To a lot of people, it seems to make sense that a wise step in knowing if you are compatible to marry would be to "test run" your relationship by living together first. But, is it really as good of an idea as it seems like it would be?

Why living together before marriage is a bad idea:

1. Those are who live together are least likely to marry each other.

2. You lose the excitement and thrill the honeymoon will bring.

3. While many women look at it as a stepping stone to marriage, most men look at it for convenience and not firm commitment.

4. Those who live together have higher divorce and separation rates.

5. Those who live together do not experience the best sex.

6. Those who live together, have more disagreement, fights and violence.

7. Many times, people who live together before getting married, upset their families or friends who have strict religious beliefs. It can create a rift in the family which can be difficult to repair.


Between, I love this weather....uhhh. If you're cold, cover yourself with the Blood of Jesus

No 6-for your mind

Living together before marriage makes a mockery of the reverse dowry whenever it's eventually paid.

That's if it will be paid.

olac21:
No 6-for your mind

You don't agree with that?

jnrbayano:
Living together before marriage makes a mockery of the dowry whenever it's eventually paid.

That's if it will be paid.

Exactly, some people end up paying nothing

Hmmm. Somehow, you didn't say it's morally wrong. The world is really changing.

jnrbayano:
Living together before marriage makes a mockery of the reverse dowry whenever it's eventually paid.

That's if it will be paid.

Bro, you are right. I think the bride price should be slashed to half the price and even that should be negotiated lower. Tokunbo cannot be the same price as tear rubber.

AfroKnight:
Hmmm. Somehow, you didn't say it's morally wrong. The world is really changing.

Really So, what are the reasons for? To prove its right?

layla129:
To a lot of people, it seems to make sense that a wise step in knowing if you are compatible to marry would be to "test run" your relationship by living together first. But, is it really as good of an idea as it seems like it would be?

Why living together before marriage is a bad idea:

1. Those are who live together are least likely to marry each other.

2. You lose the excitement and thrill the honeymoon will bring.

3. While many women look at it as a stepping stone to marriage, most men look at it for convenience and not firm commitment.

4. Those who live together have higher divorce and separation rates.

5. Those who live together do not experience the best sex.

6. Those who live together, have more disagreement, fights and violence.

7. Many times, people who live together before getting married, upset their families or friends who have strict religious beliefs. It can create a rift in the family which can be difficult to repair.


I love this weather....uhhh. If you're cold, cover yourself with the Blood of Jesus

well spoken beauty

Mmm...I dunno but I don't agree at all...

layla129:


Really So, what are the reasons for? To prove its right?

Certainly not to prove it's MORALLY wrong. I was just observing anyway. Not challenging you.

Story... how else would I know the manners you have which I would eventually find disgusting? better to live together for a bit and break up than to not live together get married and break up.

BlueEyeBalls:
well spoken beauty

Thanks hunnae...muahh

It may be bad but it's not illegal...

Besides bad is not a bad word

hmmmmmm

KashyBaby:
Mmm...I dunno but I don't agree at all...

Wanna share reasons If not, you should move in with pcoolioz


Just kidding hunnae

layla129:


Thanks hunnae...muahh

mmm...welcome angel

Seems your list is based on personal convictions and sentiments with no grounded basis to support your points. Just the number 2 appears factual the rest have no grounds whatsoever.

They don't experience best sex, lest likely to get married and likely to divorce blablabla please where did you pull out this piffle from?

ronald4lif:
Seems your list is based on personal convictions and sentiments with no grounded basis to support your points. Just the number 2 appears factual the rest have no grounds whatsoever.

They don't experience best sex, lest likely to get married and likely to divorce blablabla please where did you pull out this piffle from?

From my head sir. Just like you said, personal convictions and things i see happening around me.

its most definitely necessary to live together before marriage, even if its for a lil while...that's where u build all marriage virtues between partners and decide if ure right for each other (courtship)....trust, care, understanding..LOVE!!

Nonsense!!!!!

Only a desperate woman will live with a man b4 marriage. No 1 nd 2 so true.

iyke1989:
its most definitely necessary to live together before marriage, even if its for a lil while...that's where u build all marriage virtues between partners and decide if ure right for each other (courtship)....trust, care, understanding..LOVE!!

Are you saying its not possible to build or achieve all these without living together?

osesology:
Nonsense!!!!!

Lol, don't know why but this made me laugh

I do not quite agree with this.. Ok, maybe I disagree to agree.

Why?

Because the exact opposite of all you laid down up there can also happen.

Things happen in two ways: Its either it happens in and with a positive timeline or negative timeline.. It takes two to tang o..

layla129:


Are you saying its not possible to build or achieve all these without living together?

hell yea it is...that's if they are unsubtle beings...but mind u, one could modify his/her character and look good from a distance...but not when u bedding with ur partner daily, there's always a spotting difference, and it could help in sorting spouses

AirSultan:
I do not quite agree with this.. Ok, maybe I disagree to agree.

Why?

Because the exact opposite of all you laid down up there can also happen.

Things happen in two ways: Its either it happens in and with a positive timeline or negative timeline.. It takes two to tang o..

I disagree never to agree

layla129:
To a lot of people, it seems to make sense that a wise step in knowing if you are compatible to marry would be to "test run" your relationship by living together first. But, is it really as good of an idea as it seems like it would be?

Why living together before marriage is a bad idea:

1. Those are who live together are least likely to marry each other.

2. You lose the excitement and thrill the honeymoon will bring.

3. While many women look at it as a stepping stone to marriage, most men look at it for convenience and not firm commitment.

4. Those who live together have higher divorce and separation rates.

5. Those who live together do not experience the best sex.

6. Those who live together, have more disagreement, fights and violence.

7. Many times, people who live together before getting married, upset their families or friends who have strict religious beliefs. It can create a rift in the family which can be difficult to repair.


Between, I love this weather....uhhh. If you're cold, cover yourself with the Blood of Jesus

Hey c'mon, in as much as u wrote for a good course, there so many faults contained in this writeup. Itsa thumbs down

iyke1989:
hell yea it is...that's if they are unsubtle beings...but mind u, one could modify his/her character and look good from a distance...but not when u bedding with ur partner daily, there's always a spotting difference, and it could help in sorting spouses

So, if they bed each other daily, and find out they can't tolerate each other's differences, it leads to Number one isn't it?

KingRex1:
Hey c'mon, in as much as u wrote for a good course, there so many faults contained in this writeup. Itsa thumbs down

Ok

layla129:


So, if they bed each other daily, and find out they can't tolerate each other's differences, it leads to Number one isn't it?

is it not better it goes south during courtship, than after they already get married??