Some days ago, we posted an article titled “If your girlfriend does this don’t marry her” and we highlighted some signs that, your current girlfriend is not a wife material… We are not selfish people, so we don’t wanna focus on our ladies alone. Let us turn the spot light to our men too. Some men are “husband material” once you meet them and date them, in a few months into the relationship you would already know that this one can be a husband. However on the flip side. There are some men that are bombs waiting to explode and if you are blindly inlove with them and marry them. Then you are In for shit.
But because we @truenaijayarn are loving people and wouldn’t want any of our readers to end up in bad marriages we would take the time out to highlight some signs in a man that if a lady sees, she should run as fast as her legs can carry her.

1.HE LOVES TO SLEEP:Real men are made at night. If you are currently seeing a guy and he boldly tells you “Babe everyday I sleep by 9pm” you had better call that off. Unless you wanna feed him for the rest of your life. Even dangote, the richest man in Africa hardly sleeps at night. Then your boyfriend who isn’t the 10,000th man in his community, sleeps by 9pm everyday.

2.HE FLIRTS:Even when you are walking with him and a girl passes him. He would turn around and steal a glance at that Ass. Your are busy saying “he’s a man, all men cheat” you better call it off.. Cos you are dating a cheetah,and he would soon run and leave you.

3.HE SPENDS ALL DAY ON THE INTERNET:Internet is cool. But when you have a boyfriend and whenever you Come online on whatsapp he’s there, Facebook he’s online, 2go he’s online, Twitter… Is he omnipresent? If he’s not working or making money with all those, then cut that relationship off.

4.A PERVERT:Everytime you guys talk…. He’s asking for your nudes. And tells you that if you don’t send it to him. He would get it from another girl. Funny, a lot of girls would foolishly send.
Even after he marries you, a perv would always be a perv.

5.NO FUTURE AMBITION(NFA):You have asked him what his plans for his life and the relationship was… And he said “baby let’s roll with the flow, let tommorrow handle itself” this may sound cool. But it’s not. This is indeed a very Red Light. Unless you wanna beg with your lover at Ikeja cross over, you better run for your life.

6.HE TALKS TOO MUCH:Yea you may say “ah ah is talking bad?” no. Talking in itself isn’t bad. But it becomes bad when all a man does is talk. A man should be cool, calm and collected. When your man talks even more than you, then you need to back off. Unless he’s a TV presenter, then it’s cool.

7.DOESN’T SAVE:I know the girls wants a guy that would spend money on them, buy them clothes, shoes and all that. It’s good if he has a sure and steady income flow. But it is outrageous if he is still coming up in life and all he does is spend money either on you or himself. Teach him to save. Don’t be selfish especially when he’s spending on you.

8.VERY MATERIAL:If he is the kinda guy that wants to wear the latest shoes, shirts and have an iPhone6. Then you better rethink that relationship, if you marry him, you may not eat at home but you guys would have the latest LG plasma TV!For no reason, don’t get married to a man who is overly attached to material things.

9.HAS NO FAITH/BELIEF:This means, don’t marry a liberalist. A man must have a foundation on a faith or belief system. If your current boyfriend is the “anything goes” kinda guy. Maybe the day he slaps you he would say “anything goes”

http://truenaijayarn.com/if-your-boyfriend-does-this-dont-marry-him/

Source;Www.truenaijayarn.com

The 2nd and 9th point ruined it. Which guy doesn't flirts occasionally? And what has one belief got to do with their overall morals? Great minds like Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gates and even the founder of this platform are non believers. What has that got to do with their character, principles or morals?

Ladies love compulsive talkers. Quote me anywhere.

ronald4lif:
The 2nd and 9th point ruined it. Which guy doesn't flirts occasionally? And what has one belief got to do with their overall morals? Great minds like Mark Zuckerberg, Bill Gates and even the founder of this platform are non believers. What has that got to do with their character, principles or morals?

Everyone has a belief dear. Everyone is faithful to someone or something.

Very well said Op

reading. . .

So if a literalist proposes, I should reject it heh? Is that what you are saying Op.... Please remove that last point before I squeeze ur neck

The first point is arant nonsense! So after someone hustles through out the day, he shouldn't sleep well cos someone would not marry him if he does.


One of the myth that poor people carry is that rich men don't sleep at night. I know a certain rich man who sleep early and wakes early, all his plans are made early in the morning (from 4:am). That's when ur mind is clear to think.

so any guy that do any of this isnt worth marrying.. Smh Mrs.menopause dey eye some people

LuveU2:


Everyone has a belief dear. Everyone is faithful to someone or something.

Faithful to something yes, but faithful to someone? I don't think so. Atheists and other non believers aren't faithful to any animate objects or higher beings.

ronald4lif:


Faithful to something yes, but faithful to someone? I don't think so. Atheists and other non believers aren't faithful to any animate objects or higher beings.

Okay.

When I wake, I will comment

Me too

Okay.

A CHEETAH!?, HAAHAAHA, OK MI LADIES OVER TO YOU.

well I don't totally agree with you OP. Relationship is a matter of choice and not that a list of what you expect.

