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7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by dietola01(m): 7:41am On May 04, 2016
7 SIGN YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS NOT MEAN TO BE YOUR FUTURE WIFE Getting married is a life changing situation and something everybody wants to do right because nobody plans to walk down the aisle more than once… at least nobody in their right mind plans to. If you are planning to walk down the aisle in the very near future and with the woman you are seeing and you need to be very sure she’s the one, here are qualities that if she’s got, she just might not fit into the role. 1. She’s dependent - On you for everything. When she wants to buy the smallest thing, she dials your number and asks you to buy it for her. When she wants to make any important decision, she stalls and waits till you see each other. When she needs to do things she should be able to handle on her own, she keeps waiting for you to come make the decision for her, then you need to think twice. Nothing bad in making decisions togethter or helping her buy stuff but everything is wrong when it happens all of the time. A wife needs to be independent. Be able to run the home when her husband isn’t home and make important decisions when he is busy. You need an independent one not a dependent person. It is a wife you want not a pet. 2. Her dressing - believe it or not, a wife needs to apply a bit of modesty in her dressing when she gets married. Now, easy as it is to say she’d change her closet full of skimpy and semi Unclad clothes when she says I do, she needs to begin to change it now. You can only be used to things you have started practising. There’s a difference between a wife and a ho. If your wife dresses like a video vixen all the time or like a stripper, then expect no respect whatsoever when you are out together. Besides, when the kids start coming, how do you want to explain to them why mommy keeps dressing like she raided a kindergarten store and took all their baby dresses? 3. She’s rude - I know no man wants a woman who cannot respect him. Not as a girlfriend, not as a wife. So if your woman is rude (to you and to every other person around) and she shows no traces of changing, don’t bother making her a wife. The cracks would soon begin to show and you would hate yourself if you wife her. 4. She’s emotionally unstable - if she is sweet today and she goes from that to extremely rude and not bothered in the next minute and then obnoxious, then you need to relax a bit. Find out what makes her flaky. If she’s just that emotionally unstable person, then think twice about the relationship before taking the next step. Bigger things come in marriage. If she can’t handle courtship, she won’t be able to handle marriage. 5. She lies - lying partners are the worst ever. No reason why you should even be with them in relationships talk less of marriage. If she lies, run! You wife her and it is the beginning of your end! 6. You have absolutely nothing in common - if you both can’t seem to find a common ground, then think twice. When the initial “gra gra” is gone and all you have left is great friendship, you would need things to spice your marriage up. This includes things you both love doing together. What happens when you hate what she loves and she hates what you love? 7. She mismanages everything - a woman who would rather buy an expensive weave than spend money on better things or who makes decisions that aren’t smart where money is concerned or who would urge you to spend money on the most expensive cars rather than invest in reasonable things would not make a good wife...

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Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by kingphilip(m): 7:43am On May 04, 2016
Ok
Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by ojmetrix(m): 7:52am On May 04, 2016
booking
Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by Theanonymous9: 7:52am On May 04, 2016
Do you know who paragraph has ever killed?


No one!

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Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by SubtleFRED(m): 7:56am On May 04, 2016
OP seems there is no space bar on your phone,tab,pad,lappy or whatsoever you used to type that stuff up there
Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by tempem: 8:04am On May 04, 2016
Reading this post ir just like being in a 'maze'! Try and restructure your write up. Am not forgetting the fact that what you wrote there are pure facts. I Left my Ex for nearly all the points mentioned.
Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by tempem: 8:06am On May 04, 2016
Theanonymous9:
Do you who paragraph has ever killed?


No one!
I'm not sure if your comment helped me too!
Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by Theanonymous9: 8:08am On May 04, 2016
tempem:
I'm not sure if your comment helped me too!

Well, at least you now know your problem.


Your kryptonite is Paragraphs!
Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by judey1992(m): 8:08am On May 04, 2016
use of english. G10, cos this one pass F9

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Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by 400billionman: 8:18am On May 04, 2016
All fine girls are rude..

Nigerian girls..
Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by kiddoiLL(m): 8:25am On May 04, 2016
No 5 though....who doesnt tell lies?? Guys na dem lie pass gan xev...so frget d lie ish, our parents have told countless lies to each other...she tells you the truth always doesn't mean she's the one..she might keep telling you the truth so your trust in her would lead you blind....but the rest?cool

Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by tempem: 8:27am On May 04, 2016
Theanonymous9:


Well, at least you now know your problem.


