DaddySLY:
one of life's most cruel jokes on us bro... it'll pass...

cruchenuti:
Nairaland is my comedy central. But let me just be serious today and help you.


She doesn't care about you because she thinks you are not worth it. You must learn to accept this and move on.
You also need to understand that she has a right not to love you.

Your love for her does not matter at all. This is reality of life. Pick yourself up and move.

cruchenuti:
Nairaland is my comedy central. But let me just be serious today and help you.


She doesn't care about you because she thinks you are not worth it. You must learn to accept this and move on.
You also need to understand that she has a right not to love you.

Your love for her does not matter at all. This is reality of life. Pick yourself up and move.

firstking01:
You no dey try lai lai.

firstking01:
How much are you gon pay if i make you find your way into her heart and perhaps panties?

love doctor, so this z how u give ur own counsel ba?........ Continue.

ikp120:
Sorry bro. She doesn't feel nothing whatsoever for you. Back then when I still dey single, if I jam any babe like that, na once I dey press delete!

darbeelicous:
love doctor, so this z how u give ur own counsel ba?........ Continue.

thowbie7ven:
OP, please delete everything you know/have about her....her number/s, pictures et all and move on...One million and one babes out there...Trust me, you'll get to a point in your life you'll start selecting babes for yaself just remain focused and be a goal oriented pelzin...I was once in your shoes buh today nko, babes crave for my attention buh funny enough, I no even dey send them coz i've learnt from that only "1" experience I had....God bless your hustle bro!...don't let any babe downgrade you bro!...it's gonna be a shame on you...it may be soo hard at first but trust me, you'll be glad you did...Move on like she never existed

vincentjk:
Op as a guy i understand how u feel but you gat no more options. The more you think about her the more it hurts you bad

I've been in this situation when i was still a learner but i later understood how it works

Delete her number so you wouldn't see her on whatsapp again or view her pix

Unfriend her on fb

Give yourself at least one month the feelings will flee especially when u gets another babe wy make sense pass am

thowbie7ven:
OP, please delete everything you know/have about her....her number/s, pictures et all and move on...One million and one babes out there...Trust me, you'll get to a point in your life you'll start selecting babes for yaself just remain focused and be a goal oriented pelzin...I was once in your shoes buh today nko, babes crave for my attention buh funny enough, I no even dey send them coz i've learnt from that only "1" experience I had....God bless your hustle bro!...don't let any babe downgrade you bro!...it's gonna be a shame on you...it may be soo hard at first but trust me, you'll be glad you did...Move on like she never existed

Momentjs:


Hmmm
Getting to her pants rarely flash through my mind, except in my weirdest fantasy. All I just wanted from her is attention. I always try to set up a date, but she'll say she's busy. I'll even beg her to let me visit her in her hostel, she'll just decline and gives some excuse. Right now, I just need a way to stop thinking about her and move on.

Momentjs:


Hmmm
Getting to her pants rarely flash through my mind, except in my weirdest fantasy. All I just wanted from her is attention. I always try to set up a date, but she'll say she's busy. I'll even beg her to let me visit her in her hostel, she'll just decline and gives some excuse. Right now, I just need a way to stop thinking about her and move on.

firstking01:
Ok, seeing you are giving up already, now, shift that your attention and focus it more on that course you find weird and hard to understand, and trust me, in NO time she'd be the last thing to flash across your mind....you think and fantasize on a particular thing when you 've prioritised it in your mind....the human mind is busy with diff thoughts both good and bad 24/7 just like a fast flowing stream with all kinds of debris, which ever debris you allow to settle in there is what will manifest with time....so, occupy and substitute her for something more important like your book or warrever you find interest in.

isyourboy:

guy, such is life but you've got to move on..... I've experienced this same thing while I was in 300l but guy you can get busy with other thing and with time you'll find out she is not even worth the stress.... my friend let achievement speak for you and with time they will be flocking around yoh

firstking01:
You can "make" someone love you but you can't force someone to love you...


N:B...The key words there are "make" and "force", meaning, the op still have hope if he plays/throws his dies well.

thowbie7ven:
OP, please delete everything you know/have about her....her number/s, pictures et all and move on...One million and one babes out there...Trust me, you'll get to a point in your life you'll start selecting babes for yaself just remain focused and be a goal oriented pelzin...I was once in your shoes buh today nko, babes crave for my attention buh funny enough, I no even dey send them coz i've learnt from that only "1" experience I had....God bless your hustle bro!...don't let any babe downgrade you bro!...it's gonna be a shame on you...it may be soo hard at first but trust me, you'll be glad you did...Move on like she never existed

Momentjs:


This ages well. 5years later & i can't even imagine myself dating her because i've got wayyy too many options now. I have been able to work hard & made so much progress in my career(I'm a Tech guy), even moved out of the country to EU. I am very much comfortable financially. Now, like you said, i have many ladies craving my attention & all i want to do is watch movies instead.

Before i left the country, i had casual r/ship & sex with many ladies & some, i didn't even try at all they did all the work.

If you are currently experiencing what i experienced few years ago, know & understand that it is a phase & it'll soon pass. One very important advice: *KEEP INVESTING IN YOURSELF*. Acquire valuable knowledge as much as possible. This is what helped me, i became really confident & i just talk to women like they're optional - I'm OK if they want me or not.

Good luck!