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Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by foolinlove(f): 5:11pm On Jul 01, 2016
Ex,

The worst thing you can do to a person is know their bad relationship experiences and do exactly the same thing to them.

I have never been played as artfully as you played me.

You involved your family and my family. You made me and my family believe you loved me. You proposed to me. For what? Money.

When you got what you wanted, you just stopped talking. Then I find out you used the money I gave to marry someone else.

How can you be so heartless? You knew my age. You knew my deepest desire was to find the man God meant for me so I could have a family. But you wasted my time anyway.

I do not understand how your family will allow you to do this to an innocent person as well.

I am a kind person. There is a lot of good nature in my heart. I did nothing bad to you. But you still saw me as a person who deserved no respect. Even though I gave you literally everything I had, all you gave me were lies.

Why not prey on someone younger, who will have a chance to rebuild and find their true love? Why not just work for money, be true to God, instead of scamming me?

I know now you weren't always talking to and visiting your sister, your school friend, your cousin. You were shopping around for someone to fvck with, talking dirty, seeing other girls because I didn't mean a thing to you.

I worked hard to know you, to understand you and to be the woman who would stand with you through time. I was faithful to my word and my promises - I was faithful to YOU. You only worked to manipulate me, to get something from me and then leave.

You killed my soul. It is unforgiveable.

You always said you feared God. You had better fear Him, because He has seen what you've done to me. He has seen your sinful acts to my family.

I hope you are cast into the fiery pits of hell to burn for all eternity. I don't wish you well.

But I won't be thinking about you anymore. All I will remember is an animal of a man who ruined my hope and my faith in human goodness.

Goodbye.

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Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by ForeverYoung197(f): 5:17pm On Jul 01, 2016
So deep. I still have that break up letter my ex left me. I won't add more pain on this thread. cry


Men are just so wicked.

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Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by 247notire(m): 5:18pm On Jul 01, 2016
foolinlove:
Ex,

The worst thing you can do to a person is know their bad relationship experiences and do exactly the same thing to them.

I have never been played as artfully as you played me.

You involved your family and my family. You made me and my family believe you loved me. You proposed to me. For what? Money.

When you got what you wanted, you just stopped talking. Then I find out you used the money I gave to marry someone else.

How can you be so heartless? You knew my age. You knew my deepest desire was to find the man God meant for me so I could have a family. But you wasted my time anyway.

I do not understand how your family will allow you to do this to an innocent person as well.

I am a kind person. There is a lot of good nature in my heart. I did nothing bad to you. But you still saw me as a person who deserved no respect. Even though I gave you literally everything I had, all you gave me were lies.

Why not prey on someone younger, who will have a chance to rebuild and find their true love? Why not just work for money, be true to God, instead of scamming me?

I know now you weren't always talking to and visiting your sister, your school friend, your cousin. You were shopping around for someone to fvck with, talking dirty, seeing other girls because I didn't mean a thing to you.

I worked hard to know you, to understand you and to be the woman who would stand with you through time. I was faithful to my word and my promises - I was faithful to YOU. You only worked to manipulate me, to get something from me and then leave.

You killed my soul. It is unforgiveable.

You always said you feared God. You had better fear Him, because He has seen what you've done to me. He has seen your sinful acts to my family.

I hope you are cast into the fiery pits of hell to burn for all eternity. I don't wish you well.

But I won't be thinking about you anymore. All I will remember is an animal of a man who ruined my hope and my faith in human goodness.

Goodbye.
This letter right here packs enough punch and venom that could kill a snake!

Don't know what to say. But...pls find a place in your heart to forgive, cos if you don't, the hate and bile may never let you live life to the fullest...ever...

But...make sure you have learned from this experience and never ever show you're desperate for marriage, cos you'll keep meeting these kind of monsters.

How old are you if I may ask?

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Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by Nobody: 5:21pm On Jul 01, 2016
Smellinganus plz pass me my face towel ....I'm sobbing.

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Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by bitchcrafts: 5:28pm On Jul 01, 2016
I love these letters, I think I'm gonna have to discharge 3 beeches straight on! Chances are 1 of em will leave me with something this nice grin
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by goldbim(f): 5:31pm On Jul 01, 2016
So sorry,sis.LET GO AND LET GOD!!!he was never yours,yours will come @the right time you'll appreciate him so much that you'll even feel bad for giving a lowlife like your ex a chance to say hi to you let alone of dating him..its painful but you just have to move on!!

