate *covers face*


So, what's your inspiration? Cos you do talk with so much confidence as if you've all the experience

daretodiffer:


It is 'Kindly typed'

Go fvck another man nu

You "corrected" me?
Lol. You definitely have fundamental problems with English comprehension.

I'll tell you again; kindly type like someone with a brain.

AfroKnight:


You "corrected" me?
Lol. You definitely have fundamental problems with English comprehension.

I'll tell you again; kindly type like someone with a brain.

Have you found a bf yet?

AfroKnight:


You "corrected" me?
Lol. You definitely have fundamental problems with English comprehension.

I'll tell you again; kindly type like someone with a brain.

Oya biko, don't be angry with me na

Let's talk