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Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by fernandoc(m): 11:43pm On May 16, 2016
God really saved that guy from your hands. You pushed him to better his life subconsciously now better girls will have time for him. Enjoy your 'big boys'.

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Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by Nobody: 12:21am On May 17, 2016
Make una free dis babe na grin grin
Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by kellyJames5(m): 12:41am On May 17, 2016
mehn! see as i dey fume as i dey read this...
mtcheww op, sorry but you damn wicked! .its cause of you that' some guys are ruthless to girls.
if I'm the guy, i won't call you again in this life!

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Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by Nobody: 12:46am On May 17, 2016
Haba do you see tribal marks on face ? , this is so fictional
Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by Nobody: 1:21am On May 17, 2016
emanuellah:
I thought I was just playing with him. I thought he was just a nuisance in my life. I was used to the attention the "big boys" gave me and looked down on him as a "small boy". Now I long so dearly for him.

Ayo and I were classmates back in secondary school. Classmates in the sense that not in the exact same class, but we were in the same "level" (he was in SS3 science class, I was in SS3 commercial class). We met again a few years ago when I visited my aunt in Lagos. My aunt was the landlord to those he was staying with. Over a few days I was around we talked alot. i got to know his mum had a stall in my school in Ibadan and i usually frequent the place to buy stuff since it wasn't far from my hostel block. He schooled in ilorin and was in Lagos for holidays. When I finally left, we exchanged numbers and he promised to call me.

Over the next few months, we exchanged a few calls. He really wanted to know me better but the pride in me didn't let me submit to him. Most of the time whenever i went to buy stuff at his mom's shop, the sales girl was always like he asked of me. I had already changed my number by then so i never thought of letting him have my new number.

Eventually we got back in touch and he regularly came over to see me at home. I thought i was using him to while away time and just saw him as one of those boys i could tax once in a while, and tax him i really did. He eventually moved to Abuja for his youth service and every now and then i would call him to send me some money, something he sometimes did.

I remember what finally led us to part. For a while he had been asking me to come over to visit him in Abuja and i kept on telling him i would, but I knew I was just posting him. Finally just to test him, i asked him to send me transport fare and if he did, I would come. He told me I should borrow the money and he'll refund it but I refused. Imagine my surprise when, i think it was two days later, I got an alert for 10k in my account. He immediately called me afterwards and told me he had sent the money and he really wanted me to come. I promised him i would, but deep in my mind, I was like mumu, he wan date woman like me, small boy like him. I didn't go and i spent the money he sent. i later switched my number off for a few days, and afterwards I called him and told him I had come to Abuja but kept trying to call him. I know he knew I was lying but he just said he was a bit busy. He never mentioned the money.

A few weeks later he came to Ibadan and told me he wanted to see me. He came to my house and i saw he had bought a car and that was what he wanted to show me. He took me out for ice cream that day and when he dropped me back home a few hours later, he told me he wanted to ask me something. He asked me why did i lie to him. i asked what he meant and he said why did I lie that i came to abuja when I didn't. He said if i needed the money and if i didn't want to come, i should have just told him so. That statement made me flare up and I yelled at him. I told him some really nasty things that day. I told him that honestly, I had never liked him and was trying hard to like him. i told him I didn't care whatever he thought and he was a small boy to me. That if I was whining for a measly 10k, I wondered how he was going to get a girl. I told him 10k was chicken change to me and it was a sum i spent doing my hair. i raved and ranted for long and he just sat there listening to me quietly.

After I had let out my steam, he quietly apologized and said he was sorry i took it that way. He shouldn't have asked in such a manner. He should have let me explain why i didn't come and that he wouldn't ask again. He also said he didn't realize that was the way i felt about him and that he was only trying to be nice, and he just saw me as someone he really cared about. That brought my mind down a bit and before he left, i told him i really didn't mean any of what I said. He then tried to kiss me, and after doing some initial gragra, i allowed him to give me a small peck on my lips.

That was the last time I saw him cry. He called me occasionally but he didn't come to Ibadan for a long while. He later called me and told me he had gotten an admission to study for his masters and he was leaving in a few days. I told him once he gets to the US he should remember to send me some dollars and he said he will.

He's been away for a few years now and I realize i miss him. i miss seeing his face, i miss our talks, i miss his "ijogbon". I thought I was just using him for his kindness but i now realize that i had developed a little flame for him in my heart. I sometimes dream about him and i really want to see him again. cry

This is why I tell guys to stop being nice to girls except she's your sister. We that don't give an f and treat like little brats they respond and submit sex in hours or at most 5 days. I have been a nice guy before and I know what I have suffered. #NoLoveLost
Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by vchykp(m): 2:08am On May 17, 2016
[size=14pt]Nollywood got me in this[/size]




Watching out for Part2
Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by nerdfrost(m): 2:41am On May 17, 2016
thesicilian:
Wale Adenuga Productions
. We are nothing but pencils cheesy cheesy
Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by Nobody: 6:50am On May 17, 2016
thesicilian:
Wale Adenuga Productions
We are nothing but pencil in the hand of our creator.
Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by Nobody: 7:11am On May 17, 2016
the mistake a man will make to any lady, is to be called a nice guy!



once ur gf open her smelly.mouth to say, "baby u are a nice person" blv u me, u are finish

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Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by Gogetta(m): 7:29am On May 17, 2016
Good you now realise this. Give the homeboy a buzz, pour out your heart. I hope it's no too late though. He may have moved on.
Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by damola44(m): 7:30am On May 17, 2016
The regrets of Cynthia part 1 grin grin grin
Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by dazzlingd(m): 7:33am On May 17, 2016
emanuellah:
I thought I was just playing with him. I thought he was just a nuisance in my life. I was used to the attention the "big boys" gave me and looked down on him as a "small boy". Now I long so dearly for him.

