Hi ladies, A̶̲̥̅♏ new here. I ve being ttc since 3 yrs now, i ve pco, used clomid and metformin for a year, no result. I stopped going  hosp. being praying and usin natural thing like ginger, garlic, and bitter leaf. Pls any more advice. I saw M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ menses last in aug 2012, i lasted for M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ normal 5 days. On 23rd dec i started spotting like menses , it lasted for 2wks. It started again after one wk, presently A̶̲̥̅♏ taking gnld feminine and pregnacare conception and praying more cos i need dis precious gift of GØD̶̲̥̅̊ . Pls any advice

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Hi muma,so sorry about what U̶̲̅ ar going through,all will be well soon insha Allah. Have u gone to see a gynaecologist? I undastand the pco can b bursted n drained with the guidance of ultrasound instead of goin through surgery. I ll advice U̶̲̅ go see a gynae or beta still a fertility doctor who will carry out entensive investigations on u. Prayer works wonders too. Plz make ur visit to d doc snappy.

I have done dat, he placeD me on clomid and metformin, for over one year , d̶̲̥̅̊ effect of d̶̲̥̅̊ drugs drove me crazy and i stopped taking it and even stop gOing to hospital.

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Muna I know it could b fustrating both financially n spiritually when u put in much efforts into something n not get result bur u can't giv up till u get a solution. Clomid Ȋ̝̊̅§ also an alternative bur not a cure for pco,dey kuld do drilling of d pco thru laparoscopy surgery,diz would incriz ur chances of ovulating. Are u overweight?if yes,try reduce ur weight,stay off coffee,balance ur carbohydrate intake,if possible eat 5 tymz a day(not heavy meals o),3 normal sizes n 2 very light so as not to affect ur metabolic rate. Include grains,veggies,carbohydrate n protein in ur meal,n do exercise at least 30 mins a day. Babes with all diz n prayers u will b seeing ur period soon,ovulating n den b preggy. All d best deawie.

†нªηкs so much dearie, A̶̲̥̅♏ not overweight, i have reduced M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ carbs intake ǻn̶̲̥̅̊ԃ increased protein ǻn̶̲̥̅̊ԃ veggie. Dats why i take garlic, ginger, honey and bitter leaf. For Τ̣̣ђё drilling A̶̲̥̅♏ just scare cos of what i hear after Τ̣̣ђё surgery .THanks again

Kaynee: Zenoj please send me mail kaynee3@gmail.com. Also can I take the bitters together with Parlodel? I need to conceive very soon o. God help me

Babe its not a good idea to mix bitters with oyibo melecine. If ur doing parlodel take that alone. Both interacting in yur system may cause more wahala.

Hello fruitful ladies how are you all doing?

I am just checking in . Please o keep trying, keep fit and keep praying . Jehovah has the final say.

Also where can I get fertile aid in Abuja for a friend

camrygmail: Also where can I get fertile aid in Abuja for a friend

Divine Fertility Drugs
21, 15th Crescent Gwarimpa
Abuja, Nigeria
Phone: 08133943373 or 07038886978
Email: dfertilitydrugs@yahoo.com

@all,A Happy New year to the Mothers of Great Men and Women that God will use to bring about a change Globally.I have really been MIA without excuse.I have been praying along with you all and as usual,every month God will be transforming many of to Mothers.This month is not an exception.

So be full of expectation as anything can happen.Have good thoughts,visualise great things and see if God will not hasten what you see.Jer1:11 -12

Just checking.

@ladyGuinivere, thanks so much. Since A̶̲̥̅♏ drinking bitter leaves juice, won't it work as metformin. I take gnld feminine with pregnacare conception. Does it work. Though M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ trust i̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ in GØD̶̲̥̅̊ , he has Τ̣̣ђё final say

muma: @ladyGuinivere, thanks so much. Since A̶̲̥̅♏ drinking bitter leaves juice, won't it work as metformin. I take gnld feminine with pregnacare conception. Does it work. Though M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ trust i̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ in GØD̶̲̥̅̊ , he has Τ̣̣ђё final say

How long l u take d leaves? Is it those ones dt make u purge? Since there'l b weight loss with it, no take metformin as dt one kuku de purge die. Pregnacare is good. Personally I jus take d vitamins individually with a very high dose of folic acid

Good morin blest mommas
Everybody in my office just de born twins.We got a 3rd pair this week. I pray d anointing go join me o.
So this is CD 13 and 6 days after clomid. The guaifenesin/Robitussin worked like magic-see CM boku!
Also using Pre seed and 10mg folic acid. KEepin my fingers crossed and doing the baby dance like assignment!

