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Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 1:02pm On Apr 27, 2016
Greetings to u all.

There is this issue that came up last week with my friends(6 guys,3 girls ) as we were discussing the issue of JOINT ACCOUNT WITH YOUR PARTNER , if it is right or wrong, reasonable or childish, emotional or economical..
MR A: well in the scripture it is good to ve joint account.
Me: (cuts in like a lawyer)where in the scripture specifically?
MR A: when God created Adam and eve they were both Unclad and were one, so having a joint account is a good thing.
Sis eko: i agreed.
MR P: (nodded like an agama lizard).
BOBO: (angry like someone pour his 50 litres fuel away).. So u mean i will take permission from my wife before i spend my money, ok what if something happen tomorrow and we divorced or she kill me because of my money?joint account my foot.
(this speech seems to move LADY T, who owns 3 houses and a big shop of lace).

MR O: well u see when u have joint account with your partner, it allow u to be focus, plan ahead and cut unnecessary spending.
It makes u mature , u know when u start having kids.. The more the expenses...

The argument went on back and forth, the other two were neither for or against ...

So i ask , will u ve a joint account with your partner? And if u cant, why? And if u have a joint account with your partner, any regrets?

This is blackfire.

Cc: lalastical. Cruzitas. Mrcork. Omenka. Les. Kashybaby. Unapapadeycraze.ishilove. Afrodiite.carolyner.mizcolly. Hate2u. Nduchuku.

*if i no call ya name no vex*
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by analice107: 10:43pm On May 12, 2016
Blackfire:
Greetings to u all.

There is this issue that came up last week with my friends(6 guys,3 girls ) as we were discussing the issue of JOINT ACCOUNT WITH YOUR PARTNER , if it is right or wrong, reasonable or childish, emotional or economical..
MR A: well in the scripture it is good to ve joint account.
Me: (cuts in like a lawyer)where in the scripture specifically?
MR A: when God created Adam and eve they were both Unclad and were one, so having a joint account is a good thing.
Sis eko: i agreed.
MR P: (nodded like an agama lizard).
BOBO: (angry like someone pour his 50 litres fuel away).. So u mean i will take permission from my wife before i spend my money, ok what if something happen tomorrow and we divorced or she kill me because of my money?joint account my foot.
(this speech seems to move LADY T, who owns 3 houses and a big shop of lace).

MR O: well u see when u have joint account with your partner, it allow u to be focus, plan ahead and cut unnecessary spending.
It makes u mature , u know when u start having kids.. The more the expenses...

The argument went on back and forth, the other two were neither for or against ...

So i ask , will u ve a joint account with your partner? And if u cant, why? And if u have a joint account with your partner, any regrets?

This is blackfire.

Cc: lalastical. Cruzitas. Mrcork. Omenka. Les. Kashybaby. Unapapadeycraze.ishilove. Afrodiite.carolyner.mizcolly. Hate2u. Nduchuku.

*if i no call ya name no vex*
Where are you Blackfire,
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by CaroLyner(f): 7:12pm On May 13, 2016
i have no idea cause am still a student.
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by halfricanadian(f): 7:18pm On May 13, 2016
Joint account hmmmmmm

I can do it nd not pass my boundary or withdrawing limit
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Nobody: 7:24pm On May 13, 2016
the last time we talked about this, my parents actually operate two accounts , one common account they both have access to and thrift into and the other private.

There HV been questions on the former from either side but never a 'war' . Its all about maturity and trust between the players I think...
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 9:32pm On May 13, 2016
CaroLyner:
i have no idea cause am still a student.

are u not suppose to plan ahead for the future... Remember u wont remain mummy pikin for long.
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 9:37pm On May 13, 2016
halfricanadian:
Joint account hmmmmmm

I can do it nd not pass my boundary or withdrawing limit


for u to even accept this joint account, u must ve accept it is good, what do u think is good about it?
can your partner be committed ... They way u think u will be about it?
*sorry for the jamb questions *
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 9:39pm On May 13, 2016
pinceprinz:
the last time we talked about this, my parents actually operate two accounts , one common account they both have access to and thrift into and the other private.

