naijaboiy:
And someone who claims to be repairing her phone is viewing the thread.

Laveda.

chubbyswit:
thats k bro its good to get to the bottom of situations before picking sides, nice to meet you

Wahalaboy:



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anochuko01:

I like this tour story...I'm actually locked down with a girl as a bestie of sorts. I wanna ask, didn't you ever have feelings for her? is either of you in a thriving relationship?

octopusfreaky:
i find it difficult to relate wt females,,i can count d no of female friends i have Women have big issues,,always something dat will make us fight

naijaboiy:
Nice thread. Well as a guy I wouldn't give room for my girlfriend to have any bestie of any sort.

First of all I would try my best to be everything the so called bestie would want to be. I would be her shoulder to cry on and at the same time the dick to ride on.

Nevertheless I would still watch out for those stubborn guys who are always relentless in being a girl's bestie by all means. I'll warn her about them and make sure she knows my stand. The problem is that these girls never hear. They will keep telling you that they can control it and that nothing will happen. Don't believe that shït because these girls are as weak as anything weak when it comes to emotions.

Be the bestie she never had and if she still misbehaves to be keeping male besties outside then you may have to walk away since she's not ready.

As for the female bestie for girls, that one can be handled.

0ubenji:

Don't bother dude..I was avoidin dis ..lolz
I hate comin across to ppl as an antagonist..
U forced me into meddling in such morally unprofitable affairs dude..
As ur monicker implies..lolz...WAhaLAboY

JUST LET IT GO

Wahalaboy:



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WASMOG:
op pls how do I deal this issue of beastie my girlfriend won't let me rest just two weeks ago now she start talking about one guy his this his that am not comfortable about it at all

Doxie69:
What will you say about myself and my female bestie, We have been like this since 2009 till 2016 except on Nov 2011 when we had a misunderstanding, but she came back and apologized and we been rocking. Finished talking with her some minutes ago, before opening this thread, and she was complaining that I have stopped calling her often as I always do. No matter, the negative aspects of it male bestie still rocks the female so much. I am enjoying every part of it.

Trina0936:
I decided to visit my male bestie yesterday after commenting on this thread. I had not seen him for almost three weeks before now but we so talk on phone and he told me that he has broken up with his girlfriend. I just hope it wasn't my fault because he's aware I have a boyfriend and he has even seen my guy before. Like they have talked one on one like matured guys. when I asked him the reason for the breakup he said he just wasn't into the babe again so I dropped the issue! But I still have a feeling it might be more than he's telling.......

Trina0936:
I decided to visit my male bestie yesterday after commenting on this thread. I had not seen him for almost three weeks before now but we so talk on phone and he told me that he has broken up with his girlfriend. I just hope it wasn't my fault because he's aware I have a boyfriend and he has even seen my guy before. Like they have talked one on one like matured guys. when I asked him the reason for the breakup he said he just wasn't into the babe again so I dropped the issue! But I still have a feeling it might be more than he's telling.......

Owliver:
give him space for your sake and his sake. any form of relationship brings emotions into play. its never too late to call it off.

adaksbullet:
While we mine gf as besty wen am hear do lovin u for her.... his she craz? Me I canot let mine gf as male frnd o curse male ppl his bad and am a emosional sombody so her too have male besty his no no no no for me

0ubenji:

Lolz..it's obvious u need likes..lemme start by helpin..THE YOUNG SHALL GROW..u av 1 like alredi..

HappyNow. ??

gradeA:

Who did this to you?

Lizylaw:

oh my God. I have been on nairaland for years and I just realized I did not know the meaning of OP. I always assumed I knew the meaning.

Wahalaboy:


In the next few weeks he's gonna try to copy feelings for you. Acting like he feels something for you and will try to peg his break up on the feelings he had for you. Remember Wahalaboy said this when it happens.