Hello follow narialanders, i have over the years thought of having a nice girlfriend but the problem with me is that i dont no if it is just fear, or something else and my friends keeps telling me that i am weak in woeing a girl but on my own i think the problem that i lack the tips. so please i want anybody on the nairaland to help me out

Nigga U have to sell yaself to her (Jokes, Nice words, Compliments)

TAKE HER WINDOW SHOPPING, TELL HER HOW MUCH U'D HAVE LOVED TO BY HER THOSE THINGS,
SHOW HER U HAVE MONEY, I DIDNT SAY GIVE HER MONEY ALL THE TIME
SHOW HER U HAVE CONNECTIONS, LET HER WORK HARD
SHOW HER TO UR FRIENDS AND MAKE THEM LIKE HER
TELL HER U LOVE HER
ASK HER TO MARRY U

@Obaman,
You are a pro.

My opinion:
Pretend
Tell her lies
know her more
Funny stories
shopping
kissing
introductions
etc,

Guys,these appears to be too theoritical to me anyway,and i feel all these are peppermint and card love will always catch and oyinbo woman(abroad ladies).We cant pretend to what we are not abeg apply Nigerian way

I think the best way to win a Nigeria ladies heart is to :

1. Tell her lies when its necessary,as a man when she gets you.Let her know u have to do everything to get her.

2.Always endeavour to tell her what she wants to hear at least for the time u are still trying to bring her closer to you.

3. Always share in her problem especially when it comes to finance-You will win her heart becos not all men will do this.
(Nigerian guys run for responsibilities).

4.Create time and stay more often with her continuously for some months and keep off unannounced (This is to check if actually an interest has been developed-She will look for you if she needs you)-This means she was enjoying your company

SINCERELY THERE IS NO ONE WAY OF CATCHING A LADY BUT THIS PROCESS COULD BE ADJUSTED TO CATCH AS MANY AS POSSIBLE
SHIKANNAH.

hello osmen,

menike, has just said it all!.

Jokes,
Nice words,
Compliments. one more thing is caring!. you show them you cares for them. that's the strategy you need.

Buy her recharge card

commit sucide

busta

gurl U sooo crazzzzy

go to her place borrow money from her,take her out for shopping precisely buy her pants and bra,then give me her phone number i will finish the job for u

uve made no sense.

naija girls like being told what they want to hear and most are lies

Buy her chocolate cakes and candies everytime u meet + many teddy bears every week

spank her on her buttom then kiss her and tell her you love her,

Give her a diamond necklace

Strangle her and release your grip when she just starts getting breathless.Tis move is a default password into any girls heart

just be yourssself,  thats the best advice anyone can give u [color=#006600][/color]

Most are telling you what probably worked for them. But that may not work for you because of your person (the kind of person you are) and the personality of the girl your going for. Taste differs you. Situations and the circumstances you met might as well differ.

So Bros, just be your self to the core and take advantage of the spurs of that moments: Anything could happen and it will work for you.

just be yourssself, thats the best advice anyone can give u

i like Ur idea betta

It depends on where you are.

In America - stick out your tongue and she will be all yours, American girls know what it means when u do dat. Not me though, i don't go downtown !

In Japan - make sure your sokoto is bulge a little bit, showing that your"kini" is huge. men in japan have small "kini" and their women are tired of dat.

In London - Act like a crazy ass Jaimaican, and b/4 you know it she will be in your house !

And

In Nigeria - s#it, i don't know. It's 235 different cultures down there. But if she's Yoruba, she will break your heart in lil' tiny pieces and hand them to you ! I love my yoruba sisters though.

have a body like Vin diesel

Have money like Jay Z

Know how to Party hard like P.diddy

be a romantic like Joe

Know how to spank that like R.kelly (N*gga gat skillz)

Be dangerously good looking and be

a famous footballer like Beckham/ ronaldino.

oh and drive a hott car!

then she's alll urs u doint even have to do anything to impress her.


C ya in the next lifetime.

get her a massive, sparkling diamond ring, job done. she'llbe yours, LOL!



Diamonds are goood, diamonds forever

tega78:

get her a massive, sparkling diamond ring, job done. she'llbe yours, LOL!



Diamonds are goood, diamonds forever

so u think girls re that cheap, DIAMOND KOOOO GOLD NI

just go with the flow, in the way that u are most comfortable in.

star01:

so u think girls re that cheap, DIAMOND KOOOO GOLD NI

Am NOT saying girls are cheap.  At the end of the day-------women like to be given gifts----that is how they know that the man is interested in them.

when a man is really intersted in you and wants to marry you, he'll give you jewellry, not sporty or practical gifts like toaster or books.  It is not how expensive the gift is, it is the type of gift it is.  Practical gifts come from the head and not the heart---any gift that does not come from the heart is not a sign of love at all.  It not alwasy what a person says, but how they act to you. 

For women, if you are dating a guy and he gets no gift on important days like your birthday, Vlaentine's day, anniversary  or any other significant occasion---you might as well call it quits as the chances are you will not get the most important gift of all---an engagement ring!.

Men in love give love objects, regardless of their income.  They'll give flowers (even if they have to pick it themselves), jewellry, poetry, weekend trips away.
Practical gifts like books, toaster and so on are gven by men who like you and care about you, but not enough to want to marry you,

Moreoevr, a man who is crazy about you will give youall kinds of things all the time because it shows he is thinking about you

Trust me, i KNOW because i have been there.  I met a guy who seemed really keen on me.  On our 1st date, he took me to a restaurant-------and ordered only drinks!!   Normally, i would have dithced him there and then because that was a sign he was not inot me, but decided to give him the benfit of the doubt.  Valentine day came around and i got no gift, no card, not even a single birthday wish, even though he soke to me several times that day----that was wehn i knew he was wasting my time and i kicked him to the curb.
Thank god, i have now found a wonderful person who treats me the way i should be treated-------like a princess because he IS really into me.  The other one------only wanted one thing from me!!!

@ Poster - if u tak anytin away from here tak this (but not literaly):

Man-eater:

have a body like Vin diesel

Have money like Jay Z

Know how to Party hard like P.diddy

be a romantic like Joe

Know how to spank that like R.kelly (N*gga gat skillz)

Be dangerously good looking and be

a famous footballer like Beckham/ ronaldino.

oh and drive a hott car!

So in-effect ave confidence in yoslf jo!

how to win a girls heart .
haba, na that one una no know again? simple arithmetics - u work, she collects ya salary every month, chikenna!! o parri!!

u don steal im heart be that

lol, lol, pls not all women are after the salary abeg, lol, lol

some of us make our own salary u kno

dont bother trying. . . when they are 35 and biological clock is ticking they will be the ones chasing you. Enjoy ur life jare.

biological clock ke, is it by force to marry abi hav kids,