GdexFolami:
Abeg who knws the drug or solution to have bigger and larger joystick.thanks

EROMS38:
He should buy burantashi

Litmus:
Please, about the ginger advise, take that one easy for ginger is a serious blood thinner. If anyone reading ever experiences episodes of difficulty breathing and you're a ginger lover, then your culprit is likely too much ginger. I believe that while thin blood is beneficial in many regards, thin blood dose not transport oxygen well.

Abasanto:
buy a bottle of honey, get enough white onions....after peeling, boil it like 2mins to steam. then blend it to paste, pour it inside the honey n mix it, let him take 2 teaspoon morning n evening, I give u 14days assurance.....It's a natural way of increasing men libido.......

kayceelol:
My dear i feel your pain cos av been there before. I use what is called morringer stem soak with sprite or seven up for four day and after that he should take four tot before meal in the morning for one week
I bet u after two day he will last 10-20 mins hope you wont complain later
pls look around for this and your problem is solved

bitchcrafts:
Since you couldn't conceive it right to visit the hospital for serene help, I think Babyoku is also one sure medication,#wafekulaleyi

chuksmoni:
It is very simple, just let him drink just one or two sachets of squadron and thank me later, I'm bet, na she go run

I am talking out of experience

jydmak:
crush or cut into pieces 3 cloves of GARLIC .Allow it to stay 5 to 10 minutes in order to activate d allini in it. Take with water every morning before breakfast . it works like magic .

StoneColdBiceps:


Sorry dear, some ladies are looking to get married and ditch great sex becos their fiancee not boyant yet for marraige while you are married but not enjoying sex (1 minute). Irony of life.

Ok, d two of you should bé very patient with this advise im giving you...

now when your hubby is inside of you and is pounding, if he starts feeling like he want to release, he should withdraw immediately so dat d sperm dosent pick and come out, let him kill d urge of the sperm for 10 seconds, d sperm (cycle) will reverse, he should repeat this 2-3 times simultenously. The 3rd time he enters you ehn its you dat will bé begging him to stop becos his cycle is balanced and his d*ck will bé so hard. You will bé patient wit him after all d break o because it will pay off.

Im not a round 1 round 2 type of guy. I used my mechnism and s*x for 2-3 hrs without releasing. I release when i feel like. Im in charge and in control.

alizma:

first of all I really appreciate your courage to speak out and look forward for solution. having said that, I want you to know that you are going to play a bigger role in helping your hubby become d man u want. first you need to help him gain his confidence by masking your disappointment and assured him that things are getting better or will be better. play with him before and after d "show". while doing this, let him cut down his sugar intake level, eat like two bitter cola and water melon like two hours ahead your "show", this help greatly.
occasionally he can take tramadol,
you will surely be d one asking for a break.
I wish you success brave and civilize woman.

klexycole:


Hey sis!

Tell him to start doing KEGEL exercise from now on. He should do it 2-3 times daily (you aren't left out). You can google how to do it. This exercise is so powerful that you will be amazed on how he last long.

However, he shouldn't be too excited or anxious prior to the time of the game. Excitement is a great cause of this problem.

Lastly, don't capitalize on his weakness. You both started it and both of you must see the end. Don't cheat on him, be faithful and revise your choice of foods.

Prost!

denitro:
The issue has to do with the brain, its a mind thing...
Here is how to solve the problem for your husband.. Very simple...
Search online for any delay cream or spray..(They dull all feeling n sensation)
Now you have to be patient with your husband...
Let him apply the cream before sex and then engage in sex..
It takes a while to get use to it...
The trick is he will be able to go on for 30mins+, let him repeat this process for like 2 days.
The 3rd day he should then have sex without the cream.. And you will be shocked at the result.
The brain will immediately adjust and retune the mind to last at least 20 - 30 mins...
It works like magic...
Try it and thank me later...
Goodluck

shaye007:
I understand how u feel. Try the following n u would be grateful u did. Blend watermelon n lemon he shld take a glass of it on empty stomach 1st tin in the morning. Always try n introduce garlic n ginger to ur food, he can eat it raw too..(dont mind the smell) the he shld be eating moringa seeds. Finally say no sugar, he shld reduce is alcoholic intake.

DedeNkem:


As long as you have had some experience of what great sex is, it could end your marriage if you and your husband don't do anything about it soon!

Read my response ( I pasted it below) from another thread. It has good info to help you have great sex. It can help your Husband last long and give you a great sex.

(https://www.nairaland.com/3232154/reasons-should-not-divorce-man/2#47648503):

For better for worst doesn't apply in every situation.

