Dear Bunmi,

I have always known Abiodun, but never saw him has someone I will ever have a close relationship with. Recently he contacted me and claimed he has been looking for me in the last 2 years. I am in a relationship with someone else who I love dearly and our relationship is leading to marriage as he has proposed. Abiodun finally made contact with me & now he claims he is also in a relationship, but he keeps bothering me saying he loves me and that I am his girlfriend. The only mistake I did was to chat/video call him on IMO, which led to showing he more private thing than necessary. I really need to get him of my system as he is becoming unnecessary annoying with more demand of wanting to see more on IMO. Please advise.

Teddy

By Email

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Dear Teddy,

There is no point in giving attention to what this “distractor” has to say. It’s high time you put your foot down and let him know you’re engaged to be married. Cut every tie or connection that would allow this back and forth conversation continue, and if he finds other means of reaching you simply ignore him. He would get tired of doing this.

If he persist on not letting you be, discuss this with your husband to be and ensure he knows every detail of what’s going on. Just incase, this “distractor” resorts to blackmail you.

Bunmi

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http://dearbunmi.com/help/

Then?

Good responds from Bunmi

IRserveMyComent:
Good responds from Bunmi

You should have RESERVED YOUR "RESPOND".

aotlatitude:
You should have RESERVED YOUR "RESPOND".

No dear i shouldnt have.