sinaj:
Go on ur knees nd pray!




Overlook beauty too nd search for character

madridguy:
Use your common sense.

queenoflafia:
People keep saying pray pray pray
Even prayer warriors don't have a happy home

Nikita1:
Be yourself. Have a role model when it comes to marriage. My aunt nd my mum is mine. Aunt's marriage is 19+ nd my mums is 30+.
Be open minded.
Don't pretend
And let your heart and brain leads you right.

delishpot:
First, be the right man because if you marry the right woman and you yourself are the wrong man, problems would arise in future 100%
Then, look for a humble girl. You want to know how is O spot one?

Look at a girl who lives below her means.
Who respects the poor
Who is not loud and flashy
Who likes to hang out alone with the one she loves instead of hanging out with many friends.


The problem is, you must be one that likes her kind of life style too. Thaa way, you two will work as a team.
If you can't get this type of woman, marry a woman that has your exact character two of you will blend well.

bitchcrafts:
Simple logic, By being the right man for every kind of lady you come to meet and fancy. Is that too big for u to do?

Find an attractive prisoner of war, bring her home, shave her head, trim her nails, and give her new clothes. Then she’s yours. - Deut. 21:11-13

Lay hold on” a virgin who is not betrothed to another man, and "know" her, but afterwards pay her father a sum of money. Then she’s yours. - Deut. 22:28-29

Find a prostitute and marry her. - Hosea 1:1-3

Find a man with seven daughters, and impress him by watering his flock. - Moses; Ex. 2:16-21

Purchase a piece of property, and get a woman as part of the deal. - Boaz; Ruth 4:5-10

Go to a party and hide. When the women come out to dance, grab one and carry her off to be your wife. - Benjaminites; Judges 21:19-25

Have God create a wife for you while you sleep. Note: this will cost you a rib. - Adam; Gen. 2:19-24

Agree to work seven years in exchange for a woman’s hand in marriage. Get tricked into marrying the wrong woman. Then work another seven years for the woman you wanted to marry in the first place. That’s right. Fourteen years of toil for a wife. - Jacob; Gen. 29:15-30

Cut 200 foreskins off of your future father-in-law’s enemies and get his daughter for a wife. - David; 1 Sam. 18:27

Even if no one is out there, just wander around a bit and you’ll definitely find someone. - Cain; Gen. 4:16-17

Become the emperor of a huge nation and hold a beauty contest. - Xerxes or Ahasuerus; Esther 2:3-4

When you see someone you like, go home and tell your parents, “I have seen a woman; now get her for me.” If your parents question your decision, simply say, “Get her for me. She’s the one for me.” - Samson; Judges 14:1-3

Kill any husband and take HIS wife. (Prepare to lose four sons though.) - David; 2 Sam. 11

Wait for your brother to die. Take his widow. (It’s not just a good idea, it’s the law!) - Onan and Boaz; Deut. or Lev., example in Ruth

Don’t be so picky. Make up for quality with quantity - Solomon;1 Kings 11:1-3

A wife? - Paul; 1st Corinthians, chapter 7

Destined2win:


Thanks, but I can't overlook beauty. I love to behold beautiful things

queenoflafia:
People keep saying pray pray pray
Even prayer warriors don't have a happy home

STFUareyouG0d:
James 1:17 Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.

sinaj:
I hpe u dnt get blinded by it tho.

Coz beauty fades

But character doesn't nd sustain the reltnshp wen beauty is gone

Destined2win:


You made it look so simple, wish it was that way

Bigcake:
By not marrying at all...

STENON:
This is the same question that I have been asking myself ...


May God help us.

queenoflafia:
People keep saying pray pray pray
Even prayer warriors don't have a happy home

how do u know lafia queen

Destined2win:


Thanks, but I can't overlook beauty. I love to behold beautiful things

who no like good tyn

But if it's marriage forget beauty o..it's not that she should be ugly and have boooobs like that of shatta wale's babymama

She should be of good character, respectful,hardworking e.t.c just saying tho

Jarizod:
who no like good tyn

But if it's marriage forget beauty o..it's not that she should be ugly and have boooobs like that of shatta wale's babymama

She should be of good character, respectful,hardworking e.t.c just saying tho

Destined2win:


You don't get it. Like you advised, I will look out for character first and foremost but she must be someone I'd look at and she'd be pretty in my eyes. Thank you

Destined2win:


Do you mind sharing a little bit of what they taught you?

STFUareyouG0d:
James 1:17 Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change.




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