I am in a relationship that is about 2months old now,2days ago i got to know am a year older than my boyfriend of which he is not aware of.we both love each other so much but i can't let go him cos of the age difference.should i let him know? and too i am afraid of loosing him to anoda.pls frnds i need ur candid advice...

I don't think you have any problem.....The major reason why men prefer younger partner is the issue of respect , submission and control. If you can respect him as a man and ready to submit, i don't think he would think otherwise so far he loves you. But most ladies tend to be more confrontational and disrespectful when they are older

Dear OP, its the way you act towards him and the quality you bring to the table that will win his heart

You don't have to tell him. let him find out himself. You can stylishly display your birth date evidence for him to stumble on...but the main thing is....Never act to be older than him in your speech or action.....Respect is the key.....even in times of quarrel , respect and your maturity is the key.....#shallom

Sure, go ahead & tell him. If he breaks up with you over this, then good riddance! You don't need a man around you that's not strong enough to even handle petty issues.

Telling him might look like a challenge......even if he doesn't care.....I think guys don't like being reminded by a lady that she's older.....try and let him stumble on your birth date.....watch his reaction and bring up a discussion of age in a relationships

stylishly ask him if he can date someone older than him,from his reply u will now know the next step to take.

sincerely speaking,most "men" don't like dating someone that is older than them

2 months and you don't know each others age? That's too long. Well it happens no big deal.
To the subject. Age shouldn't be a problem. My current girlfriend is 5 months older than I am but she respects me because of how I handle things. We are even planning to get married when the money comes

Talking from personal experience, I advise you discuss it with him especially if you feel he assumes he is older. I found out after about 4 years that the lady I was dating was actually older. She had alwys refused to let us discuss age but I assumed all along that I should be older considering I was few years ahead of her in school and I relied on information of friends. When I finally found out, I couldn't comprehend while she decided to hide that. So I advise you let him know and unlike me, he may not see any problem in it.

Jentilia:
stylishly ask him if he can date someone older than him,from his reply u will now know the next step to take.

sincerely speaking,most "men" don't like dating someone that is older than them

Actually i'm an exception.....i have been with more older ladies than with younger ladies

Their maturity, care, experience and lovely full looks is an attraction for me. They are also an intellectual and social challenge .....they put me on my toes

At the same time, dealing with them is not easy......but worth it

[quote author=NiRfreak post=45510653] I don't think you have any problem.....The major reason why men prefer younger partner is the issue of respect , submission and control. If you can respect him as a man and ready to submit, i don't think he would think otherwise so far he loves you. But most ladies tend to be more confrontational and disrespectful when they are older

Dear OP, its the way you act towards him and the quality you bring to the table that will win his heart

You don't have to tell him. let him find out himself. You can stylishly display your birth date evidence for him to stumble on...but the main thing is....Never act to be older than him in your speech or action.....Respect is the key.....even in times of quarrel , respect and your maturity is the key.....#shallom

Thanks dear,he has confessed that one of the qualities he admires most in me is my respect and care 4 him.

[quote author=Gudsyd post=45512683][/quote] You see.....quickly let him stumble on your age........and discuss age issue in relationship to know his perspective.......so that you wont be dating on assumption.

In my own case, after few weeks , i noticed my babe was older.....i stylishly discuss the issue of age in relationship ....and i found out she's okay with dating younger guy as long as love and maturity is there. when i finally told her.....she was shocked.....cos she had thought i was older.....but she still continues doing her thing....

When you act mature and you fire her well well...she will forget about age....that's gals for you. Though before marrying such , be sure she doesn't have attitude.

@Jentilia,don't u think if i stylishly ask him,he will suspect me?

NiRfreak:
I don't think you have any problem.....The major reason why men prefer younger partner is the issue of respect , submission and control. If you can respect him as a man and ready to submit, i don't think he would think otherwise so far he loves you. But most ladies tend to be more confrontational and disrespectful when they are older

Dear OP, its the way you act towards him and the quality you bring to the table that will win his heart

You don't have to tell him. let him find out himself. You can stylishly display your birth date evidence for him to stumble on...but the main thing is....Never act to be older than him in your speech or action.....Respect is the key.....even in times of quarrel , respect and your maturity is the key.....#shallom

And i therefore stamp and put a seal on this coment as the best advice for this thread...miss op, take this home.

Gudsyd:
@Jentilia,don't u think if i stylishly ask him,he will suspect me?

dat was why I said stylishly...

NiRfreak:
Actually i'm an exception.....i have been with more older ladies than with younger ladies

Their maturity, care, experience and lovely full looks is an attraction for me. They are also an intellectual and social challenge .....they put me on my toes

At the same time, dealing with them is not easy......but worth it

its true

NiRfreak:
I don't think you have any problem.....The major reason why men prefer younger partner is the issue of respect , submission and control. If you can respect him as a man and ready to submit, i don't think he would think otherwise so far he loves you. But most ladies tend to be more confrontational and disrespectful when they are older

Dear OP, its the way you act towards him and the quality you bring to the table that will win his heart

You don't have to tell him. let him find out himself. You can stylishly display your birth date evidence for him to stumble on...but the main thing is....Never act to be older than him in your speech or action.....Respect is the key.....even in times of quarrel , respect and your maturity is the key.....#shallom

Op i think this is a fantastic reply..
Am even currently looking for an older lady to date

I don't think you have any problem.....The major reason why men prefer younger partner is the issue of respect , submission and control. If you can respect him as a man and ready to submit, i don't think he would think otherwise so far he loves you. But most ladies tend to be more confrontational and disrespectful when they are older

Dear OP, its the way you act towards him and the quality you bring to the table that will win his heart

You don't have to tell him. let him find out himself. You can stylishly display your birth date evidence for him to stumble on...but the main thing is....Never act to be older than him in your speech or action.....Respect is the key.....even in times of quarrel , respect and your maturity is the key.....#shallom


TAKE THIS GUYS ADVICE..............Its okay

thanx to u all

Do tell him.

putting myself in ur boyfriend's shoes....it is better u tell me than for me to find out from another source