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Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Thegamingorca(m): 7:32pm On Dec 22, 2019
ibkayee:

You like this song? Jam


This trip got you on heat.... jamming to it at the moment
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 7:33pm On Dec 22, 2019
Thegamingorca:



This trip got you on heat.... jamming to it at the moment
I've played it enough sha but I've had it on repeat for like the past 3 months lol
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Thegamingorca(m): 7:34pm On Dec 22, 2019
looking like you... just tryin to fvck smiley
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Thegamingorca(m): 7:36pm On Dec 22, 2019
ibkayee:

I've played it enough sha but I've had it on repeat for like the past 3 months lol

Lol I just got it today sha so I'll be on it for a week atleast.
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by ibkayee(f): 7:46pm On Dec 22, 2019
Thegamingorca:


Lol I just got it today sha so I'll be on it for a week atleast.

You're late this guy
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Thegamingorca(m): 8:04pm On Dec 22, 2019
Hot hot hot hot....I love this track
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Thegamingorca(m): 8:05pm On Dec 22, 2019
Only God knows what young thug is always mumbling
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by jakandeola(m): 8:10pm On Dec 22, 2019
pocohantas:


You no wan get sense na. I done tell una, leave Poco alone o, face your woman. See as your wife beat up an innocent child, yet na me be una problem. The time you use in psychoanalyzing me (wrongly), use it and fck your woman well. Pamper her, help her around the house. So, that we can have less frustrated women. You hear?
u are in a public room so is our duty to correct and attack u if u put a wrong ting. why live d woman and attack d man wen he didnt do anyting or wasnt at home.are u scared to attack d woman.u are not d person who will tell me how to pamper my wife or how to run my home.reduce ur insult cos u can say ur mind witout insult as if u be agbero
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Thegamingorca(m): 8:19pm On Dec 22, 2019
jakandeola:
u are in a public room so is our duty to correct and attack u if u put a wrong ting. why live d woman and attack d man wen he didnt do anyting or wasnt at home.are u scared to attack d woman.u are not d person who will tell me how to pamper my wife or how to run my home.reduce ur insult cos u can say ur mind witout insult as if u be agbero


You will not sleep well this night oh
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Thegamingorca(m): 8:33pm On Dec 22, 2019
You liking what you see
Everything designer, that's on me

Looking like you just tryin to fvck
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by pocohantas(f): 8:33pm On Dec 22, 2019
Thegamingorca:



You will not sleep well this night oh

E want make I give am high bp. Surprisingly I didn't even reply or report him, despite the way he came at me. I guess he insulted someone else and got banned.

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Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Thegamingorca(m): 8:36pm On Dec 22, 2019
pocohantas:


E want make I give am high bp. Surprisingly I didn't even reply or report him, despite the way he came at me. I guess he insulted someone else and got banned.

grin

Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by jakandeola(m): 9:58pm On Dec 22, 2019
Thegamingorca:



You will not sleep well this night oh
smiles I will sleep well d highest she will do is insult me cos she has a sharp mouth.am done here ave explain myself is up to her to gear or not
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nnemuka(f): 4:34pm On Dec 23, 2019
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Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Thegamingorca(m): 4:46pm On Dec 23, 2019
Nnemuka:
Smeag0l abi Smeag0i ngwa come let's discuss

This is d 3rd time, owere ife mmelu?


What is happening?
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by smeag0l(m): 5:18pm On Dec 23, 2019
Third time gini melu? Ngwa zitaram PM
Nnemuka:
Smeag0l abi Smeag0i ngwa come let's discuss

This is d 3rd time, owere ife mmelu?
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Nnemuka(f): 5:27pm On Dec 23, 2019
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Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by smeag0l(m): 1:54am On Dec 24, 2019
Odi na mma
Nnemuka:

Aza gom gi
mana biko, odi kwa na mma?
I hope I am safe
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Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by miracle139: 12:14pm On Jan 17, 2020
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Be yourself. It is better for a girl to like you for the real you. If you pretend to be something your not, the relationship will be short-lived. You can't keep up a false persona forever.
• Forget about all the advice in men’s magazines and in the movies you have seen. Act in a way that is the most comfortable for you.
• Try not to over think your response when engaging in conversation. Of course, it’s important to take your audience into account when formulating a response. You wouldn’t want to something that may come across as rude or offensive. For example, some of the jokes that you may share with your male friends may not be appropriate to share.