There HV been questions on the former from either side but never a 'war' . Its all about maturity and trust between the players I think...

do u think u can advice your friend to have a joint account from your experience? Can u personally oblige to it?
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by halfricanadian(f): 9:48pm On May 13, 2016
Blackfire:



for u to even accept this joint account, u must ve accept it is good, what do u think is good about it?
can your partner be committed ... They way u think u will be about it?
*sorry for the jamb questions *

No they arent jamb questions

To me i can cope with it cos actually im nt a money freak sad so even if my partner js not committed i can b bothered money issue will actually b d least reason i will fight with my partner its d last on d list for me
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by ronald4lif(m): 9:59pm On May 13, 2016
Couple having a joint account ain't bad provided they still operate individual accounts. But for me to make the joint account the primary one ain't possible. Mbanu.
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 10:00pm On May 13, 2016
halfricanadian:


No they arent jamb questions

To me i can cope with it cos actually im nt a money freak sad so even if my partner js not committed i can b bothered money issue will actually b d least reason i will fight with my partner its d last on d list for me


i ve seen where money separated mother and child, i ve also seen where two brothers from the same mother were boxing themselves to death because of money... Am sure u must ve heard stories about - ish like this.
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by halfricanadian(f): 10:02pm On May 13, 2016
Blackfire:



i ve seen where money separated mother and child, i ve also seen where two brothers from the same mother were boxing themselves to death because of money... Am sure u must ve heard stories about - ish like this.

Im nt talking bou ny body else but me

Those are d people dat allowed money enslave them

I dont get caught up in money


Im nt a money freak i can empty my account for some one in need

Pls nd pls i speak for mysf nt dose people dat allow money to rule them
Thats why i cant marry someone just cos dey are rich nd treats me like trash or like im nt human damn the money for real
Nothing rules me except God
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Nobody: 10:19pm On May 13, 2016
Blackfire:


do u think u can advice your friend to have a joint account from your experience? Can u personally oblige to it?

Yes, I will advice my friend to do it if he knows he can trust her and she can trust him with decision makings BUT most women of these age won't show their true color up until you've sealed the contract tho, so its hard to judge who she really is until you're say2yrs+ wedded... So, don't bring up the issue up until you're well into d marriage oh grin
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 10:25pm On May 13, 2016
pinceprinz:


Yes, I will advice my friend to do it if he knows he can trust her and she can trust him with decision makings BUT most women of these age won't show their true color up until you've sealed the contract tho, so its hard to judge who she really is until you're say2yrs+ wedded... So, don't bring up the issue up until you're well into d marriage oh grin


more like using style to dodge bullet... no be small thing o
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 10:29pm On May 13, 2016
halfricanadian:


Im nt talking bou ny body else but me

Those are d people dat allowed money enslave them

I dont get caught up in money


Im nt a money freak i can empty my account for some one in need

Pls nd pls i speak for mysf nt dose people dat allow money to rule them
Thats why i cant marry someone just cos dey are rich nd treats me like trash or like im nt human damn the money for real
Nothing rules me except God

I never said u are the same with anyone.. am just drawing comparisons.
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Nobody: 10:31pm On May 13, 2016
Blackfire:


more like using style to dodge bullet... no be small thing o
wink
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 10:39pm On May 13, 2016
calling my friends.
@paribookaddict what do u think about this joint account?.
@annunaki. though am angry with u. can u do joint account with your future wife?.
@gimakon..from business perspective what do think?.
@Annalice107 will u do joint account with black fire,if things work out?
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by CaroLyner(f): 6:20am On May 14, 2016
Blackfire:


