Am 26 & hav neva had a girl 2 call my own.So far i've aproachd 6girls & its always no.Do u tink its becos of my criteria.I do nt subscribe 2 pre-marital sex(fornication).D bible says sex is 4 d married.4 of d girls i've met i tink like me bt wud rather hav me as their gud frnds & notin more.Its a big heart pain 2 me caus i seriously nid sum1 who i can express myself 2,1 who wil luv me d way i luv her,sum1 we wil go thru life 2geda.I mean d bone of my bone.Or is it becos i tell dem i wnt dem 2 be my spouse.I nid a wise counsel,anybody care 2

Maybe you are looking for these females in the wrong places. You seem very spiritual, try your church groups. Like minds associate together.

I you should talk to your pastor.

Beef.I no blame u.Anyway u talkd acordin 2 ur name BEEF,i tink u nid help more dan i do.Hav u checkd ur HIV status.U must be +ve by nw.U nid rehabilitation.So you dont undastand simple english.I askd 4 wise counsel 4rm wise minds & not foolish counsels.Pls SEUN, pple lik Beef shud be shown d way out of Nairaland caus he's a 'DEVIANT & also deliterous 2 d soul

Then Forget about em!

geneo:

Then Forget about em!

He cant forget dem cos he needs his missin rib,bone of his bone
Or you get chikala for the guy ?

i mean forget them for now

bros,  just relax get da necessary stuffs dat make life comfortable, serve God & He'll bring u a wife in due time.

Remember He's d one dat told u 2 seek Him 1st & all fins will be added unto u

 Just relax & wrk hard bro.

Just be patient the right person is out there for you, you just haven't found her yet.  I think also if you don't want to have sex before marriage its better you meet a likeminded woman.  Then you will have less problems as you will both be on the same page and she will be really happy.  Be careful though cause some women will play you so make sure she is sincere first.

@Poster.
God is against pre-martial sex, the church is also against, and I myself, I'm strictly against it also; so for you to stand your ground on that believe despite the fact that six wordly girls left you shows that you're a real man.

I know how dispersed you must be feeling right now; but you need not worry I'm sure that sooner or later, you would find the right girl.

Just had to reply to the poster, you are a wonderful man, follow the advice of the 2 previous females, and crazy man, they are 100% correct.

Take no notice of the other guys they are just jealous of your strength.

Good things will come to you if your are true/

Tanks 2 all d wise counsellors in d house.Special tanks 2 dada22,yumi,crazyman & madlady.I tink i feel beta & repositiond 4 d future.

Dude i feel u you don't necessarily need to have sex just be interesting.also don't listen to those dudes.left to me Career,Money is more vital than getting someone to express your feelings.u can be in a relationship but careful how u let any 3rd party into ur head esp females. Always conceal ur intentions. middle fingers to sex-b4-marriage supporters rot in hell.hmmm i smell beef

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You smell Beaf?

See dis yeye clown! You want the guy to kpeme from frustration before 30. You better tell him the truth about how small clara became iya mukira at less than 26 years old.

luvbooks:

Lmao, !!! This is extremely bad advice but I just had to laugh. How come I havent see u on NL before? U're hilarious.

@ Poster; The best advice was the one given by dada22. He said it all. On a second note, however, how old are you?

Thank you my my dear, that advice is what will one day give my son (before 26 sha). You haven't seen cos, I'm one of those over serious people that spends life in the politics section.

Beaf

I know you are a gentleman really and truly u r just having a little fun with the poster, what if he is 4 real, go easy he is a man like you.

@beaf some mad ass shit came to mind u know it wouldn,t be far you might be outplayed sexually here's the scenario.while you keeping yourself to no sex policy the normal average girl is probably increasing her Sexual experience just like CV,the chances of u marrying a virgin is like 5%-10%,meaning 90-95% u might marry a non-virgin and a non virgin might have had at least sex with nothing less than 10 guys before marriage and a minimum frequency of 30 times,meaning average of 3sex per guys.just guessing but guy u are going to be outmatched,that aint cool.don't u think u might need some experience or at least a certain level of experience.else u might ave a sexual hangover anyway just doing the math for u.at the end of the day it's up to u to decide, my opinion is u don't have sex till marriage then u deserve to marry a virgin.that way you both be leveled. imagine it like Exp points(RPG fans understand).

beef easy on it, u r overkilling me i can't believe it, 26 and no work experience for JT u must be kidding me. but then they that endureth till the end shall be saved ehn flee fornication for the body is the temple of the holy spirit ehn let's take a look at some things, iron sharpen iron, and blessed is he who does not follow the counsel of the ungodly of walk in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of scoffers etc, find a girl who has the same value as u, (not necessarily in church, some of those tied up mummies are dripping cannons , and hopefully u'll be ok, if u can't find one then forget about having one to call ur own till u r ready to walk down the aisle.