Your kryptonite is Paragraphs!
Who did the writing? You definately shot the wrong bird. Lol. Correct your first comment. It had obvious error. I'm trying hard to comprehend it.
Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by Theanonymous9: 8:34am On May 04, 2016
tempem:
Who did the writing? You definately shot the wrong bird. Lol. Correct your first comment. It had obvious error. I'm trying hard to comprehend it.

I see it now. grin missing *know*

But..but it still doesn't excuse the op/main article writer! cheesy
Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by Akposkool(m): 8:53am On May 04, 2016
This is poor structuring of a good writeup. Use paragraphs and punctuation better next time
Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by swaggerdgrt(m): 9:46am On May 04, 2016
Gbam...my guy tell dem oohhh
Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by Michellla(f): 9:49am On May 04, 2016
Are You Fighting With Your Space KeyPad ?
Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by firstking01(m): 9:55am On May 04, 2016
Op, paragraph your work...if na english exam now, you don faiLembarassed
Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by hob(m): 11:24am On May 04, 2016
Paragraph plzzzzzzzzzzz
Re: 7 Sign Your Girlfriend Is Not Meant To Be Your Future Wife by kajoula(m): 12:43pm On May 04, 2016
dietola01:
7 SIGN YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS NOT MEAN TO BE YOUR FUTURE WIFE
Getting married is a life changing situation and something everybody wants to do right because nobody plans to walk down the aisle more than once… at least nobody in their right mind plans to. If you are planning to walk down the aisle in the very near future and with the woman you are seeing and you need to be very sure she’s the one, here are qualities that if she’s got, she just might not fit into the role.

1. She’s dependent -
On you for everything. When she wants to buy the smallest thing, she dials your number and asks you to buy it for her. When she wants to make any important decision, she stalls and waits till you see each other. When she needs to do things she should be able to handle on her own, she keeps waiting for you to come make the decision for her, then you need to think twice. Nothing bad in making decisions togethter or helping her buy stuff but everything is wrong when it happens all of the time. A wife needs to be independent. Be able to run the home when her husband
isn’t home and make important decisions when he is busy. You need an independent one not a dependent person. It is a wife you want not a pet.

2. Her dressing -
Believe it or not, a wife needs to apply a bit of modesty in her dressing when she gets married. Now, easy as it is to say she’d change her closet full of skimpy and semi Unclad clothes when she says I do, she needs to begin to change it now.
You can only be used to things you have started practising. There’s a difference between a wife and a ho. If your wife dresses like a video vixen all the time or like a stripper, then expect no respect whatsoever when you are out together. Besides, when the kids start coming, how do you want to explain to them why mommy keeps dressing like she raided a kindergarten store and took all their baby dresses?

3. She’s rude -
I know no man wants a woman who cannot respect him. Not as a girlfriend, not as a wife. So if your woman is rude (to you and to every other person around and she shows no traces of changing, don’t bother making her a wife. The cracks would soon begin to show and you would hate yourself if you wife her.

4. She’s emotionally unstable -
if she is sweet today and she goes
from that to extremely rude and not bothered in the next minute and then obnoxious, then you need to relax a bit. Find out what makes her flaky. If she’s just that emotionally unstable person, then think twice about the relationship before taking the next step. Biggerthings come in marriage. If she can’t handle courtship, she won’t beable to handle marriage.

5. She lies -
lying partners are the worst ever. No reason why you should even be with them in relationships talk less of marriage. If she lies, run! You wife her and it is the beginning of your end!

6. You have absolutely nothing in common -
if you both can’t seem to find a common ground, then think twice. When the initial “gragra” is gone and all you have left is great friendship, you would need things to spice your marriage up. This includes things you both love doing together. What happens when you hate what she loves and she hates what you love?

7. She mismanages everything -
a woman who would rather buy an expensive weave than spend money on better things or who makes decisions that aren’t smart where money is concerned or who would urge you to spend money on the most expensive cars rather than invest in reasonable things would not make a good wife...


TRY AND REFORMAT WHAT YOU HAVE COPIED FROM ANYWHERE .

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