sinaj:
Issorite *yawns*

LaurelP:
How can you say a lady should be fun to be with? Don't you know that's the duty of the guy?
The guy must always be "gentlemanly romantic". Lol!

Medunah:
And while you are at it, wipe his ass too

MRBrownJ:
bro Odunharry
i always say that 1st and foremost you need to be yourself at ALL times, as faking it is just a recipe for disaster.

also, it is important to shine positive vibes, and this starts by loving the person you see in the mirror everyday...so many brothas and sistas dont even love themselves, yet they expect someone to do so. highly laughable.

then you definitely should be happy with the life you got. too many miserable people expecting their future mates to miraculously turn their lives into fantastic lives... and in the process, they become bitter beings if/when their expectation doesnt match what they have.

i wont even dwell on the sad ones that have deluded views on love, and expect the nonsense fairytales they see on Telemundo, simply doing copy-copy/follow-follow like sheeps, while dreaming of fairytale BS. what they see on telemundo isnt any different than how their pastor/family/friends/society "may" expect them to act... and thats why people should forget whatever their pastor/family/friends/society etc are expecting of them, and SOLELY do what their heart desire!

Odunharry:

Very true bro.. nice input.
That's why I stated BE YOURSELF AS VERY VERY IMPORTANT..

Odunharry:

Lol..not be boring..

Guy where have you been?? It been long I saw you on the teaching thread

MRBrownJ:


yes, but sadly the majority today rather live fake lives and pretend to be who they are not, they are ASHAMED of who they are, and thats where the problem starts. i will be even bold and say that women are the biggest culprit here. how can you be short but put on heels to look tall? how can you be darkskin but use cream to look light (with a foul body odour)? how can you be ugly but put on make up that makes you look attractive? how can you be bald but put on Brazilian hair that make you look "foreign"? so a man gets attracted to a certain look, and then when the dust settles, you have a complete different person. these women are criminals and the reality is that they are using it to con men into falling in love until they have invested heavily in that r/ship and reached the "NO GOING BACK" zone (aka marriage). thats only when these men will truly discover how these women look like.

but men aint no better, they foolishly throw money at women and use bling to attract women. while we sadly know that such act will attract any animal around (the good/bad/ugly/miserable/hungry/deluded etc), who no like better things? the reality is that these men AINT got nothing about themselves, no character/personality to attract these women the RIGHT way, so they have to use money/bling.. but the funny thing is that they get mad when some other dude throw the same "honey" to steal their babes, bwaaaaah!

people have to think about themselves as NAKEDD if they want have the peace and serenity of love. forget the money/cars/blings, and if that person cant attract a mate then whatever tools are used to do so is a waste of life. yeah, the Oshiomhole are envied by many young brothas but ask yourself this question: how does these old men feel at night when they close their eyes and be honest with themselves, knowing that these babes would never even give them a second look if they were poor? how EMPTY they must feel to have to pay to get these young ashis to be by their side? but hey, whatever makes these men feel better at night, right?

Odunharry:
Simple ways you can get that guy or make him love you more.

Be loving, be caring and tolerant, be open and honest, turn him on like no other lady, make him laugh(if u can't mk him laff, be fun to be with atleast.. No guy want a boring person too), get him a gift for no particular reason no matter how small, be understandable(someone that's not rigid) and try to understand him and importantly, Be yourself.

Guys aren't robot or machines. Guys deserve love, care and respect too.

In essence, do unto him what you want him to do for you.
Even if he leaves you, someday he will still come back for you one way or the other.

PS. if a guy/girl leaves you, you need to check within yourself what you did..Atimes a break up is not entirely THe fault of the person who initiated it..
More contribution / opposing views are welcome.

How many hearts have I won for Jesus?

His heart can remain un-won for all I care

Evangelism ti take over


odun hi

misspicy:
How many hearts have I won for Jesus?
His heart can remain un-won for all I care
Evangelism ti take over

odun hi

xendra:
So you had to drag "the oshiomole" into it, and call their wives ashis?

who told you they wont be happy they got What/who they wanted?

what does it matter why you got what you want as long as you got it?

MRBrownJ:


the Oshiomhole (and his kind) is a great example of people focussing on the wrong aim in life... but hey, if you think this 30yr old woman married her grandpa because of anything other than his money/status, then fair enough.



by who they wanted, do you mean a "rich" man (regardless of his age)? i guess to each their own misery



sadly, thats a very poor statement, the same that comes out of deluded women's mouth who marry any donkey just to flaunt their "Mrs" status... and whether they are beaten, abused or treated like Asswipe, they stay in their miserable union faking that happy marriage status (or end up dead)

Odunharry:
Lol.. ladies sha.. I'm good dear and you?? it's been a while

Lol yes now
am fine and you too?

mrbrownJ doing what he loves

misspicy:

Lol yes now

am fine and you too?


mrbrownJ doing what he loves

mysticgal:
Why should I do all these to win a heart when I can just do my thing, and anyone who feels he can respect me can come along?









Vote Mysticgal (me) as Miss Nairaland 2016

xendra:
I taught we were talking about the rich men marrying young women.... if you want to make it about the women then you are getting me wrong cos a man who beats her surely wont be what she wants

Odunharry:

Lol.. he's one poster whose opinion I respect alot though there are times I don't totally agree.

misspicy:

mrbrownJ doing what he loves

Odunharry:
I respect and learn a thing or more from your post especially when it comes to romance / relationship..
why don't you go into counselling??
You av wealth of knowledge in that field.
MRBrownJ