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Tell the truth. It is often obvious when someone is lying, making up stories or exaggerating. Dishonesty will lose her trust. Be honest about your feelings as well. Don't tell her you want to meet her parents or travel together if you don't actually want to take the relationship to the next level.
• Research suggests that honesty builds trust which leads to better relationships.



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Give her your full attention. Make eye contact when she speaks to show her you are listening. Ask questions about what she said or respond in ways that show you are actively engaged in the conversation.
• Pay attention to her physical and verbal cues as well as your own. Texting, reading newspapers, watching television or looking around is rude and makes it look like you are not interested in her or what she is saying. If you notice her doing these things, you're losing her interest.

Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Hammer2019: 10:53am On Jan 18, 2020
Puskin please kindly unban me, as I was unjustly banned by anti-spambot in the merrybet thread.

Thanks
Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by IamPlato(m): 7:56pm On Jan 18, 2020
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Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by miracle139: 12:04pm On Jan 30, 2020
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1. Figure out the cause

Jealousy is not a nice emotion to carry around. It is a negative feeling, but sometimes, it cannot be avoided. But if it is a recurring feeling that is damaging the relationship, then you need to sit back and ask yourself ‘why?’

It could be due to various reasons, which vary from one couple to another. Some might have been through a bad past that they are unable to forget, and certain incidents in current life could trigger those bad memories. While some might be over-protective of the relationship. Or it could be the insecurity that is coming between you two.

If you cannot figure it out on your own, sit and sort the issue with your partner, not by fighting but by being logical and calm.

2. Express your feelings

You may think your partner is always jealous, or they may say that you are always controlling. Or, you both could be misunderstanding each other. Instead of getting into a conflict based on assumptions and flipping on your negative thoughts, you both should share your feelings.

For instance, if you think your partner is getting too friendly with someone, let them know how you feel about it. Only when you speak, will your partner know what you’re feeling or thinking. And talking about your emotions can help you get some clarity too.

3. Don’t be too dependent on each other

Someone rightly said, “A little space, distance, and time in a relationship help it to bloom at its best.”

Yes, you both love each other. But also remember that you are two individuals with your own lives. And you need to have space of your own. So try not to expect your partner to always be by your side. Let your partner live as he or she wants to, and don’t nag them about things they may not agree with. This will help you maintain the balance in your relationship.

4. Be honest and have faith

If your ex or your current partner has broken your trust in the past, trust issues are inevitable and might result in jealousy. So, you might start getting jealous even if you see them getting friendly with someone, no matter how insignificant the interaction may be.

Instead of getting insecure over trivial matters, you should give them the benefit of the doubt and have faith in your relationship. If you become uncomfortable when your partner is friendly with other people, let them know about it and sort it out by talking.

5. Try not to act immediately

Roy T. Bennett said, “Don’t waste your time in anger, regrets, worries, and grudges. Life is too short to be unhappy.” So right, isn’t it?

If you think you are angry or getting jealous, don’t pick up a fight with your partner right away. Chances are your partner is right, and you could be wrong in assuming something that is not. So, don’t react. Take your time and let your emotions cool down. Pause and reflect at the situation and think about the best way to deal with it. Not thinking before saying or doing something can worsen the situation.

6. Control your insecurities

Jealousy could be a result of insecurities. Lack of self-confidence can give rise to jealousy when your partner tries to talk to or mingle with others. In reality, your partner could have no feelings of love for anyone else but you. But if you still feel insecure, it is time to work on those feelings of insecurity and deal with them to prevent any damage to your relationship.

7. Stay calm

When you have chosen to love your partner, you need to understand that there are risks involved and that you’re not going to be happy at all times. When you feel jealous, stay calm, take a deep breath, and let the feeling subside by focusing on the positive aspects of your relationship.

Re: Nairaland's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise by Incommunicado: 10:21pm On Jan 30, 2020
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