I enjoy the chase/hunt wen trying to get a new chick, then theres the quest to enter the promised land or to discover the secret treasure chest..dats wia d enjoyment is but after visiting the promised land a couple times and wen everything starts getting serious, i get scared shit of committing to a real long lasting relationship. to me love is scam. I hope there are some brothers dat can relate to my position.........

Oh, gotta love how misery loves company Grow up! All of us have "issues" when it comes to relationships. I'm a female but I also get the same fears when people get too close & end up sabotaging. What you should do is learn how to better yourself & overcome some of your attachment issues before you end up a bitter, lonely old man with a cat on your lap. My 2c.

You simply see women as an object of sexual satisfaction.

You have to first expunge your mind of such bais before you can experience any thing close to a real relationship

Love is a game for the toddlers, in this type of game, all eyez are widely opened, looking for all opportunity to condemn or even breakup.. They call it, take no shit. But Marriage is for matured men, they keep one eyez open and close one so as not to see all shortcomings of their partner. They love with all their minds without expecting equal return. They call it sacrifice. The programme their minds to love whoever God brings their ways with tolerance and understanding..

hmmmn PUNKYV i see u

PunkyV:
Oh, gotta love how misery loves company Grow up! All of us have "issues" when it comes to relationships. I'm a female but I also get the same fears when people get too close & end up sabotaging. What you should do is learn how to better yourself & overcome some of your attachment issues before you end up a bitter, lonely old man with a cat on your lap. My 2c.

dammydrumz:
hmmmn PUNKYV i see u

PunkyV:
Oh, gotta love how misery loves company Grow up! All of us have "issues" when it comes to relationships. I'm a female but I also get the same fears when people get too close & end up sabotaging. What you should do is learn how to better yourself & overcome some of your attachment issues before you end up a bitter, lonely old man with a cat on your lap. My 2c.

i get u loud and clear.....no need to b so spiteful....how do i work on attachment issues...tips

Tomjazzy2:
You simply see women as an object of sexual satisfaction.

You have to first expunge your mind of such bais before you can experience any thing close to a real relationship

i c women as more den just sex figures.....i have had my share in relationships and currently i am trying to make d one i'm in work....trying to learn to trust but its hard

dotmanz:
Love is a game for the toddlers, in this type of game, all eyez are widely opened, looking for all opportunity to condemn or even breakup.. They call it, take no shit. But Marriage is for matured men, they keep one eyez open and close one so as not to see all shortcomings of their partner. They love with all their minds without expecting equal return. They call it sacrifice. The programme their minds to love whoever God brings their ways with tolerance and understanding..

thats A level stuff bro

DopeBoiRapy:
i get u loud and clear.....no need to b so spiteful....how do i work on attachment issues...tips

Well, you came across like you were proud of your dysfunction. Sorry if that's not the case. I'll be lying if I say I have any useful tips. Still trying to figure it out myself. Seeing a shrink might help

PunkyV:


Well, you came across like you were proud of your dysfunction. Sorry if that's not the case. I'll be lying if I say I have any useful tips. Still trying to figure it out myself. Seeing a shrink might help

lol.....in 9Ja we don't see shrinks for anything at all, even if u got serial killing tendencies not to talk of relationship issues.

DopeBoiRapy:
lol.....in 9Ja we don't see shrinks for anything at all, even if u got serial killing tendencies not to talk of relationship issues.

I hear you. Maybe try some self-help books. IDK. I wish I could help but I also understand that it's a very complex issue that doesnt just disappear overnight. Good luck.

Bro u ain't alone

PunkyV:


I hear you. Maybe try some self-help books. IDK. I wish I could help but I also understand that it's a very complex issue that doesnt just disappear overnight. Good luck.

thanx

DopeBoiRapy:
I enjoy the chase/hunt wen trying to get a new chick, then theres the quest to enter the promised land or to discover the secret treasure chest..dats wia d enjoyment is but after visiting the promised land a couple times and wen everything starts getting serious, i get scared shit of committing to a real long lasting relationship. to me love is scam. I hope there are some brothers dat can relate to my position.........

So women are your sëx toys innit. You got issues bro.