Hello nlanders, I met this girl and we exchanged numbers;after couple of days chatting and talking we started going out and it's like a month now together I have been trying to get to know her;but she wants something serious ,I realized she is not the type of person I would like to commit with after getting to know her a little.I want to end the relationship in a peaceful and subtle way and let her move on;but she is all over the place calling and texting like forever,I am struggling to get rid of her.Guyz your advise and tips are welcome;cause I am really confused.

There is no need to be confused Bro
Heard about the starving technique?
Starve her of your time and attention
Chikena

Stop all communications if you can.

There will be a time u"d want smth serious wit a girl and she will definitely break ur heart op.. why u doin dis to dat poor girl

U started it gather up ur ish


u guys will cause probls and b looking for help upandan

ArchEnemy:
There is no need to be confused Bro
Heard about the starving technique?
Starve her of your time and attention
Chikena

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Thanks that's a great start and see how it goes

have you eaten the cookie?

All these heartbreakers sef

talk2alabama:
There will be a time u"d want smth serious wit a girl and she will definitely break ur heart op.. why u doin dis to dat poor girl

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Stop cursing me;I am pained too;but I am doing it for both us,so we are free and get people we want to be with

juhan:
All these heartbreakers sef

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I am no heart breaker that's why I didn't do it the hard way;not every relationship must last forever

tosyne2much:
Dis thing dey very easy now... To make her lose interest in you, when you want to start up a chat on whatsapp or BBM, kindly start the chat with What's up friend?


Come and thank me later

Hahahaha that's a mean trick;you crack me up;thanks for the advice

halfricanadian:
U started it gather up ur ish


u guys will cause probls and b looking for help upandan

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We are humans na;we just can't prognosticate the future;stop acting like you are superwoman who got the whole shit figured out all of the times

gabbidonb:
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We are humans na;we just can't prognosticate the future;stop acting like you are superwoman who got the whole shit figured out all of the times

see as u wash me sha

delishpot:
Stop all communications if you can.

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I tried that but it's not working so far;plus I find it harsh and extreme

gabbidonb:
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I am no heart breaker that's why I didn't do it the hard way;not every relationship must last forever

then why lead the babe when you know you aint in for sth serious. You are a heartbreaker!

juhan:
then why lead the babe when you know you aint in for sth serious. You are a heartbreaker!

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This is only a month old relationship;we were trying to get to know each other;she is over zealous and want commitment but I don't feel she is the best person for me,so I don't want to make promises I can't keep.Stop judging me and understand the context of my situation. I know you don't decide to commit with someone from the first day you meet them,so I am no angel just human like you.

halfricanadian:


see as u wash me sha

Just saying though,no hard feelings or anger pouring.I value your opinion highly ,but just sharing my perspective on the ish.

gabbidonb:
Just saying though,no hard feelings or anger pouring.I value your opinion highly ,but just sharing my perspective on the ish.

Its ok

gabbidonb:
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This is only a month old relationship;we were trying to get to know each other;she is over zealous and want commitment but I don't feel she is the best person for me,so I don't want to make promises I can't keep.Stop judging me and understand the context of my situation. I know you don't decide to commit with someone from the first day you meet them,so I am no angel just human like you.

just a month old relationship? So you wanna break up with her after one month?? Keep tryin' to convince yourself that you arent a heartbreaker.

Stop doing all yo doing, chatting, catching out etc and the message will be sent in full red light . Easy isn't it?

If she's bold enough to ask whatsup, just say "nothing" and smile.

Then, no more word from u... You'll be forgotten like u forgot whatever hapind when u were 5months old

juhan:
just a month old relationship? So you wanna break up with her after one month?? Keep tryin' to convince yourself that you arent a heartbreaker.

. I am not trying I know I am not;even if you label me one by your own standard. If I were heart breaker then there is no point to ask for advice here,I would just do the breaking my way. Stop being unreasonable and too hard on me.

Instead of looking for excuses, Just plainly tell her that you don't think u can go on with what ever you guys have going on. She might feel bad, but it would be better in d long run.

gabbidonb:
. I am not trying I know I am not;even if you label me one by your own standard. If I were heart breaker then there is no point to ask for advice here,I would just do the breaking my way. Stop being unreasonable and too hard and on me.

hmmm ah don hear o just try talk to d babe and use style shift from her.


P.S You're still a heartbreaker to me

gabbidonb:
Hello nlanders, I met this girl and we exchanged numbers;after couple of days chatting and talking we started going out and it's like a month now together I have been trying to get to know her;but she wants something serious ,I realized she is not the type of person I would like to commit with after getting to know her a little.I want to end the relationship in a peaceful and subtle way and let her move on;but she is all over the place calling and texting like forever,I am struggling to get rid of her.Guyz your advise and tips are welcome;cause I am really confused.

You were blind when you wooed her but after fucking her upandan she's no longer the type for you to settle with?

You must marry her

mhiz:
Instead of looking for excuses, Just plainly tell her that you don't think u can go on with what ever you guys have going on. She might feel bad, but it would be better in d long run.

. I am garnering the courage to make such blunt outpouring.That seems harsh though and I don't want to deal with her immediate reaction.

CarrotAndStick:
You must marry her

. Hehehe talking about marriage within a month in a relationship is a turn off for me.

CarrotAndStick:

You were blind when you wooed her but after fucking her upandan she's no longer the type for you to settle with?

We bleeped each other and enjoyed the ecstasy;it wasn't a one way street.

gabbidonb:
. I am garnering the courage to make such blunt outpouring.That seems harsh though and I don't want to deal with her immediate reaction.

She may go hysterical or stuff, but she will respect you for it later. Its better than letting her invest more of herself. The sooner you tell her, the better and easier for you.

juhan:
hmmm ah don hear o just try talk to d babe and use style shift from her.


P.S You're still a heartbreaker to me

You have a perfect world I see,where mistakes are not allowed.Enjoy it queen

mhiz:

She may go hysterical or stuff, but she will respect you for it later. Its better than letting her invest more of herself. The sooner you tell her, the better and easier for you.

I agree with you,that's why I wanna do it now;I have been ignoring her and stuff but it's not working so far.