ThoniaSlim:

Your both two different individuals. . .and its either you compromise, tolerate and understand now or regret it later. . .

OgidiBoy:

Very well said slim, that's what a relationship is a all about right

Lord_Reed:

Jaylinaa my question is does he ask u to come along on his jaunts or does he fly solo. If he asks u n u refuse then u must reevaluate your stand cos if u want to keep your sanity u need to see your guy as he is. If on the other hand he is flying solo n doesn't ask u sit him down n tell him your concerns.

z-murda:

move on, you are not compatible.

ThoniaSlim:

Your both two different individuals. . .and its either you compromise, tolerate and understand now or regret it later. . .

190:

@Poster

lets talk privately
lemme tell u more abt this kind of guy and what exactly wud
make him more composed 4 your type

these kind of guys trust me i know their problems!

ThoniaSlim:

Your both two different individuals. . .and its either you compromise, tolerate and understand now or regret it later. . .

MoneyRule:

I think that about does it.
@ThoniaSlim
YES!!
I'll catch you when you fall.

190:

@Poster

lets talk privately
lemme tell u more abt this kind of guy and what exactly wud
make him more composed 4 your type

these kind of guys trust me i know their problems!

oyinda.:

i say move on as well. u two are not compatible

follypimpi:

z-murda:

move on, you are not compatible.

kim_13:

@poster u don't have to feel bad because u're jealous of your man, jealousy is a natural thing that anybody could be doing its only that too much of it is not good just as too much of everything is bad. All u need do is just to understand him more better and always remember that pple cant be d same, that is why u're who u are and he is who he is , you just have to learn how to live with it and love him for who he is, then keep praying for him hopefully one day he will be that man you have always wanted him to be . no cause for alarm.

TheSeeker:

Jealousy is sure one of, and in fact, your major problem. You're an indoor type of person, which may be quite normal in a way and he's the outgoing kind (which you should expect). First of all, to limit your jealousy rate, you need to trust him and accept him for who he is. When you have that cleared out the way, you then start to worry about how often he parties, who he parties with and express your concern. Honestly, you might not see distrust from you towards him, it's exists but latent, and it's stealthily stimulating your jealousy.

If you need to discuss this with him, you need to demonstrate him you trust him -- as showing your lack of trust in him will lead to a situation you may not like -- but if you don't, never bring it up yet until you've worked on your trust issues.

You also need to ask yourself a couple of questions, like, who he hangs with, what kind of people his friends are, how often he does this, where and when he does, etc. You said you're sure he loves you; you can take the reasons into consideration and that will help in taming your jealousy, and believe me once you work on your trust issue, your jealousy rate will tone down to a humanly considerable limit.

saucekid:

@ poster
to get rid of jealousy abi?




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