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Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by donbenedict(m): 5:31pm On Jul 01, 2016
Nigerian men, why? cry
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by gbens2000(m): 5:35pm On Jul 01, 2016
so deep
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by PunkyV(f): 5:35pm On Jul 01, 2016
Or you can choose to put a positive twist to it & see it as he showed you your vulnerabilities. Take responsibility for your part in the relationship & admit that maybe you were too gullible, too trusting, etc. So you don't repeat the same mistake again. A good dose of suspicion is healthy, I say tongue

They say relationships are a learning curve & each one of them reveals hidden parts of ourselves to us. Please, don't let some fool dictate your future for you. You're giving him power over your life by letting what he did to you dictate your future interactions with people. Just learn from this horrible experience & be more careful next time. It's not all in vain. They say everything happens for a reason & that with one loser out of your life, you're one step closer to finding the right one. Maybe all you need at the moment is a break from relationships & when the time is right, you can search again. I've had your mentality many times, thinking doing it all by myself was better than risking another heart break. But sometimes it hits me that forever is a very long time to spend it alone & that sometimes you'll never find until you seek. Give love a try, in the future though because it sounds like you're still speaking from the pain & not from what you genuinely mean.

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Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by Nobody: 5:41pm On Jul 01, 2016
Touching. Sis just let go and watch how God will punish him.

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Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by Oyiboman69: 5:41pm On Jul 01, 2016
mama ngozi,I beg give me my handkerchief and a glass. let me save, a tear for the op, and a tear for me.
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by Oyiboman69: 5:47pm On Jul 01, 2016
ForeverYoung197:
So deep. I still have that break up letter my ex left me. I won't add more pain on this thread. cry


Men are just so wicked.



that is a direct accusation to nature... I think you should retract your statement.
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by Withambition(m): 5:51pm On Jul 01, 2016
foolinlove:
Ex,

The worst thing you can do to a person is know their bad relationship experiences and do exactly the same thing to them.

I have never been played as artfully as you played me.

You involved your family and my family. You made me and my family believe you loved me. You proposed to me. For what? Money.

When you got what you wanted, you just stopped talking. Then I find out you used the money I gave to marry someone else.

How can you be so heartless? You knew my age. You knew my deepest desire was to find the man God meant for me so I could have a family. But you wasted my time anyway.

I do not understand how your family will allow you to do this to an innocent person as well.

I am a kind person. There is a lot of good nature in my heart. I did nothing bad to you. But you still saw me as a person who deserved no respect. Even though I gave you literally everything I had, all you gave me were lies.

Why not prey on someone younger, who will have a chance to rebuild and find their true love? Why not just work for money, be true to God, instead of scamming me?

I know now you weren't always talking to and visiting your sister, your school friend, your cousin. You were shopping around for someone to fvck with, talking dirty, seeing other girls because I didn't mean a thing to you.

I worked hard to know you, to understand you and to be the woman who would stand with you through time. I was faithful to my word and my promises - I was faithful to YOU. You only worked to manipulate me, to get something from me and then leave.

You killed my soul. It is unforgiveable.

You always said you feared God. You had better fear Him, because He has seen what you've done to me. He has seen your sinful acts to my family.

I hope you are cast into the fiery pits of hell to burn for all eternity. I don't wish you well.

But I won't be thinking about you anymore. All I will remember is an animal of a man who ruined my hope and my faith in human goodness.

Goodbye.
It's my prayer for you that his leave will be a testimony for you. Remember to call me to rejoice with you cheesy

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Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by gsainttrinity(m): 5:52pm On Jul 01, 2016
foolinlove:
Ex,

I hope you are cast into the fiery pits of hell to burn for all eternity. I don't wish you well.

But I won't be thinking about you anymore. All I will remember is an animal of a man who ruined my hope and my faith in human goodness.

Goodbye.


I would advice you take a look at my thread .. www.nairaland.com/3198850/diary-when-love-not-enough

There is a piece of advice for you.

The opposite of LOVE is not HATE, but indifference.

How can be indifferent? You have to forgive first from the bottom of your heart.

Reassure yourself that you were kind and good but they repaid your kindness for evil but you still wish them all the best.

If you read Bible.. You would have know how Joseph reacted to his brothers that sold him to slavery.. That's true Moving forward.