@ladyGuinivere, thanks so much. I drink Τ̣̣ђё bitter twice in a wk . D̶̲̥̅̊ γ̲̣̣̥☺U̶̲̥̅̊ knw if divine fertiliaid works. Has anyone used their products .

Hello Ladies,
The Lord will do wonders in our lives like He did Sarah this season. Keep trusting and believing God, do not be downcast or distraught, He is faithful who promised. It is all working out for our good.

I can see Everything Turning around, turning around for my Good! Amen.... Amen! AF came. In all her glory...but I'm undaunted. Praising God ceaselessly. Exhalting His Holiness. At the right hour, He will do it and more. Baby dust 2 u'll precious sistas

@infog thanks alot.

In this TTC Journey it takes the Grace of God to Stand Sure. When Ɣ☺ΰ have done everything possible under the surface of the earth to conceive yet It seems as if Your best isn't good enough. With tears in Your Eyes wen AF arrives every month Ɣ☺ΰ ask yourself wat Ɣ☺ΰ didnt do right. It just seems not to be Happening!!! Then Ɣ☺ΰ have Hope and Start Trying again. In the Middle of taking drugs, injections, checking CM, BBT and using OPK and Baby dancing sometimes frustration sets in and Ɣ☺ΰ burst into tears. Some may say to Ɣ☺ΰ if Ɣ☺ΰ could just take Your mind of TTC Ɣ☺ΰ might just conceive. But HOW can Ɣ☺ΰ do that? Take Your mind off this ordeal Ɣ☺ΰ are passing through. Its just like been beaten by the rain and asked to pretend Ɣ☺ΰ are not wet; again Ɣ☺ΰ ask HOW? Days turn to Weeks and Weeks to Months and Months to Years. Looking back now it seems just like yesterday wen Ɣ☺ΰ said 'ℓ̊ DO' at the Altar not knowing this is the path Ɣ☺ΰ would thread. With tears in my eyes thinking of all ℓ̊ have been through ℓ̊ look back at wen ℓ̊ was just 23years getting married to my dream guy, now am gonna be 28years on friday the 15th of February without a child to call my own. How long will this continue. Sometimes even the encourager need encouragement. Am soooooo tired!!!! Where is My God Am Sooooo Sorry for Ranting so much here

Dearest mamat. Happy buffday in advance.Atleast God loves u n u r alive. Some women die while giving birth.its not our portion but God has d final say to everything.he proved himself to u sometime last year. He cab do it again.do u even know if u r preggy already . Just keep d faith.God makes all things beautiful in his time.I strongly believe that one day we ll all look bk to this day with our bundles of joy in our arms n give God glory.it is well my sister.

@ mama triplet, i cAn imagine what γ̲̣̣̥☺U̶̲̥̅̊ aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ going thru, I'm sorry abt it but its same here and. I will be 31 soon . Just trust in GØD̶̲̥̅̊ , he has Τ̣̣ђё final say. Don't be discourage or dismay cos he said he knws our problems*nd again delay i̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊ not denial. GØD̶̲̥̅̊ will surely put a smile  our faces. U̶̲̥̅̊ shall be called mama triplet for real, just cast ur burden  him. Stop crying instead continue praising and worshipping him. Also pray without ceasing. Much love

dearst mamatrip pls dnt be down cast when thr is life thr is op,if u dat encourage us here feel like this ow do u think we will feel? u av always been a source of encouragement to me in this forum smtimes when i dnt see ur write up here i wonder watsup wit u.pls cheerup we will all av children soon the bible says d expectations of d rigtheous shall not be cut short,its our inheritance as children of God to be fruitful an so shall it be.whether u r 28yrs or 40yrs its gonna happen soon,dearst *hugs*it is well.have faith.oh nd i forgot Happy Birthday in advance.

Mama T,I won't say you should not cry,attimes shedding tears cleanse the heart!!!It is well with all of us trying to concieve.Sometimes I ask my GOd,where is thy face?.Let's continue holding on to God,don't get tired,he will answer us soonest.Happy birthday in advance.