Ayo and I were classmates back in secondary school. Classmates in the sense that not in the exact same class, but we were in the same "level" (he was in SS3 science class, I was in SS3 commercial class). We met again a few years ago when I visited my aunt in Lagos. My aunt was the landlord to those he was staying with. Over a few days I was around we talked alot. i got to know his mum had a stall in my school in Ibadan and i usually frequent the place to buy stuff since it wasn't far from my hostel block. He schooled in ilorin and was in Lagos for holidays. When I finally left, we exchanged numbers and he promised to call me.

Over the next few months, we exchanged a few calls. He really wanted to know me better but the pride in me didn't let me submit to him. Most of the time whenever i went to buy stuff at his mom's shop, the sales girl was always like he asked of me. I had already changed my number by then so i never thought of letting him have my new number.

Eventually we got back in touch and he regularly came over to see me at home. I thought i was using him to while away time and just saw him as one of those boys i could tax once in a while, and tax him i really did. He eventually moved to Abuja for his youth service and every now and then i would call him to send me some money, something he sometimes did.

I remember what finally led us to part. For a while he had been asking me to come over to visit him in Abuja and i kept on telling him i would, but I knew I was just posting him. Finally just to test him, i asked him to send me transport fare and if he did, I would come. He told me I should borrow the money and he'll refund it but I refused. Imagine my surprise when, i think it was two days later, I got an alert for 10k in my account. He immediately called me afterwards and told me he had sent the money and he really wanted me to come. I promised him i would, but deep in my mind, I was like mumu, he wan date woman like me, small boy like him. I didn't go and i spent the money he sent. i later switched my number off for a few days, and afterwards I called him and told him I had come to Abuja but kept trying to call him. I know he knew I was lying but he just said he was a bit busy. He never mentioned the money.

A few weeks later he came to Ibadan and told me he wanted to see me. He came to my house and i saw he had bought a car and that was what he wanted to show me. He took me out for ice cream that day and when he dropped me back home a few hours later, he told me he wanted to ask me something. He asked me why did i lie to him. i asked what he meant and he said why did I lie that i came to abuja when I didn't. He said if i needed the money and if i didn't want to come, i should have just told him so. That statement made me flare up and I yelled at him. I told him some really nasty things that day. I told him that honestly, I had never liked him and was trying hard to like him. i told him I didn't care whatever he thought and he was a small boy to me. That if I was whining for a measly 10k, I wondered how he was going to get a girl. I told him 10k was chicken change to me and it was a sum i spent doing my hair. i raved and ranted for long and he just sat there listening to me quietly.

After I had let out my steam, he quietly apologized and said he was sorry i took it that way. He shouldn't have asked in such a manner. He should have let me explain why i didn't come and that he wouldn't ask again. He also said he didn't realize that was the way i felt about him and that he was only trying to be nice, and he just saw me as someone he really cared about. That brought my mind down a bit and before he left, i told him i really didn't mean any of what I said. He then tried to kiss me, and after doing some initial gragra, i allowed him to give me a small peck on my lips.

That was the last time I saw him cry. He called me occasionally but he didn't come to Ibadan for a long while. He later called me and told me he had gotten an admission to study for his masters and he was leaving in a few days. I told him once he gets to the US he should remember to send me some dollars and he said he will.

He's been away for a few years now and I realize i miss him. i miss seeing his face, i miss our talks, i miss his "ijogbon". I thought I was just using him for his kindness but i now realize that i had developed a little flame for him in my heart. I sometimes dream about him and i really want to see him again. cry
emotional fraudster, u are not different from Internet scammers. Anyway enjoy ur life and delusions of u being a big girl...I'm sure so many badt guys ve played their games well on u
when the part 2 is out, kindly quote me
Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by thesicilian: 8:21am On May 17, 2016
nerdfrost:
. We are nothing but pencils cheesy cheesy

mightyfada:

We are nothing but pencil in the hand of our creator.

Ajixegun:

Plc. We are pencil in the hand of the Creator...

grin grin grin Watch out for next episode...
Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by LeeFreezy(f): 9:46am On May 17, 2016
my dear truth is u realised too late dat u actually cared bout this guy ... nd u av alreadi let him knw dah he wunt get a chance wit u ..its all too late nd nw u lost him ...u tout u were makin a fool outta him but u made a fool out of urself ....cuz u lost a gud chance to b with sum1 dah also lyked u alot .....Fact is dat its too late nd there's ntin u can do dan 2muv on

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Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by legundarybeans(m): 10:41am On May 17, 2016
i feel like slapping thiz gurl sha
Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by NevetsIbot(m): 11:15am On May 17, 2016
ageraGT:

do u have to show urself! cant you just read the post and keep ur comment to urself! this ur comment just proves how childish you are! nobody is perfect i dont see why u choose to play God and be the judge. pipo like u cant even walk up to a decent lady and introduce urself u just hide behind the internet and rant rubbish from your food canal.
lol.. trying hard to sound smart, are you Last time I checked..i didnt use my foor canal (mouth) to type my comment. Cheers mate.
Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by sweetboy25(m): 11:29am On May 17, 2016
;Dhahaha golddiger u must ve seen something different about him now maybe money. ;Dhahaha golddiger u must ve seen something different about him now maybe money.
Re: I "Chased" Him Away, Now I'm Missing Him by goodluckebi(m): 12:16pm On May 17, 2016
dax nice but u shouldn't have said those nasty things

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