^Add to those lovely quotations, "Strike the hammer while iron is hot".
Bobo can't start learning to toast at 50, with bald head and big bellie (that is a crime).

@madlady
How do you keep society healthy when some are refusing to freely procreate.
Even Solomon in Vicboya's bible had 1000 wives and 1000 concubines. . . And he was holy! I would loff to be holy like Solomon

@pc_guru
Enh hen! See de wicked graph wen you dey draw for de guy. Your graph means that he is in danger of hooking a woman so skilled in the "arts", that most will ascribe the resulting offspring to the full blooded exertions the gardener, rather any inexperienced futile flappings from you know who.

I no talk anytin!

Beaf:

^Add to those lovely quotations, "Strike the hammer while iron is hot".
Bobo can't start learning to toast at 50, with bald head and big bellie (that is a crime).

@madlady
How do you keep society healthy when some are refusing to freely procreate.
Even Solomon in Vicboya's bible had 1000 wives and 1000 concubines. . . And he was holy! I would loff to be holy like Solomon

@pc_guru
Enh hen! See de wicked graph wen you dey draw for de guy. Your graph means that he is in danger of hooking a woman so skilled in the "arts", that most will ascribe the resulting offspring to the full blooded exertions the gardener, rather any inexperienced futile flappings from you know who.

I no talk anytin!

LMAO, this guy is kiling me ohhh, abeg pls don't misquote the Bible, Solomon had 1000 women, 700 wives and 300 concubines. And nobody said he was holy, !!!! I will be shocked if I find him in heaven,
Hehehe, @ "Inexperienced futile flappings",

u probably appear and sound too spiritual when toasting the ladies or perhaps you are toasting the girls in d wrong circle.

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Yes, like someone mentioned earlier, like minds stick together usually.

Any devoted Christian girl will find the traits you described to be very enticing, and prayer would be involved to clarify if you are their match.

Also, have you read the nice guy Vs bad guy posts.

You can be a Christian man, but it would be very good for you to also have an intriguing personality, socialise more, even if just in little groups of friends.

26 is not old.


pc_guru I thought you were contradicting yourself then, as you advised the poster to get some experience, but I re-read your first post, and I think you were refering to 'dating' right??

I agree.

In most churches they don't encourage dating for experience, they only encourage you to date, if you think you are going to marry that person, and who knows the woman on the other side may not even be thinking about marriage, especially if she is quite a bit younger than him.

madlady:

BEAF SIR

A true politician,muck racker and thrower
Who the hell say we should freely procreate, I am not playing with u,u have forked tongue.
Show me the back of your head, what number is it? 666 or 999 >: hell or jail house 4 u.

Yes ma! It was my girlfriends tongue.

If I have annoyed you, please forgive and forget, the only number at the back of my head is your phone number. Whenever we meet, (hell, jail house, anywhere) we can proceed to freely procreate. In wicked ways, at random times until you see sun and think its moon. . .
I promise that by the time your left ear moves to your navel and your eyes pleasantly fall on the floor, by the time you wake up with an everlasting smile like someone touched by the spirit of Jah; then you too will become a convert to free procreation.

Which levels na?

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Mehn so jews don't believe in God.Are you even white?.Enjoy work

girls want to see wat stuff ur r made of. ur style, carriage, analytical skills, personality etc. u dnt just stop coz a girl gave u a 'No'. girls luv been chased, pampered, cared for, and luved.
show her ur stuff, she's scared 2 give in to you coz d last person who had her heart didnt treat it nicely, she's scared of her future with u. it has got nathin 2 do with sex coz she even has 2 be close 4 u 2 talk abt sex, it may take a little yle, but prove urself 2 her, kip trying, u'll find ur match someday