Pheeew! I'm a flirt

OP, flirting no de finish o. So, stop that

bstringz:
Some days ago, we posted an article titled “If your girlfriend does this don’t marry her” and we highlighted some signs that, your current girlfriend is not a wife material… We are not selfish people, so we don’t wanna focus on our ladies alone. Let us turn the spot light to our men too. Some men are “husband material” once you meet them and date them, in a few months into the relationship you would already know that this one can be a husband. However on the flip side. There are some men that are bombs waiting to explode and if you are blindly inlove with them and marry them. Then you are In for shit.
But because we @truenaijayarn are loving people and wouldn’t want any of our readers to end up in bad marriages we would take the time out to highlight some signs in a man that if a lady sees, she should run as fast as her legs can carry her.

1.HE LOVES TO SLEEP:Real men are made at night. If you are currently seeing a guy and he boldly tells you “Babe everyday I sleep by 9pm” you had better call that off. Unless you wanna feed him for the rest of your life. Even dangote, the richest man in Africa hardly sleeps at night. Then your boyfriend who isn’t the 10,000th man in his community, sleeps by 9pm everyday.

2.HE FLIRTS:Even when you are walking with him and a girl passes him. He would turn around and steal a glance at that Ass. Your are busy saying “he’s a man, all men cheat” you better call it off.. Cos you are dating a cheetah,and he would soon run and leave you.

3.HE SPENDS ALL DAY ON THE INTERNET:Internet is cool. But when you have a boyfriend and whenever you Come online on whatsapp he’s there, Facebook he’s online, 2go he’s online, Twitter… Is he omnipresent? If he’s not working or making money with all those, then cut that relationship off.

4.A PERVERT:Everytime you guys talk…. He’s asking for your nudes. And tells you that if you don’t send it to him. He would get it from another girl. Funny, a lot of girls would foolishly send.
Even after he marries you, a perv would always be a perv.

5.NO FUTURE AMBITION(NFA):You have asked him what his plans for his life and the relationship was… And he said “baby let’s roll with the flow, let tommorrow handle itself” this may sound cool. But it’s not. This is indeed a very Red Light. Unless you wanna beg with your lover at Ikeja cross over, you better run for your life.

6.HE TALKS TOO MUCH:Yea you may say “ah ah is talking bad?” no. Talking in itself isn’t bad. But it becomes bad when all a man does is talk. A man should be cool, calm and collected. When your man talks even more than you, then you need to back off. Unless he’s a TV presenter, then it’s cool.

7.DOESN’T SAVE:I know the girls wants a guy that would spend money on them, buy them clothes, shoes and all that. It’s good if he has a sure and steady income flow. But it is outrageous if he is still coming up in life and all he does is spend money either on you or himself. Teach him to save. Don’t be selfish especially when he’s spending on you.

8.VERY MATERIAL:If he is the kinda guy that wants to wear the latest shoes, shirts and have an iPhone6. Then you better rethink that relationship, if you marry him, you may not eat at home but you guys would have the latest LG plasma TV!For no reason, don’t get married to a man who is overly attached to material things.

9.HAS NO FAITH/BELIEF:This means, don’t marry a liberalist. A man must have a foundation on a faith or belief system. If your current boyfriend is the “anything goes” kinda guy. Maybe the day he slaps you he would say “anything goes”

http://truenaijayarn.com/if-your-boyfriend-does-this-dont-marry-him/

Source;Www.truenaijayarn.com

dust

lasisi69:
dust

how would someone just think he knows all or his perfect, and anything outside his views are totally wrong, pathetic... OP is your type ladies need do run away from

This OP needs clay, you need to mould him yourself and marry

he sleeps too much doesnt mean sh*t.

BiafraBushBoy:
When I wake, I will comment

burst my head

Nice
I love number 6, guys that talk much piss me off

1. he should not sleep at all
2. as if ladies dont flirt, who flirt pass....agent of temptation
3. guyz-internent, ladies-nollywood movies(africa magic)
4. if he is a pervert, you are a side chic or chop and clean mouth
5. gf not a wife pls, the level of trust is minimal. he cant discus is whole life with you
6. ladies love guyz that talk, "he does not keep to himself"
7. you will call him stingy if he saves
8. women are too complicated, if he has nothing can you date him?. "Your whole worth cant even buy my phone"
9. not even a point

The real fact, i see nothing in all these..... No man is perfect. What if i dey sleep well well but i dont talk too much? Ladies, you better don't follow all these unless you get clay and mould your own husband.

Emodeee:
Ladies love compulsive talkers. Quote me anywhere.

WTF that's not true

Another Rule book made by a person whose life is full of problems.
I don't sleep much, i find it boring but i have to sleep when I need to sleep. so if a man sleeps by 9pm then that makes him not marriage material?
if a man doesn't believe in Jesus or Allah then he is less than a man ?

yawning

onstelly:
Nice
I love number 6, guys that talk much piss me off

even when they are telling you those things you love to hear abi?

on the other hand... imakazikwa! mmhhhh! aru di gi mma!