Bear no grudge but don't make same Mistake twice..

Mercii

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Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by KingRex1(m): 5:59pm On Jul 01, 2016
juhan:
Touching. Sis just let go and watch how God will punish him.
undecided
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by kaseshi: 5:59pm On Jul 01, 2016
Foolinlove
. I am soo sorry for what this diabolical person put yhu through..yhu feel the pain raw and it just amazes yhu how yhu coulda been played lyk dat..a million things are running through your mind,a billion emotions that yhure probably feeling a thousand times more intense than normal..buh numbness drowns it all..
Dearie..let it go..it will take tym,buh that fool is not worth an atom of yhur feelings..anything yhu feel for him right now.just let it go...
. I'm not saying it will be easy,buh nothing good comes easy anyways..and those kinda guys,I bet ma right arm that karma watches them in HD,waiting to strike,might nt be now be someday...
Dearie,my sincerest apologies cuz yhur storie touched me so deep it made me sit down and think..i just wanna wish yhu quick recovery cuz emotional truamas are hard to heal....

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Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by Nobody: 6:02pm On Jul 01, 2016
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by halfricanadian(f): 6:06pm On Jul 01, 2016
Babe im sorry u had to go through this it hurts deeply bt well just focus on God nd how to b successful smiley smiley
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jul 01, 2016
I'm sorry!!..I just broke someone's heart!..but its not my fault...I can't bear d complaints and terrible amount of distance in d relationship!..But yet!!..I still haven't come to terms with myself about the break up...Damn!!
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by Nobody: 6:09pm On Jul 01, 2016
I'm sorry!!..I just broke someone's heart!..but its not my fault...I can't bear d complaints and terrible amount of distance in d relationship!..But yet!!..I still haven't come to terms with myself about the break up...Damn!! cry I'm sorry!!..I just broke someone's heart!..but its not my fault...I can't bear d complaints and terrible amount of distance in d relationship!..But yet!!..I still haven't come to terms with myself about the break up...Damn!!
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by Nobody: 6:09pm On Jul 01, 2016
I'm sorry!!..I just broke someone's heart!..but its not my fault...I can't bear d complaints and terrible amount of distance in d relationship!..But yet!!..I still haven't come to terms with myself about the break up...Damn!!
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by schumastic(m): 6:33pm On Jul 01, 2016
ForeverYoung197:
So deep. I still have that break up letter my ex left me. I won't add more pain on this thread. cry


Men are just so wicked.



abeggy, is it not women that made them that way, you ladies should not make one remember things they v forgotten
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by jmoore(m): 6:44pm On Jul 01, 2016
@op >> If you had sex with him, remove God from that post. undecided
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by SmellingAnus(m): 6:44pm On Jul 01, 2016
TrapQueen77:
Smellinganus plz pass me my face towel ....I'm sobbing.
Passes the face towel to my TrapQueen and consoles her ... Love you baby... kiss
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by TuneChi369(m): 11:08pm On Jul 01, 2016
ForeverYoung197:
So deep. I still have that break up letter my ex left me. I won't add more pain on this thread. cry


Men are just so wicked.


MyDear,not all men. wink

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Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by rawpadgin(m): 11:56pm On Jul 01, 2016
the inconsequential fool is a nairalander. u better com out from ur closet & apologise to this lady naw!
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by Gelco(f): 12:21am On Jul 02, 2016
So heart wrenching. When I read stories like this, I can't help but wonder about the kind of heart some people have or if they even have a heart at all.

You'll be fine.

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Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by ForeverYoung197(f): 12:22am On Jul 02, 2016
TuneChi369:
MyDear,not all men. wink



wink I know not all.
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by UndisputedBosom(m): 12:24am On Jul 02, 2016
ForeverYoung197:
So deep. I still have that break up letter my ex left me. I won't add more pain on this thread. cry


Men are just so wicked.




There's a HEART MENDER in the house grin
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by ForeverYoung197(f): 12:28am On Jul 02, 2016
UndisputedBosom:



There's a HEART MENDER in the house grin




Are you the "Bob the Builder" ? That can fix anything grin cheesy mend me now please. tongue
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by UndisputedBosom(m): 12:36am On Jul 02, 2016
Am really TOUCHED by the message...
Re: Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex by TuneChi369(m): 12:37am On Jul 02, 2016
ForeverYoung197:
smiley cheesy



wink I know not all.

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