When a relationship grows stale, couples tend to believe something is wrong: Maybe I chose the wrong partner. Maybe my partner doesn’t care about me. But consider this: What if there isn’t anything wrong? What if this is just a speed bump in the normal course of a long-term relationship?


Some couples come in saying things such as
“Our relationship feels empty.”
“There’s no spark left.”
“We don’t hate each other. Our relationship just feels flat.”
"There's no magic left."

One thing I have found over time, both personally and professionally as a blogger and relationship expert is to talk about the start of the relationship what attracted both of you to each other.

Every couple’s story is unique: You may have overcome great odds to be together. You may have disliked each other initially, but then something changed. Or you may have fallen in love at first sight, feeling amazed that someone could understand you so well. Maybe you both came from backgrounds full of pain, and were surprised to be nurtured. All of these stories tell us about the foundations of a relationship, and depict the miracle of intimacy.
So what does remembering your own love story has to do with today?

First, it can take a brick out of the wall that may be separating you and your partner. Even one brick removed weakens the wall, allowing room for love to return.

Second, remembering can give you clues (or reminders) about the strengths in your relationship, strengths that you can build on.

Third, remembering can provide you with hope and motivation. Reminding yourselves that your relationship was previously fulfilling helps to point you in the right direction.
It’s easy to forget how hard you worked to build your relationship in the first place. It may seem like it happened magically, but it didn’t: You created the magic, detail by detail. You formed the special bond by paying attention to each other with the intense focus that characterizes falling in love.

The following are 16 questions I have set up to prompt couples to share their story. Even secure couples will benefit from this exercise. You can jot down answers to share with your partner, or use them as a starting point for conversation. Also: Even if your partner doesn’t want to do this with you, it can still be helpful for you to think about.

1. How did you meet?

2 What first attracted you to your partner?

3. What did you do on your first date?

4. When did you know this relationship could be something special?

5. What made you think the relationship could be special?


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