I was born long ago, thus was priviedged to be a teen when few homes had a telephone talkless of GSM or social media. If you liked a girl in those days, you have to stalk her with a well composed love letter in hand and pray she doesn't abuse you when you finally get the confidence to utter "excuse me sister".

Social media has made communication easier especially when distant relationships are considered, social media has helped many move on faster from failed relationships and has also help people advertise their love status.

Social media has made and marred many relationships, thus how has it affected you, more positively or negatively .

In my case, social media empowered all my EX girlfriends to cheat on me, social media was the quickest way I got laid, social media has reduced my physical chyking skills and many more. So over all truly NEGATIVE

Very Negative

..it's hard when a couple are fond of social media everywhere and acting up like singles.

Even in a committed relationship it can create jealousy, paranoia and accusations based on small actions.

You used to think things to yourself "I like that man's handsome face". Now you "like" his photo or follow his IG and everyone knows what you think about. Your partner will be jealous, worry if you spend lots of time on social media and maybe accuse you of wanting to cheat with this person.

It also makes it easier to see someone who broke up with you, making the heartbreak worse.

That's why I don't have social media.

TrapQueen77:
Very Negative

..it's hard when a couple are fond of social media everywhere and acting up like singles.

shooo!

No other social media for me except FB.

Fmartin:
shooo!

Shoooo too !

NEGATIVELY. ...

TrapQueen77:
Very Negative

..it's hard when a couple are fond of social media everywhere and acting up like singles.

hmmmm, am sure you get to chat up boo easily thanks to social media tools like whatsapp and the likes. Anyway I understand ur point especially now its viewed as a tool for couples to wash their dirty linens

Sempumping:
NEGATIVELY. ...

babe state some reasons that makes it so irksome

ForeverYoung197:
No other social media for me except FB.

even whatsapp ? That's social media. Also even nairaland is social media. Is boo completely ok and trusting with ur activities online ? Has online activity ever crashed a relationship or even friendship

sumborri:
hmmmm, am sure you get to chat up boo easily thanks to social media tools like whatsapp and the likes. Anyway I understand ur point especially now its viewed as a tool for couples to wash their dirty linens

I'm single ooo... I'm not guilty juz airing my view

foolinlove:
Even in a committed relationship it can create jealousy, paranoia and accusations based on small actions.

You used to think things to yourself "I like that man's handsome face". Now you "like" his photo or follow his IG and everyone knows what you think about. Your partner will be jealous, worry if you spend lots of time on social media and maybe accuse you of wanting to cheat with this person.

It also makes it easier to see someone who broke up with you, making the heartbreak worse.

That's why I don't have social media.

so you out law social media in ur relationship ? If you got married, especially with ur reservations, would you prefer your hubby and you keep ur affairs off social media. Especially nowadays people are tempted to fight in public

TrapQueen77:




I'm single ooo... I'm not guilty juz airing my view

alright dearie. Though that single declaration has just helped the minsitry of a lot of dudes who will see this. So if you got into a relationship or marriage, would you prefer to keep ur marital affairs off online platforms? No married status on facebook? Children pics etc. am inquisitive hon

Both

hmmmm OP OP
fine girls no dey nairaland oooo, na ugly, slim girls full here! carry ur post go instagram!
all these coded hunting

TrapQueen77:




I'm single ooo... I'm not guilty juz airing my view

with every skall excuse you go dey announce am single oooo, its over 4months you still dey single, even if you ugly pass laniky, how is it possible that rue still single? na inside cave you dey stay?
abeg go join baddo and stop doing advert

njiasi30:
Both

wetin be both?

sumborri:
alright dearie. Though that single declaration has just helped the minsitry of a lot of dudes who will see this. So if you got into a relationship or marriage, would you prefer to keep ur marital affairs off online platforms? No married status on facebook? Children pics etc. am inquisitive hon

Ummm.. I can discuss tat with my next bf if we both agree, I'm fine without social media ...I done that once, I can do tat again I think...

All eyes on HIM

sumborri:
babe state some reasons that makes it so irksome

so many reasons..

All the problems I had in my past relationships were phone (social media ) related

It's either the boo is saving 1 babe's picture or he is chatting with 1 babe too much

Social media is just bad for relationships ,if not for its undeniable benefits, I wouldn't mind us going back to the 3310 " days .

Relationships were stressfree

annoyingman:

with every skall excuse you go dey announce am single oooo, its over 4months you still dey single, even if you ugly pass laniky, how is it possible that rue still single? na inside cave you dey stay?
abeg go join baddo and stop doing advert

4monz? Nawa for u ooo.. And if I advert tat I am SINGLE ,thats none of ur biznez.. So stop humping on my back coz ur bones are hitting me bad

TrapQueen77:




Shoooo too !

my lady na fight?

sumborri:
even whatsapp ? That's social media. Also even nairaland is social media. Is boo completely ok and trusting with ur activities online ? Has online activity ever crashed a relationship or even friendship

My ex is here. He's very active in other section but he's married. Nairaland is my time killer when it's my free time

Sempumping:


so many reasons..

All the problems I had in my past relationships were phone (social media ) related

It's either the boo is saving 1 babe's picture or he is chatting with 1 babe too much

Social media is just bad for relationships ,if not for its undeniable benefits, I wouldn't mind us going back to the 3310 " days .

Relationships were stressfree

WORD. Some will listen to ur reservations to social media use and accuse you of trying to control ur man. Why don't u trust blah blah blah, forgetting say na who go wear shoe will feel the pain. I am also not a fan of social media, but how do you curtail that love/addiction in a potential lover or hubby

TrapQueen77:



Ummm.. I can discuss tat with my next bf if we both agree, I'm fine without social media ...I done that once, I can do tat again I think...

All eyes on HIM

hmmmm. Nice one then. He go see pepper. Stealth monitoring on point

annoyingman:
hmmmm OP OP
fine girls no dey nairaland oooo, na ugly, slim girls full here! carry ur post go instagram!
all these coded hunting

hahahahahaha. Who tell u say fine babes no dey here. there is a fellow here, very quiet, no pics. But if u see her in real life. You will collapse from awe. I know that cos na my EX. Na her hot temper chase me. So oga boss. Fine babes dey , maybe they not conspicous

sumborri:
WORD. Some will listen to ur reservations to social media use and accuse you of trying to control ur man. Why don't u trust blah blah blah, forgetting say na who go wear shoe will feel the pain. I am also not a fan of social media, but how do you curtail that love/addiction in a potential lover or hubby

Hmmmm .. Trust

I trust ,I only like to be proven wrong

The good thing is their social media relationship don't last and it ain't anything serious but it hurts while it last's