Examples where it applies;
When something bad happens to your partner of which he or she had no control of. E.g. Car crash he didn't cause, Family hereditary disease, etc.

Examples where it doesn't apply;
When something bad happens to your partner due to his/her recklessness or your partner caused the problem of which he or she could have stopped from happening or resolved. E.g. car crash he/she caused, disease he/she contracted recklessly, domestic abuse, not being able to satisfy sexually, etc.

Back to the topic. Nobody has a genuine reason for not satisfying their partner, unless the person is totally incapacitated clinically.

This man can improve his sex life if he has the knowledge and willingness to follow it through.

There three main reasons why some men cum too early;

1. You've a very high sexual attraction to your woman.
a) Don't do long f*oreplay.
B) Don't use bright light during sex, use a very dimmed light or total darkness (recommended). This will limit your ability to admire your woman's body during sex.
c) Try to distract yourself during sex. Think about what your woman did some time ago that pissed you off. Your woman can help in intervals by pinching your stomach a little hard or giving you a soft slap on your face.

Don't overdo anything to avoid losing your er*ection.

2. If your woman's p*ussy is real tight for your d*ick. This one is the hardest because the above tips can't help you here. The more tight your woman is, the more quicker you cum.
a) Turn her on very well during a long intense f*oreplay before intercourse.
b) You can use a vibrating intimacy gadget on her to put her in the intense sexual mood faster and may even cum.

3) Lack of stamina. Yes, it can cause premature eja*culation.
a) Engage in Cardio workouts like Circuit Training, Indoor Cycling, High-Intensity Interval Training, Plyometrics, Indoor Rowing, etc. Choose the on you're comfortable with if you unable to try all. Mine is Indoor Cycling.
b) Eat healthy. A healthy body works better.

If none of the above tips worked for you, then go commando;

1. Make her cum first before intercourse.
Nothing makes a woman cum quicker and harder than o*ral sex. If you're not already doing it to her, start doing it today, if your woman has good hygiene. If not tell her to clean it the way you want before you down on her. Most Nigerian women have Yeast Infection and they have no clue they have it. One of its symptoms is that makes p*ussy stink badly and it's treatable.

2. Short interval before second round.
Within 1-2 mins after the first cum, do whatever you can to erect your d*ick again. Your woman can help make it faster. As soon as your d*ick is fully erected go into her again. This time you will last very very long.

3. Masturbate in 1-2 mins before sex.
This one is a bit similar to the above (2) and will achieve the same or better result. If your woman have no time for two rounds and you want to go once and go big. Or you have a new girlfriend you want to give a good first impression sex. This is for you. You can masturbate discreetly during shower and then go for the kill.

Good luck f*ucking!

bassette:
What are dates please...well.also you can try these..get unripe roasted plantain,let him eat it after 45mins give him three bitter kolanuts to chew..wait 3hrs or more for effect.natural treatment.bless

kalaro:
It can be handle with dedication and patience. 1. Go for test to rule out heavy growth staph or prolong infection. 2. Reduce alcohol intake 3. Reduce junk and sugar intake. 4. He should always eat bananas and water melon with seeds blended with ginger 5. your husband should always start with pre-intimacy touching everything especially the vagina area and breast, deep kissing important 6. He should trust slowly when inside 7. Stop at intervals why u talk. 8. Get Ruzu bitters you will never regret. You need to help him achieve this by encouraging him and you too be patient. Thank me later.

Moreoffaith:



Thanks, Water melon of N200 is okay, N500 honey, and N200 lemon.
My brother e no dey spoil overnight oo, if you like make you keep am for a month e no dey spoil...Na wetin i don try times without number, i dey even use my money do am self give people self..

Samsu oil is a type of 'desensitizer' just like it's other variants that come as sprays. It kills the sweet sensation that comes with thrusting in and out of your woman, that way it can help the man stay longer without ejaculating. Work done right?

But guess what people? The marketers will never tell you it also desensitises your woman's walls thereby making her orgasm (which is the missing utopia) even more difficult to achieve. Just like your shaft gets desensitized, her walls too gets desensitized because her V walls also gets in contact with the active ingredients of the oil or spray.

In conclusion, oils' and delays sprays defeats the original aim of getting the woman satisfied. Great sex is not equated with how long a woman gets pounded, it's on the quality of what you give her and how you give it to her. Most ladies will agree with me that once you pound them past 20 mins, I mean actual trusting o, their V gets dried up. Why does that happen? Because the V is tired of getting pounded and it shuts down. Every other pounding after that is just punishment but most won't tell you because they are patiently waiting for you to climax except she gets bruised which often is the result.

