Reason is because instead of vividly reasoning and making ur main chic understands how u enjoy a relationship or marriage, u prefer experimenting outside...U can easily make ur wife/main chic romantic by giving her the tips u've seen from other ladies that really suits ur taste. shikina!!!

Main reason is that some women and real chics are too comfortable.
Now look at this scenario.
Before he met you, you were all polished and stylish, well dressed, hairdo always wonderful, Sexy as omotola. But after marriage you start dressing like an old woman, you no longer care about your hair or the way you dress. That's the problem. Men are moved by what we see. So it's the responsibility of a wife or serious date to always look attractive even after marriage. Don't give me the 'she now has kids' tramp.
Angelina Jolie, Jada pinkett, omotola ekehinde all have kids but still look 16.
You think they don't work hard to be so fit and attractive?
In conclusion, some guys are dogs and can't be satisfied by one woman. So it is a two way thing.
But a woman must always look Sexy for her man

naijaboiy:

Surprisingly...

kiddoiLL:
I have one simple answer..
that is because you are a CHEAT!![b] .... thats why you have a side chick outside... You have DSTV in your house yet you going outside to watch star times..my brother abeg na wetin una dey find??

That one bad o ;

PunkyV:
Ever heard of the phrase, familiarity breeds contempt? Probably because they (the side chics) dont get to deal with your shit everyday & don't really know you the way your long term partner knows you. Most men tend to be on their best behaviour & bring their A-game while trying to establish a new relationship, so of course you're gonna get treated like a superstar because you yourself are acting more like a trooper than a loser.

that's it. Well said my sister.

PunkyV:


Still applies. Let me give you an example. Let's say the guy in question has a wife, right? After some time she realises he has shortcomings & it frustrates the heck out of her. That IS real life. Couples have real issues, so sometimes steamy sex takes the backseat because there're bigger issues to be dealt with. Nobody is gonna feel like sexy time when there're bills owed, kids on the way, etc.

Now in comes the mistress who takes his mind off his real life problems & allows him to engage in this fantasy life where it's all about pleasure & none of the serious issues he has at home. Do you think he goes over there all gloomy? Of course not! He goes in there a different person on a mission to forget his troubles even if it's for a little while. He puts his best foot forward. Indulges in fantasy. Hence it'll seem like his other life is so much better, even more satisfying than the one he has at home. Delusion at its finest.

That's MY take on it.

End of discussion.

rokiatu:
End of discussion.

Booyakah!

korel9:


Isn't that the more reason why wives should put up a selfdefence by giving romance for romance or even better?

Why you come dey call my name inside una discussion?

Security breeds complacency.

korel9:


But bros, what stops the wives from doing same "stuffs" u mentioned above?

Once ladies get married, they stop bn hot cos they know so well the husby can't do sh¡t about em anymore....

Once they get married they start dressing like grandmothers....with boobs, the shape of Dunlop slippers...they abandon their bras

Once they get married, their sexual like take a turn around, the become boring in bed...all the crazy sex position disappear into the thin air

Once they get married, you cant shower with em any longer, using 'there are more important things to do as an escuse'

They concentrate more on bn mothers forgetting they are wives too

All because they already got what they wanted MARRIAGE