I feel u so much MamaT. Af is visiting now i cried thruout in church y/day and am so so tired but to keep trusting God is not an option, we don't have a choice. Its ok honey you'll come over it, my coz was like that for 5yrs and God blessed her with boy twins Samuel and Daniel, God will embarrass u soon

MamaTriplets d mama,
Oya Alwaystrue, your mainest paddy don show. You be big baby o . Na you dey bother like this, wey triplets don dey the road already?

OK I no fit encourage you because me sef for the past like 3 or 4 days look myself, my husband and ask myself say, how long? But still I just know say I must to stand. Someone saw me and said how encourged she was as she see me dey do my thing dey go. She get pikin o.
I look myself sadly like if only you know how I feel inside me right now. God remember me as I feel so weary.

This way we feel be like say na the weather and the month wey e be ehn. Na February we dey and mayb we just dey Fed up! Besides the weather too hot, heat dey cause unnecessary vex and depression thins .

But the Word of the Lord is our encourager, He encouraged even when everyone is downcast.

Isaiah 51:3
 For the Lord shall comfort Zion: he will comfort all her waste places; and he will make her wilderness like Eden, and her desert like the garden of the Lord; joy and gladness shall be found therein, thanksgiving, and the voice of melody.

Cheer up. The Lord comforts us now. That wilderness you are facing now becomes an Eden and you will rejoice.
Hugs.

@ Mama T,keep the smile gurl.However long the night,the dawn will break..HBD in advance..**HUGS**

I mean even Nigeria Super eagles were called names and written off but look at them today. If they could rise out of their years of delay nothing will stop you from carrying your babies.
Oya you have something to rejoice about begin they dance o.

'Scoring' anointing don dey the house, abeg no miss tonight 'opportunities'. *wink*

MamaT jus like ur ur username dts hw it will be dis year jus dnt give up yet cos ur babies r on der way.happy Birthday in advance
Jus dnt loose ur faith yet ur miracle 4 @ ur door

When God does good, we perceive it to be evil. I'm 28 Dh's 44. Age wise, we tilting towards the tip.5yrs in Marriage and no show. Will I kil myself. See @mamaTriplets, at least we r alive. Can a ghost birth a child? No terminal illness that u r battling, no physical challenge, ♈̲̣̣̥ō̶̲̥̅ϋ̶̲̣̣̥̲̥̅." R not blind, lame or afflicted with leprosy. Cheer up and remove ur mourning garments 4 u shall laugh soonest. We shall laugh with ♈̲̣̣̥ō̶̲̥̅ϋ̶̲̣̣̥̲̥̅." Too. No one can call u ( me, us)
Barren cos that is not a name for God's children. Take ur meds, pray fervently, smile, cry if u must but never allow ur faith to falter cos Our Redeemer is still in the Factory, Churning out cutey babies, with our labels on them. Hold the forth, dearie.

Finally finished reading all 190 threads. Hmmm!!!

Mama T, Alwaystrue!! You are strong women. The joy of the Lord is ur strength.I feel honored to rub shoulders with u on this journey of ours. You r like legends to me.

@MamaT, I can understand the fact that a motivator also needs to be motivated! Rejoice in d knowledge that Jehovah God knows all and sees all. He knows ur pain and in due time Will manifest HIMSELF in ur life! (Ps 145: 16.) Yes, Jehovah God will open his hands to u (yes to us all) and satisfy the desire of our hearts.

The journey is not an easy one, yet it isn't a journey we can overcome by our strength alone. We need his grace and he has promised us dt He will deliver and all we need do is ask.

This calls to mind the question of purpose. I believe Alwaystrue once asked sometin similar when she said we should find out and prepare ourselves for the purpose of the children God will/has granted us. I call to mind James 4: 2, 3, I often think of how I will put to shame the pple who hv mocked me and jeered at me. I distinctly remember the plans I hv made to embarrass someone who told my hubby to "try and increase the population"

Sisters what are ur plans? Hope dy are not like mine (which I repent of today). Let ur plan be as Elizabeth's, Hannah's and Sarah's to mention but a few. Let us meditate on the divine purpose of our Johns, Samuels and Isaacs. Weep not Sis, God sees all. He understands our pain but even if it tarries, it shall not be late. WHEN we each get our BFP's at God's appointed time, we shall forget all these struggle and Pains.

