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How Do I Ignite The Love Back??? by dassylegend(f): 11:38am On May 08, 2016
No insults plz
MATURED advise only
Gud morning romancelanders
Straight to the point, I am going through a phase in my relationship now nd the phase is threatening if I must say. My boyfriend n I used to be together in the same city till last month. Throughout the period, everything was fyn buh since we parted ways, there was never a moment we spoke on fone n never fought. I do complain abt d bad communication btw us buh he doesn't see anything abt it. He gets annoyed over any and every little thing. I must say that there's no effort to kip us from him at all. Sincerely, the relationship is now pushy, boring n frustrating.
The issue now is, we had another misunderstanding two days ago and as usual, I made the move to settle things yesterday. We talked real much n he made me bliv that it will b so hard for us to get along well like I want. I believe we can work things out without being pushy buh he sounds otherwise. Though he said he's in for a change, what can I do? I don't want to b pushy nd I want to earn my respect too nd have my love back.
Pardon my typos
Re: How Do I Ignite The Love Back??? by iceberylin(m): 11:46am On May 08, 2016
Who left the other undecided
Re: How Do I Ignite The Love Back??? by dassylegend(f): 11:47am On May 08, 2016
He left for another state
Re: How Do I Ignite The Love Back??? by Parpor(m): 11:48am On May 08, 2016
Wil b bck to comment
Re: How Do I Ignite The Love Back??? by Nobody: 11:49am On May 08, 2016
Why not ask for a cool off? Try to figure things how to "reignite" things..


Any conversations that ended up with fighting is ain't healthy at all...
Re: How Do I Ignite The Love Back??? by talk2alabama: 11:53am On May 08, 2016
See gbege ooo..
Re: How Do I Ignite The Love Back??? by obiorathesubtle: 12:12pm On May 08, 2016
rub am fuel or kerosene..
Re: How Do I Ignite The Love Back??? by achinaboy(m): 12:35pm On May 08, 2016
something is making him to pik a fight,am not saying he gat someone else,am not saying he is tired but don't know how to tell you. biliv me if i were you, i will stop contacting him and let him do the contact, if he calls you,you pik and talk with him,if he dosen't, let it be untill he does, don't think that he was made for you, that if you loose him,no one else will take you, no sister, just look around,u will see people running after you. you should't beg someone to love you, love comes natural, don't sit around waiting for someone to play you like a pinpong ball,that is called low self esteem, from this moment,treat him like he dosen't exit, if he really love u, he will do whatever it takes to put u in your position, if you start now to try to salvage love, you will continue like this all the days of your life

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Re: How Do I Ignite The Love Back??? by sod09(m): 1:18pm On May 08, 2016
Is dis bout u
tongue
dassylegend:
He left for another state
Re: How Do I Ignite The Love Back??? by njiasi30(f): 2:06pm On May 08, 2016
dassylegend:
No insults plz
MATURED advise only
Gud morning romancelanders
Straight to the point, I am going through a phase in my relationship now nd the phase is threatening if I must say. My boyfriend n I used to be together in the same city till last month. Throughout the period, everything was fyn buh since we parted ways, there was never a moment we spoke on fone n never fought. I do complain abt d bad communication btw us buh he doesn't see anything abt it. He gets annoyed over any and every little thing. I must say that there's no effort to kip us from him at all. Sincerely, the relationship is now pushy, boring n frustrating.
The issue now is, we had another misunderstanding two days ago and as usual, I made the move to settle things yesterday. We talked real much n he made me bliv that it will b so hard for us to get along well like I want. I believe we can work things out without being pushy buh he sounds otherwise. Though he said he's in for a change, what can I do? I don't want to b pushy nd I want to earn my respect too nd have my love back.
Pardon my typos
In 4 a change how
Re: How Do I Ignite The Love Back??? by dassylegend(f): 2:32pm On May 08, 2016
njiasi30:
In 4 a change how
Ready to work on our differences
Re: How Do I Ignite The Love Back??? by njiasi30(f): 2:59pm On May 08, 2016
My dear, distance sometimes affect a relationship. U re d one loving him and nt him. Maybe, dere are other issues distracting him. Stop d complain 4 now, take things d way u see it. Call / text once in a while, let it don't look as if u re d one dat ended d relationship with ur own hand since u still luv him BC men can turn things around and put d blame on u, making u look like d bad person.

Try and distract urself, keep urself busy so u won't b thinking abt him, if nt u will b hurting urself. Nt all relationship ends well. Don't b 2 forward with him,allow him to desire ur company so he won't see u as a distraction. He will make things right if he really wants u.

I don't know what u mean by he's in 4 a change. Let him b if it's clear dat he's no longer interested. Dere re ppl dat re far more better Dan him na. S/o dat knows ur worth and dat will value u will definitely come ur way. In yrs 2 come when u lk back, u will b happy dat u parted with him self.

My dear, it won't b easy at all BC u so much luv him but with time u will get over it and b happy again. Such is life, I wish u d best.

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Re: How Do I Ignite The Love Back??? by ifitumiojo(f): 3:19pm On May 08, 2016
As the person above me said,your love for him is too much,stop d ova loving nd truust me he will come bk,human beings abuse rare priviledges like someone over loving them!besides you don't needto force something meant for u,it will happen naturally!ask Jesus to help u,he loves u more than that guy!

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