I am 29 and my lover will be 21 by November this year. I want to settle down soonest but the only woman in my life I consider to be too young. I have discussed this with her and she said she will be my wife if i want her.

She is a very good girl, she sees me like her big brother, father and lover. I love her so dearly. I dont want to take advantage of her, I just want her to make her choice not just for me to be happy.Sometimes I feel like is she too young and still need sometimes to really discover her her self but i cant wait for too long since am ready.

Please advise me on the best way to go about this. Matured advise pls

" she sees me like her big brother, father and lover." Gross

No she is not too young she just has to be sure that she is ready to settle down so that she doesn't turn out to be one of those girls who start feeling like they gave up their lives too early.

look her age wont make any difference.
maturity is not a function of age
she might be well prepared for marriage, and she might prob not be.

i have heard of a 32yr old lady that got married and 2weeks after sepereated for compatibility issues.
just follow ur heart and try to bring her along.
marriage is just a legalization of ur courtship.

Thanks mate. She looks older and acts older than her age. I will need to ask her of she is truly ready for such commitment.

Remember to pray over it. God will see you through

21 is not bad.

SlyBen:

. I have discussed this with her and she said she will be my wife if i want her.

so wht advice do you need

Are u on de run? Sketch ur future while waitin til she's 25

Is she still in skool?

She is not too young if she is ready for it. As the much older partner you have to let her know the pros and cons of marrying early. My only advise to you is that you should encourage her and ensure she gets good education/develop her self to be financially indepedent.