Am sorry,I did not want to rewrite 'so long a letter' just want to appreciate all u sisters dt hv been on this Journey for however long. Arlington- God bless u and ur Boy. Seanbell, Rocksqueen, Hawtmummie, HW, Mystia, Safe06, Cjnone,Pink22, Enaeni, Skimpychick, Muma, Waistbead, Marygold, JoesQ, Ebony13 Believer1993, MYPEACE e.t.c All those our father has blessed may he grant long life and good health to watch ur LO's grow into adulthood and become grandparents and greatgrands

To my fellow TTCers We have started this journey and we SHALL prevail IJN-Amen

MamaT hmmmmmmmm it is well with our soul and our reproductive organs oooo, i cried and went mad at my God on friday evening when i came back from work and palodel was showing me pepper for body, hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm dh try to know what was wrong with me I told him nothing cos dis was btween me and my God, am 38 n dh is 43 in my case what will u do? but I told my God all (i mean all) i cud, I even ask God why he did not take my life wen i almost gave up in march last year tru hsg pain,I want to tell u God held me close so i wouldnt let go becos he has poppose for me n u and all the women ttc in dis thread.

let me assure us that God will do whatever he says he will do, I am greenfruits my fruits are green will ripe soon.
u are mamatriplets u will carry ur triplets soon, HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN ADVANCE HUGGGGGGGGGG N KISSSESSSSS darl
To God be the glory BECOS he has given us our heart desire in 2013

God bless us all

I sincerely understand how mamat is feeling,really. One thing I know for sure is that it is well.When God mandated us to be fruitful,He meant we have all it takes to be fruitful unless we are tired or don't want to. Be still n know that He's God.
I was watching on d tv of someone who in d process of ttc n all sorts of fertility drugs n injectables,she found out she has breast cancer that wasn't there one time n was advised after surgery not to ttc for d next 5yrs or so.A woman that came in during d show to visit me who is also ttc told me of sister of hers that she was ttc n was also placed on drugs n injectables,eventually,she had breast cancer too,one of her breasts was cut off,later,d oda one was also cut off n eventually,she died. These stories n lots more,especially based on research made me lay all to rest in him n keep myself healthy naturally.It's so sad but my dear sisters,we must encourage ourselves in the Lord.What I tell people ttc is that u must believe neither u nor dh has a problem.U're fruitful n very fertile,no matter whAt.
An uncle of mine who happens to own his lab was asking y he now has so many ridiculous fertility cases n he later concluded that d stress n our diet n medical advancement,unlike our parent's times,are crazy n affecting our health status including fertility.So sisters,pls,let's focus more on living n staying healthy than ttc cos pregnancy will come naturally n with it will be healthy pregnancy carriage of 9 months pregnancy.With this in mind,it makes the jouney easier.Also,keep blessong n thanking God,enof of d request,He has done it a long time ago.Remember that d af u c is what some people are paying n praying for,talkless of getting pregnant so,thank Him in all things.He's faithful and able.Love u mothers of nations.

[color=#990000][/color]mamatriplet,crying Ȋ̝̊̅§ allowed,bur do not overdo it(sumtyms dat seem to b d only way to express ones pain),bur av it in mind dat God Ȋ̝̊̅§ aware of wat ur goin thru,ur grannie gave birth to ur mum,ur mum gave birth to u,so y shouldn't u av ur own baby?u will my dear,just b patient,God only wants to give u d best and also test ur patience during trials. Don't give up,b happy,av reasons to b happy n call on God every giving chance.
Let м̣̣̥̇̊ε̲̣̣̣̥̊ tell u all a story,there was diz couple that had 2 kids,a girl(I think 9yrs) and a boy(about 5 yrs), they were on their way to school wen their school bus had an accident killing them both(not our portion insha Allah). Now tell м̣̣̥̇̊ε̲̣̣̣̥̊ where will d mother start from? If God almyty had delayed her for those yrs, she myt have done all sorts seeking for d fruits of d womb,so u see?God has his plans mapped out for each n evryone of us,let's just pray for d patience and best of babies from God.
Its another week,let's show love to each n evryone we come across,especially the motherless babies nd widows.
Always remember,God will not give us a burden we cannot handle nd when he says "kunfayakun" ( "be" so shall it be).Sparkling baby dust to us all.