Cutehector:
me

Rukkydelta:


How e take help you ?

0955eb027:
Just what i wanted to say. I saw her antics on the guys thread and i knew she is interested in the national cake he is sharing.

princeakins:

Then you shld hv stated clearly on what ground you disagreed not jux jump on dt lik dt n fink pple wil understand u

Surfboard:


Bros, no vex abeg

Cutehector:
fvck na

Cutehector:
fvck na

theEYe21:
A typical ‘bad boy’ is a masculine guy who not only naturally looks for certainty in action, but actually takes the action he needs to take to experience certainty.

He’s a guy on a journey, he’s going places, he’s doing exciting things, and his life is an adventure. He’s not sitting around waiting for things to be handed to him, he’s off on a mission. He experiences certainty through his ability to take action and make a difference and he communicates that to women.

He’s not waiting for a nice response and some polite validation to feel good about himself. He’s out there, living life, and experiencing the certainty he needs through taking action. Because he experiences it, he’s able to effortlessly able to communicate it to women so they experience it as well.

A typical nice guy is an inherently Masculine guy who’s biological programming dictates that the simplest and easiest way for him to experience certainty is through action, yet he doesn’t have the balls to take action.

Because he’s doesn’t take action but still craves certainty, he goes the other route and tries to experience certainty through communication. He waits for polite smiles, social validation, the approval of his mates, and acceptance from people around him to experience certainty.

This means that when he’s talking to women, he’s not able to communicate certainty because he doesn’t have it for himself. You can’t give something you don’t have. And not only does he not experience it for himself, he’s trying to experience it through women! He is the definition of needy – he needs approval and validation to feel good about himself.

This is why Feminine Women aren’t drawn to him – he has nothing to offer. All he’s doing is trying to get something from them.

abbeyboy2o15:
so you are into bad guys too why?

herbie27:
On point.

dairykidd:

Lol but d good Lord has nothing to do with it btw where in Abuja u dey i need to come pray 4 u

Deanny:
your signature.......

allytinted:

all this definition for a bad guy? i give up

curvysola:

when a guy is predictable! he is no fun! stress isnt good but its needed at times you know, i once dated this guy, without calling him, i will know where he was, he was so predictable and boring, i broke up with him because of that, am not saying that good guys are of no good, all i am saying is that when a guy is nice always he becomes boring! sometimes a woman wants a man that acts like a man! rude annoying stubborn, if a 100 guys are toasting me, its the one that didnt toast me that i will like!

curvysola:
I'm often questioned by men who tell me they are "nice guys" but feel ignored by women who, they say, "prefer to be treated like crap". While I don't agree that nice guys always finish last, I do understand that we women do make some damn silly dating decisions.

Most of the men I know are kind, polite and adorable in practically every way, yet, like many women, I have an illogical soft-spot for massive jerks. There is something about bad boys that we find incredibly appealing, even though we often regret the experience afterwards.

I'm so drawn to their powerful/sensitive/artistic (delete as applicable) natures that it allows me to rationalise away their abusive, selfish, sarcastic or psychopathic side, until it's too late. I don't know whether it's chemistry or foolishness on my part, but let me try to explain why we - or at least I - do it.

when a guy is predictable! he is no fun! stress isnt good but its needed at times you know, i once dated this guy, without calling him, i will know where he was, he was so predictable and boring, i broke up with him because of that, am not saying that good guys are of no good, all i am saying is that when a guy is nice always he becomes boring! sometimes a woman wants a man that acts like a man! rude annoying stubborn, if a 100 guys are toasting me, its the one that didnt toast me that i will like!

And just as euphoric. One thing that bad boys are not is boring. We are enraptured by their spontaneity, by the excitement and anticipation of being with them. At least until we get hurt, and that's the one thing that you can count on with a bad boy.
So why do women put up with it? I can only speak for me, but the reason we keep going back, for more belittling digs and more nights waiting for the phone to ring, is not because we like it. It's because many of us feel we don't deserve better.

Perhaps I've become accustomed to disappointment or to people withholding affection. Perhaps I'm addicted to the excitement that comes when the bad boy finally does pick up the phone. Perhaps I am most comfortable in chaotic emotional relationships, and bad boys are some sort of screwed-up safety blanket. Perhaps I am so used to being independent that I've become scared to let someone really be there for me, so I select emotionally unavailable people. Perhaps I invite this type of person into my life by putting on a tough exterior that says, "I don't need love, I don't need you, I don't need anyone."
Or perhaps I just haven't met the right "nice guy" yet?

@2BB4CB3E is the most interesting person i have met on nairaland, all his post are bad but am still drawn to him! dont get me wrong i dont want to date him or something but the guy is so interesting, he is the only reason why am online most times! many guys send pm to me, reply my post but 2BB4CB3E has never toasted me or commented about my ass, bad guys rock!!!!!!!!!!

Penisinpenisout:



Wow, you're a good writer, you should consider writing a novel or something.
I also agree with your post 100%

curvysola:

thanks dearie

Penisinpenisout:

Except you didnt write that though.
Nice try.

curvysola:

even my project topic, introduction and contents in school then wasn't fully written my me!

curvysola:

lol thanks but no thanks

curvysola:

when a guy is predictable! he is no fun! stress isnt good but its needed at times you know, i once dated this guy, without calling him, i will know where he was, he was so predictable and boring, i broke up with him because of that, am not saying that good guys are of no good, all i am saying is that when a guy is nice always he becomes boring! sometimes a woman wants a man that acts like a man! rude annoying stubborn, if a 100 guys are toasting me, its the one that didnt toast me that i will like!

allytinted:

Hmmm.....Correct me if am wrong, you mean an unpredictable guy who does his things differently from the rest. A guy who even after receiving all the green lights from a lady he's crushing on will still take his time in making a move. The mind game master with his indifference attitude even when his girl needs his compliment.....lolz. I can go on and on....
Some of this bad guys have this innocent like looks you'll hardly take them for one initially not until you have close encounter with them. Let me stop here cos hand dey pain me.

curvysola:

@2BB4CB3E is the most interesting person i have met on nairaland, all his post are bad but am still drawn to him! dont get me wrong i dont want to date him or something but the guy is so interesting, he is the only reason why am online most times! many guys send pm to me, reply my post but 2BB4CB3E has never toasted me or commented about my ass, bad guys rock!!!!!!!!!!

post=47465843:


Like I said earlier on another thread you are intrigued by the guy and we would read your story on his thread..

Mainwhile after reading your post what I see is a broken girl looking for who to love her but hiding under the shadow of bad guys this bad guys that.

No offence intended please.

Like @iLegend will say look for troubles but make sure they are non violent once.

Am not also in anyway looking for trouble.