are u not suppose to plan ahead for the future... Remember u wont remain mummy pikin for long.
of course i am..but the answer to your question would work itself out-when i get to that level
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 10:37am On May 14, 2016
CaroLyner:
of course i am..but the answer to your question would work itself out-when i get to that level

but don't u think you need to 've a mind set of what u are suppose to be getting into?
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by CaroLyner(f): 12:29pm On May 14, 2016
Blackfire:


but don't u think you need to 've a mind set of what u are suppose to be getting into?
i do have.just not bothered with that right now
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by coolviv: 12:40pm On May 14, 2016
Joined wahala abeg. If two of you disagree on what to spend money on.....whose decision will override the other?
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 7:09pm On May 14, 2016
ronald4lif:
Couple having a joint account ain't bad provided they still operate individual accounts. But for me to make the joint account the primary one ain't possible. Mbanu.

u agree to something that it is good.. but u can't do it... am confused
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 7:14pm On May 14, 2016
coolviv:
Joined wahala abeg. If two of you disagree on what to spend money on.....whose decision will override the other?


maybe they will set-up a court for that....

okwu ba nego
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by ronald4lif(m): 8:08pm On May 14, 2016
Blackfire:


u agree to something that it is good.. but u can't do it... am confused

I'm saying it's not a bad idea but only if they will still operate separate accounts and not lump all their individual savings in same account.
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by analice107: 8:40pm On May 14, 2016
Blackfire:
calling my friends.
@paribookaddict what do u think about this joint account?.
@annunaki. though am angry with u. can u do joint account with your future wife?.
@gimakon..from business perspective what do think?.
@Annalice107 will u do joint account with black fire,if things work out?
What. Why you want joint account with me nah? Mr Black free me ooo.
Am not in support of a joint account. My reasons being that, the men's family seems to have the believe the woman is in the marriage to wreck their son, especially if he has small money. pls keep your money. When there's a need we shall handle it together.
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 4:39pm On May 16, 2016
analice107:

What. Why you want joint account with me nah? Mr Black free me ooo.
Am not in support of a joint account. My reasons being that, the men's family seems to have the believe the woman is in the marriage to wreck their son, especially if he has small money. pls keep your money. When there's a need we shall handle it together.

don't you think your family is yours, and its survival depend on vital decisions, i hope u know that when u are in need of cash, most of the times that's when u know blood relation can be wicked.

For example my parents knows that i don't take decisions rashly, and am not moved my external pressure, i know whatever affects me is my choice.

...believe me not all family are the same...

*in the other thread u said i should be easy on the because of me part, i don't understand*
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 4:48pm On May 16, 2016
ronald4lif:


I'm saying it's not a bad idea but only if they will still operate separate accounts and not lump all their individual savings in same account.


u my friend deserve 50 litres of fuel
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 9:41am On May 18, 2016
analice107:

What. Why you want joint account with me nah? Mr Black free me ooo.
Am not in support of a joint account. My reasons being that, the men's family seems to have the believe the woman is in the marriage to wreck their son, especially if he has small money. pls keep your money. When there's a need we shall handle it together.


iron lady... Even me no say with u nobody fit mess with my family.

One man, i mean one lady battalion.
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Anas09: 6:21pm On May 20, 2016
Blackfire:



iron lady... Even me no say with u nobody fit mess with my family.

One man, i mean one lady battalion.
She's a man and a woman at the same time?
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Anas09: 6:22pm On May 20, 2016
You have not been replying my emails, could it mean you have not recieved any?
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Blackfire(m): 5:43pm On May 21, 2016
Anas09:
You have not been replying my emails, could it mean you have not recieved any?


i ve got the new email...
Blackfireib@gmail.com.

Send all the former e mail.

I *** u
Re: Your Take:joint Account Or Joined Wahala? by Anas09: 5:46pm On May 21, 2016
[quote author=Blackfire post=45839255]


i ve got the new email...
Blackfireib@gmail.com.

Send all the former e mail.

I *** u [/quote
Send me a mail with it

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