Great sex is spiritual and both partners must connect on a different realm during the act. Our minds have been corrupted by the porn industry (the ladies inclusive o) that sells us the idea great sex involves ramming a yam-sized shaft down the hole of a lady at supersonic speed. Great sex takes a gradual process that involves the mind and soul of the couple involved. Start slowly by kissing, necking, lightly touching your partner everywhere possible until you are both sensually activated. Proceed as the man to give your woman pleasure in all the ways you both find acceptable which may include tounging and sensual nibbling of her clit.

No be person go tell una when it's time to drive in and finish the ritual. Trust slowly mr man and take note of your woman's hip movement so that you can sync your trusting with the rhythm of her hip movement and please don't ditch kissing her deeply while the trusting is going on. The deep kissing will even help ur shaft stay stiffer. Make sure you don't concentrate on your own pleasure lest you erupt. Instead concentrate on the beauty on your woman's face because by this time her eyes are closed and she has abandoned this world on a trip to the 9th cloud. That look of surrender also is a good motivator and shaft stiffner (great guys in bed can relate to this). I bet you in 10 mins, she would have convulsed twice with orgasm before yours.

Don't pound your woman hours on end, that's not what great sex is, pleasure her instead and watch her world revolve around you. Love making is not war, it's an art.

Q.E.D #Checkengine

DamZik:
"When a wife complains of her husband's sexual weakness, I ask her, what have you done to increase his sexual prowess? ?

The kind of food you feed your husband could make him perform soo poorly.

Sex is not an individual responsibility since both of you engage in it and enjoy it. Sex must be enjoyed equally.



If this is the case, wives you have a big role to play not by only inviting him to bed but helping him last longer in bed and doing the work excellently .

Let me remind you of Ginger and dried dates.

Ginger is a powerful natural aphrodisiac, increases sexual prowess, increase libido and makes one stay longer in bed.

Dear wives, when your lovely husband return from work in the evening and after serving his meal, just give him Ginger Juice.

Place ginger into a blender, cover with 1 and half cup of water and blend until ginger is thick and pasty. Strain and squeeze juice from ginger, place it on fire and allow it to heat a little bit then give it to oga to drink. he will climb mountain Everest with ease.

I have a friend who told me after making love to his wife just one round he fell off. Then his wife went to the kitchen, grinned ginger and inserted it into her vagina , that very moment his boneless leg became very hard and he climbed Kalahari mountain twice".

babyt66:
Watsapp me on 08032493281

teekol:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks

nursennenny:
I think I can render some help.I am a nurse n Nnenna by name.I can recommend some drugs cos it has worked for many others.Call me on 07037257678 if u are interested.

teekol:
...He barely lasts up to 5 minutes......

kolomax:
Let me remind you of Ginger and dried dates...

Moreoffaith:
100 Naira garlic, 3 Big onions, 100 Naira Ginger,1 water melon and lemon juice(osan Jagain) you will get this from elewe omo, and a cup of original Honey, Blends everything together. Make sure he takes 2 spoon morning and night for weeks.

pippimp:
That is a recipe for disaster. The best advice i can give you is to talk to him and suggest using viagra.

charlsecy:
Any positive news?

Be more specific quantity-wise.

Does this require refrigeration? Does one have to sieve out the juice, or take the paste?

Viagra enhances erection, not delay ejaculation, and I wouldn't recommend it.

kolomax:
When a wife complains of her husband's sexual weakness, I ask her, what have you done to increase his sexual prowess? ?

The kind of food you feed your husband could make him perform soo poorly.

Sex is not an individual responsibility since both of you engage in it and enjoy it. Sex must be enjoyed equally.



If this is the case, wives you have a big role to play not by only inviting him to bed but helping him last longer in bed and doing the work excellently .

Let me remind you of Ginger and dried dates.

Ginger is a powerful natural aphrodisiac, increases sexual prowess, increase libido and makes one stay longer in bed.

Dear wives, when your lovely husband return from work in the evening and after serving his meal, just give him Ginger Juice.

Place ginger into a blender, cover with 1 and half cup of water and blend until ginger is thick and pasty. Strain and squeeze juice from ginger, place it on fire and allow it to heat a little bit then give it to oga to drink. he will climb mountain Everest with ease.

I have a friend who told me after making love to his wife just one round he fell off. Then his wife went to the kitchen, [/b]grinned ginger and inserted it into her vagina[b] , that very moment his boneless leg became very hard and he climbed Kalahari mountain twice.

As for dates, make sure you both eat if before taking little of your 3 daily meals, it gives alot
(C&P)